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AIBU to get COVID flashbacks from the Meningitis Outbreak

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LawlessLeslie · 16/03/2026 20:29

The students who think they have been in contact with the virus are queuing up for antibiotics. Those interviewed on the news, are saying once they have the medication they will be heading home.
So thousands of people in contact with something that has killed plan to move across the country.
I don’t expect the government to enforce lock down on anyone but it doesn’t seem like an ideal situation for the rest of the country.

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Ap42 · 16/03/2026 22:45

I live in an area affected by this outbreak, and people are pulling their children out of school. In that respect it feels very much like covid times, as people are panicked. The difference is we have treatments for meningitis.

Miranda65 · 16/03/2026 22:40

Most of us can remember serious meningitis outbreaks from our time at university, even if it was decades ago. They are unfortunate, but not uncommon.
If people spread ridiculous scaremongering nonsense, they deserve to be firmly put in their place and told to grow up.

ThereAreOnlyShadesOfGrey · 16/03/2026 22:34

This thread is idiotic.

Meningitis is actually not that uncommon in uni settings. This is nothing like Covid.

DeftWasp · 16/03/2026 22:28

mynameiscalypso · 16/03/2026 21:32

Aren’t most of the cases linked back to a nightclub where there was a lot of kissing/sharing vapes/people in close proximity? Meningitis spreads in that kind of environment or where people are living in close proximity. I don’t think there’s a wider risk to the public.

This is true, which is why it is sensible to disperse the students rather than keeping them cooped up in halls, sharing cutlery / foods, snogging etc, all of which could keep it going.

DeftWasp · 16/03/2026 22:25

MrsDoylesLastTeabag · 16/03/2026 21:03

Meningitis and Covid are very different beasts. Meningitis is relatively hard to transmit. It is not airborne in the same way. You can get it from kissing or if someone coughs directly on you but it is not literally floating around in the air that you are breathing and therefore unavoidable. Also, it is not a novel disease as Covid was. We know which antibiotics and treatments work for it. The viral forms are much less serious than the bacterial form. Students have been given antibiotics as a known, sensible preventative measure.

Exactly, from a practical standpoint they are better off being broken up and dispersed rather than remaining in halls, in close proximity, when spread will likely continue at a low level - easiest way to stop it is to dish out antibiotics and disperse.

EvangelineTheNightStar · 16/03/2026 22:11

@UpTheWomen very succinct advice is best Don’t snog a teenage stranger on a train and you’ll be grand. 😄

Uglydumpling · 16/03/2026 22:07

LawlessLeslie · 16/03/2026 21:22

So why are they going home then, rather than staying put and studying?

Because they are like you and letting their minds run away from them

Uglydumpling · 16/03/2026 22:05

LawlessLeslie · 16/03/2026 20:29

The students who think they have been in contact with the virus are queuing up for antibiotics. Those interviewed on the news, are saying once they have the medication they will be heading home.
So thousands of people in contact with something that has killed plan to move across the country.
I don’t expect the government to enforce lock down on anyone but it doesn’t seem like an ideal situation for the rest of the country.

You are way off

its not highly contagious - completely different

Crwysmam · 16/03/2026 22:04

mumofoneAloneandwell · 16/03/2026 21:22

Is it highly transmittable?

My dd is 6, and had the mmr vaccines, is she at risk? x

Unless she is planning to spend time with a bunch of late teens/young adults in close communal living space, with regular nights out at the local night club then I think she will be fine.

Meningitis is passed on by very close contact such as kissing, sharing vapes, cigarettes, drinks bottles or glasses and possibly sex.
It is a problem for the uni age group because of their behaviour.

It is a problem in young babies because of their immature immune system and also for anyone who is immunosuppressed. But most immunosuppressed individuals are at risk from lots of stuff so are used to being careful.

Most unis are pretty hot on meningitis risk and students are given info packs from Meningitis Now. When DS arrived at halls in his first year I made sure that I pinned the info on his noticed board. We’ve had two cases of bacterial meningitis in our family so I’m a bit hyper vigilant about meningitis. I frequently reinforce the protocol and insist he contacts me if he is unwell. He very rarely complains about being unwell so I’m know if he contacts me it’s more than a common cold.

We’ve just been through 6 months of scabies treatment. Like most I believed the “ just a couple of treatments and all will be fine “ info on the NHS site. It has been more like 6 months of full blown chemical warfare.

CassandraCan · 16/03/2026 22:03

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Agreed. Think of the poor parents who have suffered losing a child.

i seriously wonder about people these days

EwwPeople · 16/03/2026 21:59

LawlessLeslie · 16/03/2026 20:59

If I thought I had come in contact with something serious enough to need antibiotics I would go straight home and rest up, not hop on a train full of potentially vulnerable people.

