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Would you expect her to tell you?

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Anothersquirrel · 17/03/2026 09:19

Ive typed this out 3 times but now decided to keep it dead simple!

Would you want/expect your friend to tell you if they found out that your child had told their child they think they're gay?
(kids are 12)

YABU - yes
YANBU - no

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Anothersquirrel · 17/03/2026 09:36

Thank you !
Ill try and enable voting ...

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Scottishlassie10 · 17/03/2026 09:36

Do you mean your child said they themselves think they’re gay, or do they think their friend is gay?
Either way I wouldn’t say anything to the parents as it’s none of my business.

ColdAsAWitches · 17/03/2026 09:35

You're going to have to try again as you didn't enable voting.

But for what it's worth, no I wouldn't say anything. Kids say lots of things. I might assume the parents already know. It's not a big deal. It's none of my business. Lots of reasons not to.