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Ever flown business class? Is it worth it?

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LowFlyingBacon · 15/03/2026 17:26

A little bit of background needed here so trying to avoid drip feeding! Sorry it’s much longer than I intended!

I'm due to go on holiday next month. It’s a big birthday holiday so I’m trying to make it a big treat! I’m flying as a single parent with two, primary aged, children. One has complex additional needs, one has mild. Both are good travellers.

I’ve had a text from my airline today to say that my flights have changed. I’ve had a look online and my 1 hour layover at JFK is now a 6 hour one. Because of my kids, this is really bad news. The flight is a night flight so a one hour layover meant we would get off the first flight, toilet, snack and then get ready to board the next. Now we have 6 hours in a busy airport with two tired kids. I’ve contacted the airline (Virgin) and been told that I can’t prebook into a lounge for ‘health and safety’ reasons. And they can’t guarantee entry into the lounge when I get there unless I’m flying upper class. I’ve had a look on the app and there’s an option to bid on an upgrade, and for £400 each, I’ve got a reasonable chance of getting it. If I don’t, then I’m in my original seats and it doesn’t cost anything.

the issue is, I’ve never flown business class before. It’s been a dream but this is the first time I’ve ever actually considered it. Financially I know it’s not worth it for the free lounge food and a lie down bed (we will sleep the entire flight I’m hoping!) but mentally I’m thinking that it might be to avoid the stress at the airport, the shorter queues and embarkation, and the extra treat of a lovely bed for the flight?

for financial information- I am basically a broke lone parent, and this holiday has already cost a fortune. But I do have enough to cover this as holiday spending money. It means we will have less to spend on our (all inclusive) holiday, but won’t bankrupt me. It’s more the idea of spending the equivalent of another holiday on upgrades to flights I’ve already paid for that’s the issue?

So lovely people of mumsnet- is business class worth it?

YABU- save your money, it’s not worth it
YANBU- it’s a big holiday and this will relieve so much stress that it’s worth it

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Theyreeatingthedogs · 24/03/2026 13:20

Comedycook · 15/03/2026 18:16

I've flown business class once. Probably the best seven hours of my life!

Wow. A low bar!!!

BillyNoProblems · 24/03/2026 06:18

The NY-Lon flight is very short, actual flying time tends to be around 6 hours. You won't be able to lie down until you're up in the air and seatbelt sign is off, and you'll have to get ready for landing 40 mins before landing. So you'll get about 4.5hrs to sleep.

Beekman · 24/03/2026 01:11

The night flight home seems very quick. Usually it comes in at around 6 hours. They dim the lights for most of the journey and everyone sleeps or at least sits quietly. I never upgrade that way, not even with points/ miles. You’re not on the plane long enough to get the benefit.

LowFlyingBacon · 17/03/2026 21:16

@Beekman its an overnight flight from JFK to London. It’s a day flight from London but I’m worried about the night flight home :)

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TeeBee · 17/03/2026 12:55

What terminal are you in? You can hire a quiet room (Minute Suite) in Terminals 4 and 5 I think. Probably much cheaper than upgrading your flights.

Beekman · 17/03/2026 12:38

JFK Terminal 4 for transfers is about as smooth as it gets. The bag re-check is literally outside the customs area you walk through after you have picked up your baggage and there is often no line whatsoever. Then it’s upstairs to go through security again and that’s it. Never seen it looking remotely chaotic. Other terminals may vary but as you’re flying Virgin and presumably on with Delta, it will be 4.

Did you say you were flying overnight from LHR, OP? I didn’t know there were any overnight flights- what time do you arrive at JFK? This will make a difference.

Franpie · 16/03/2026 14:15

LowFlyingBacon · 16/03/2026 12:29

Thanks everyone. I think my main concern is the kids getting overwhelmed by the airport and it causing a meltdown which would be horrific. The noise/business etc can cause sensory overload in both so that’s why I’m worried

Apparently there’s new sensory suites in terminal 4 at JFK for people travelling with children with additional needs.

PurpleThistle7 · 16/03/2026 12:41

LowFlyingBacon · 16/03/2026 12:29

Thanks everyone. I think my main concern is the kids getting overwhelmed by the airport and it causing a meltdown which would be horrific. The noise/business etc can cause sensory overload in both so that’s why I’m worried

I very much understand - my daughter is autistic and travelling can be challenging. The issue is though, that a lot of the chaos can't be avoided, particularly in JFK. I think you dodged a bullet having the flight times changed actually as you would never have made the hour layover and you'd have to rebook there.

