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AIBU to question praying and sleeping in the library kids area?

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sunshine240778474 · 13/03/2026 20:12

Yesterday I took the kids to the local library (Inverness, scotland). The local library has a kids area. The kids area has a nice artificial grass mat for the kids to sit and read their books on.

When I entered the library there was a man who had folded the kids mat over so he could kneel on the floor and pray to Allah.

Therefore this prevented the kids from sitting on the mat and reading their books.
The man was praying for a while.

I don't have a problem with someone praying if that's what they want to do.

Is it appropriate to be doing it in the kids area in a local library?

Also, there was a woman curled up in the corner of the library sleeping. This was also in the kids area.

I've seen people sleeping in the library on a few occasions now. I've never seen it in the kids' area.

Ofcourse, I feel sorry for her if she's tired, but again is it appropriate to be using the local library, especially the kids area, as a shelter?

I left the library, and told the staff politely, I didn't find it kid friendly.

Was I being unreasonable?

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SplendidUtterly · 13/03/2026 20:32

No it's not ok.

YANBU

Screamingabdabz · 13/03/2026 20:30

tonyhawks23 · 13/03/2026 20:29

I don't get why it's inappropriate?what's wrong with prayers and rest?

🙄

OrdinaryMagicOfAcorns · 13/03/2026 20:29

JaneBoleyn · 13/03/2026 20:23

I think id try to lean on the perspective that anyone walking into a library should be welcomed.

That means everyone has to share the public space and make it accessible to everyone. It’s not appropriate to take over a portion for religious pursuits, especially not in the kids section. It always annoys me when special interest groups think ‘everyone being welcomed’ means they can block a public area off and claim it for themselves. That’s not what public means at all.

tonyhawks23 · 13/03/2026 20:29

I don't get why it's inappropriate?what's wrong with prayers and rest?

shiningstar2 · 13/03/2026 20:28

If this is the children's section then the space should be available to do children's reading, story telling and other activities. I might like to pray or sleep but that doesn't mean that if I wish to do something in an area designated for something else my wish/need should be accommodated at the expensive of people wishing to use the area for it's designated purpose.

KatiMaus · 13/03/2026 20:24

Totally inappropriate.

I guess it's probably difficult for the library staff to intervene, too. It must be awkward to have to wake someone up and tell them to move. Can't imagine having to do that as part of my working day. Maybe they've been told not to in the interests of avoiding confrontation.

JaneBoleyn · 13/03/2026 20:23

I think id try to lean on the perspective that anyone walking into a library should be welcomed.

CousinBette · 13/03/2026 20:23

YANBU on the face of it, but people will be along here shortly to accuse you of lying / having an axe to grind / being a member of Reform.

Did you ask the librarian to speak to the chap, as it sounds as if he was stopping the children’s section from being used by children?

sunshine240778474 · 13/03/2026 20:20

@Lemonfrost oh really, so it's pretty common

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Lemonfrost · 13/03/2026 20:18

Hmmmmm. This sort of post keeps popping up.....

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