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AIBU to challenge someone using video call in communal changing rooms?

33 replies

Notsureaboutthatreallyy · 16/03/2026 18:19

AiBU to speak to a woman in the changing room who was having a video call at the mirror whilst doing her hair? No one was behind her at that point but it is an open communal changing room with showers and women walk around in and out of the shower with/without towels.

She looked really surprised to be spoken to. I just said “I don’t think you should have your camera on in the changing rooms” She said no one was behind her so couldn’t see the issue.
AIBY?

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RodeoClown · 16/03/2026 18:25

YANBU. At my gym you are not allowed to use your phone at all in the changing room for any purpose. Like at school where the kids all ‘just looking at the time’.

Notsureaboutthatreallyy · 16/03/2026 18:24

Yes I’m in the gym now but will tell them on my way out.

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BlusteryLake · 16/03/2026 18:24

Good lord, people are just getting less and less socially aware. Completely inappropriate to have a camera on in any kind of changing room.

Poetnojo · 16/03/2026 18:24

Jesus Christ, what on earth was she thinking?!
You were definitely right to challenge her on it, what a bloody idiot.

newornotnew · 16/03/2026 18:24

YANBU, it should be reported.

Duvetdayneeded · 16/03/2026 18:22

Stupid woman. Yanbu

pinkyredrose · 16/03/2026 18:21

YANBU!!

YerMotherWasAHamster · 16/03/2026 18:20

YANBU. You should have alerted staff