Ear infections, chest infections, teeth infections , bites etc. they all need antibiotics. Needing antibiotics doesn’t quantify the seriousness of the situation. Confused

Allaboutthecats · 16/03/2026 21:57

Londonrach1 · 16/03/2026 21:05

I went to another uni 30 years ago with a similar outbreak...you get the antibiotics and it was contained in my uni case. It is not covid!

Cardiff? I remember. Was a scary time

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 16/03/2026 21:54

EvangelineTheNightStar · 16/03/2026 21:07

Oh God please no! No mnet Covid level hysteria with talk. Of rounding up the infected and isolating them!
the posts before of “AIBU to lock my 8 yo in her room for 12 days as she coughed at breakfast”… that thread haunts me still of the poster who would only allow her child out of the room for toilet breaks at specific times…. I still hope it was a troll.

*Wait until someone posts about putting cheese in their coffee because they're out of milk!

*Before some know it all pipes up, yes I know it was a joke that got snowballed and not a serious suggestion.

Forthesteps · 16/03/2026 21:46

mumofoneAloneandwell · 16/03/2026 21:22

Is it highly transmittable?

My dd is 6, and had the mmr vaccines, is she at risk? x

Unless she has been mixing very closely with undergrads etc who have been exposed to infection, almost certainly no.
Meningitis is an entirely different illness to the mmr vaccine targets. However as someone upthread has said she ought to also have had Menb vax too as part of usual regime. Check her health record and find out.

Bananacharmer · 16/03/2026 21:46

Posted too soon. I just think it’s really sad but as a parent of kids the same age living away from home (and frankly all their dubious habits) I do think it’s worrying. The natural urge would be to want them to come home where we can keep an eye on them. Lots of students will be travelling home for Easter anyway. It’s worrying enough generally knowing that they’re out clubbing and may come home alone stupidly drunk or even spiked and this adds a whole dimension of fear I think. The concern being that the deterioration is fast and could be dismissed as a hangover or whatever.They’re not the most cautious age as it is. I really feel for parents with kids in the area, but yes, it will be difficult to contain for sure.News reports seem to indicate men c, which not many will be vaccinated against, but reports don’t seem definite yet ?

Goodadvice1980 · 16/03/2026 21:42

No scaremongering OP. People will be out panic buying pasta and bog roll again if we’re not careful.

LawlessLeslie · 16/03/2026 21:42

mumofoneAloneandwell · 16/03/2026 21:22

Is it highly transmittable?

My dd is 6, and had the mmr vaccines, is she at risk? x

If up to date on childhood vaccinations a 6 year old will have been vaccinated against meningitis b which accounts for roughly 88% of cases. They haven’t yet disclosed which type of meningitis it is though.

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Ifeeltheneedtheneedforcoffee · 16/03/2026 21:39

mumofoneAloneandwell · 16/03/2026 21:36

I'm being dense i know 🙈

I should have also said not to worry. Just read up on the symptoms so you know as its good to know but despite what the op is trying to frighten you with it isnt like covid.
Meningitis spreads quickly in university students because they live together and lots of kissing and sharing etc.
Different lifestyle to a 6 year old! 😁

Bananacharmer · 16/03/2026 21:39

I j

mumofoneAloneandwell · 16/03/2026 21:36

Ifeeltheneedtheneedforcoffee · 16/03/2026 21:34

She's been vaccinated for measles mumps and rubella

I'm being dense i know 🙈

golddiamond · 16/03/2026 21:34

OP, you need to educate yourself on Meningitis before scaremongering.

Ifeeltheneedtheneedforcoffee · 16/03/2026 21:34

mumofoneAloneandwell · 16/03/2026 21:22

Is it highly transmittable?

My dd is 6, and had the mmr vaccines, is she at risk? x

She's been vaccinated for measles mumps and rubella

Ifeeltheneedtheneedforcoffee · 16/03/2026 21:33

LawlessLeslie · 16/03/2026 21:22

So why are they going home then, rather than staying put and studying?

Its almost Easter break.
The university has stopped face to face learning and exams
They want to see family
Many reasons. If I had a child at the uni I would rather they were home taking antibiotics and then if they did become ill I could keep an eye on them rather than being on their own ill and worried

mynameiscalypso · 16/03/2026 21:32

Aren’t most of the cases linked back to a nightclub where there was a lot of kissing/sharing vapes/people in close proximity? Meningitis spreads in that kind of environment or where people are living in close proximity. I don’t think there’s a wider risk to the public.

UpTheWomen · 16/03/2026 21:26

LawlessLeslie · 16/03/2026 21:22

So why are they going home then, rather than staying put and studying?

So they don’t keep passing it around among themselves. Lots of teens in small rooms, shared bathrooms which aren’t cleaned often enough, never opening the windows, sharing drinks and not being very good at doing the washing up, snogging lots of new people - it’s the same as glandular fever, spreads easily among students due to living in close quarters and being intimate with each other and not too fussy about hygiene.