Have you transferred in an American airport before? It's a long process and you'll need a lot of time to calmly work through it. Can you ask for accessibility support? I know it's a wheelchair but then at least you can skip some of the queuing.

LowFlyingBacon · 16/03/2026 12:29

Thanks everyone. I think my main concern is the kids getting overwhelmed by the airport and it causing a meltdown which would be horrific. The noise/business etc can cause sensory overload in both so that’s why I’m worried

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GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 16/03/2026 09:18

Definitely worth it for long night flights, if the seat can turn into a flat bed. And a lot nicer anyway, I wouldn’t bother for short haul - not if I was paying, anyway.

With children at least you’d get more room.

And I do agree, the lounges make it a more pleasant experience, especially if you’re like me and hate airports generally.

The trouble with flying business or first class, though, is that it completely ruins you for ever needing to go cattle class later.

G5000 · 16/03/2026 09:12

I agree, haven't been there for a couple of year but 1 hour to connect in JFK is crazy optimistic.

PurpleThistle7 · 16/03/2026 09:05

JFK is a nightmare of an airport so I think a 1 hour layover was crazy optimistic of them to even sell. I've never upgraded as I'd rather have the money to spend on holiday, but if your huge consideration is the lounge - I'm really not sure how long you'd have to spend in there anyway. You'll have to go through border control and customs and get your bag and recheck your bag and that will take a while. Queues for all that at JFK can take a while - it was 3 hours all in for me last time we went through there. Then by the time you get a snack, get to a toilet, have a wander around... it will be time to find your next gate. You'll maybe have 1-2 hour spare but not sure that's worth £1200.

Poparts · 16/03/2026 08:59

New York is such a short flight I wouldn’t bother. I would be trying to re arrange my flights instead for a shorter layover

PurBal · 16/03/2026 05:52

We’re flying business in August for all the on the ground benefits. The seats are actually a bit of a pain for the daytime flight with a 3 and 5 yo (BA Club Suite, can’t see each other). The return is a night flight so hoping we all get some sleep.

Extra luggage allowance
Priority check in/bag drop
Priority security
Lounge access (I will stock up with snacks for the flight)
Priority boarding
Priority disembarking
Priority luggage (gets to the carousel faster)
Arrivals lounge on return to LHR (night flight arriving at around 6am so DH and I will grab a shower and coffee before heading on the road). - Virgin have one at LHR too.

When I last flew with Virgin I found the herringbone seats are a little weird, but I liked it well enough and the lounge is good (much better than BA). The price is good too. In your layover situation I would grab a shower.

@LowFlyingBaconanyone who is in business / upper deserves to be travelling there. Their ticket is just as valid as anyone else’s.

Bollixtothat · 16/03/2026 02:22

LowFlyingBacon · 15/03/2026 17:58

Thanks everyone. I was concerned about taking the kids into business class, but they’ve always behaved well on flights and have travelled long haul many times before. I was trying to avoid being too outing but I’m guessing it’s a pretty unusual situation so kids are 10 and 8 so not too young. Old enough to know how to behave at least.

I’ve looked at the airplane type and googled the seats. It looks pretty dated to be honest, but lots of people were complaining you can see over the top of the dividers, which I thought would be a good thing. As I’ve said, it’s a night flight so I’m expecting them to sleep pretty quickly.

@Bollixtothat im not sure why you’re saying I can’t afford it when I’ve stated I have enough saved to pay for it outright, and it would just reduce the amount of spending money we would have when away?

because you said you’re a broke lone parent with two young children ? There will be much more worthy things to spend your money on in the near future than renting an expensive seat for a relatively short journey. Having the money doesn’t mean you can afford it? I’d save the money tbh. Lots of rainy days ahead of hen you’re on your own with two children.

Beekman · 16/03/2026 01:23

A 6 hour layover is not enough to go into Manhattan from JFK and there is absolutely nothing near the airport, just stay in the terminal. By the time you get off the plane, through immigration and have rechecked your bags, it will be time to go through security for your next flight.

