These types of posts remind me of playground bullies, picking on kids who choose to wear certain things, or look certain ways because the bully has unchallenged issues which are misdirected onto other children:
Jealousy
Low self-esteem
Miserable in life
Stuck up
Nasty
Spiteful
No healthy-minded person looks at another woman and becomes triggered by a hair bow.
I am 40 and have many large bows. I also enjoy dressing alternatively. I dress for what makes me happy. Imagine me looking at whatever you're wearing and making the following post:
"AIBU to be annoyed by the accessory this woman is wearing because everyone else also wears them?"
Like, what harm is it causing you? Does it directly effect you? Why does it make you feel so triggered?
I could turn around and say that women who don't wear accessories and just stick to jeans, tailored trousers, m&s top, little handbag and flats are quite bland&boring because they don't experiment with accessories. However, that isn't dping any good for the support and uplifting of women whom are comfortable in their own skin, doing their own thing.
People like you do not help a woman's cause, in this day and age when we should be supporting one another more than ever. Therefore, please tackle your mental health issues that are giving you unhealthy feelings and behaviours when seeing 'women wearing hair bows'. Women have been wearing hair bows for hundreds of years - Specifically during the high-society periods.
In a nutshell- Mind your own business, none of your concern, just look after yourself.