If £1200 is a great deal of money to you and would make a difference to your trip overall to have this spending money then do not bother upgrading. I fly JFK to the UK and back often and I simply don’t think an upgrade using your own money is worth it.

Dont overthink it, OP. Your kids will be excited to be going on a plane and won’t care if they’re in business or not. Same with the lounges, which are not very interesting for children compared to an airport terminal

Relaxd · 16/03/2026 01:17

We fly business regularly for work and personal travel for long haul. Few
points to consider - check there are no online options with Virgin that allow a better layover and if so ask for that instead, they always fill the longer layovers first as they are hard to sell. Avoid a 1 hour layover - very short to get your luggage transferred so sometimes it comes ahead the next day which can be a massive pain! 2 - 2.5 hours is the sweet spot in my view. You can pay to enter other lounges at these airports, so even if you can’t use the virgin one you can pay for the broader entry ones. I’d phone their accessibility team and explain the issue and they may enable you to pre pay the virgin lounge. £400 is a very good deal but not essential if the lounge is your main interest and given you already have PE seats. The business class seats are individual pods facing away from each other - with a SEN child you may prefer sitting together in PE?

WaryHiker · 16/03/2026 01:00

In your position (also someone who travelled a lot with ND kids) I'd sit them down and tell them this is going to cost 1200 pounds. Here's what we could do on our holiday with that money but it will mean them committing to making that six-hour stopover easy for everyone by taking things they like to do and exercising some patience. What's their decision?

Berlinlover · 16/03/2026 00:25

JugglingMyNuts · 15/03/2026 19:29

That’s why people need to look at airlines and plane configurations. Even the same airline has different set ups depending on the the route/plane they fly. Some are not worth the money and some are.

I did look at the seat configuration and the seats I booked for the journey over and back were solo window seats. When I boarded the plane the configuration was completely different and the solo window seats didn’t exist.

CassandraCan · 15/03/2026 23:34

HolidayHappy123 · 15/03/2026 23:02

Business class is great, but to spend £1,200 that you can’t afford when your kids won’t appreciate it and you’ll have to sacrifice other things is crazy. You will survive the journey. Save your money and use it to have a fabulous time when you get there.

The OPs kids are old enough to appreciate it.

BiddyPopthe2nd · 15/03/2026 23:34

I’ve never done BC through JFK (been there a couple of times with DD when young) - we found places with pizza to buy airside, got her changed to PJs for final flight in bathrooms in airport (she stayed in runners as her shoes but got comfy). And I am way too used to being the “stuck in middle seat between DH/DD overnight to care…I sleep when we land). Load up on US content on iPads, find a quiet corner and think up a game that makes rhem move, then get them comfy and fed before boarding, then warm and cosy to encourage sleep on board. We used to travel with “blankie” for a reason (not just a favourite item…but a farourite small but fluffy and cosy fleece blanket she’d happily sleep under) (Then buy a nice drink from cabin staff to help your own sleep!)

CassandraCan · 15/03/2026 23:33

OhDear111 · 15/03/2026 18:01

@LowFlyingBaconThat's probably not pods then. Seat guru is good for choosing seats and looking at layout.

@OhDear111 sestguru no longer exists sadly.

yes OP fly business if you can. We only go business when long haul as no sleep in economy or premium is awful. We’ve done it since the kids were 3 and it’s bliss. As long as the kids can behave. Go for it, but make sure you have lounge access. Priority pass only gives access to the average lounges which are ok. The airline lounges give access to the decent lounges.

ChocolateBasket · 15/03/2026 23:09

HolidayHappy123 · 15/03/2026 23:02

Business class is great, but to spend £1,200 that you can’t afford when your kids won’t appreciate it and you’ll have to sacrifice other things is crazy. You will survive the journey. Save your money and use it to have a fabulous time when you get there.

Never mind the kids, it's worth £1200 for my own sanity.
Then again I can't sleep sat up. When flying from the US being able to sleep on an overnight flight makes a huge difference.

It's depressing enough coming back from holiday. I find business a nice last little luxury before getting home and at least I get home a lot less grumpy and tired.

The lounges are excellent as well, truly.

HolidayHappy123 · 15/03/2026 23:02

Business class is great, but to spend £1,200 that you can’t afford when your kids won’t appreciate it and you’ll have to sacrifice other things is crazy. You will survive the journey. Save your money and use it to have a fabulous time when you get there.