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Poor pets, just disposable to these Dubai residents

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NototerrorismIntheUK · 12/03/2026 16:38

Reflection of Dubai ' non national residents'. I judge you.

Fleeing and dumping cats and dogs. So basically pets left to die. Another character flaw to add to the vain, awful types that live there. Fake Dubai, modern day slavery loving, artificial, grim, and no conscience so animals are also disposable. 😢

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2026/mar/11/pets-abandoned-dubai-expat-owners-flee-iran-war

Thousands of pets being abandoned in Dubai as owners flee over Iran war

RSPCA say animals could become ‘hidden victims’ of conflict as charities in Gulf city report being overwhelmed

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2026/mar/11/pets-abandoned-dubai-expat-owners-flee-iran-war

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Dweetfidilove · 12/03/2026 17:53

I wonder how pets survive in parts of the world where they're not treated like members of the family; just like animals fending for themselves. I'm guessing they all live horrific lives 😢.

EllieQ · 12/03/2026 17:52

Frugalgal · 12/03/2026 17:33

Nearly 100 years ago??

I think the previous poster was referring to this, if you hadn’t already seen the link someone else posted

Two cats

The little-told story of the massive WWII pet cull

At the beginning of World War II, a government pamphlet led to a massive cull of British pets. This little-discussed moment of panic is explored in a new book.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-24478532

NototerrorismIntheUK · 12/03/2026 17:51

Wetdoggo · 12/03/2026 17:50

@NototerrorismIntheUK im English but my mum was from Northern Ireland. My daddy was a soldier. We were home visiting my granny and me and her were up the street. The army evacuated us sharpish coz there was a bomb. We heard it bang as we ran away.

my granny had the hold of me so tight and she shifted like I’ve never seen before or since. And she literally flung herself around me when the bomb went off. I was about 7 so this would have been about 1975. I still remember the feeling of the bomb - not the noise but the feel.

I can assure you my granny would have killed the pope himself to get me to safety.

the dog wouldnt have even entered her head.

I can’t judge anyone who doesn’t take a pet in a life or death flee situation.

Edited

Fair enough.

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Wetdoggo · 12/03/2026 17:50

NototerrorismIntheUK · 12/03/2026 17:44

Fair enough.

@NototerrorismIntheUK im English but my mum was from Northern Ireland. My daddy was a soldier. We were home visiting my granny and me and her were up the street. The army evacuated us sharpish coz there was a bomb. We heard it bang as we ran away.

my granny had the hold of me so tight and she shifted like I’ve never seen before or since. And she literally flung herself around me when the bomb went off. I was about 7 so this would have been about 1975. I still remember the feeling of the bomb - not the noise but the feel.

I can assure you my granny would have killed the pope himself to get me to safety.

the dog wouldnt have even entered her head.

I can’t judge anyone who doesn’t take a pet in a life or death flee situation.

Teenagerantruns · 12/03/2026 17:49

I would probably just PTS if l couldn't take them, they wouldnt know any difference, love my pets but would always choose human family over animals.

NototerrorismIntheUK · 12/03/2026 17:49

Muffsies · 12/03/2026 17:30

Ugh. If the rise in animal euthenasia depresses you, don't look into the capital punishment figures; they've been doubling year-on-year. A high percentage are non-nationals, and usually from third world countires (surprise, surprise). They get trafficed there for work, often along with some drugs, then end up with no work and a death sentence. Of course, no effort is made to catch/stop the trafficers, who are bound to be predominently nationals.

Honestly, you couldn't drag me kicking and screaming to that country. I think anyone who goes there is either utterly ignorant, or they just don't give a single shit about other people (or animals).

Edited

I had no idea.

To be honest, Dubai hasn't crossed my mind until recently. This story saddened me. However, if they do as you say and treat humans appallingly then wow.

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Charlize43 · 12/03/2026 17:49

Could we not abandon the vacuous influencers & z-listers and airlift the pets to safety in the UK?

SaffronsMadAboutMe · 12/03/2026 17:49

Ionlymakejokestodistractmyself · 12/03/2026 17:35

Eaten up with hatred 😂😂😂

Or maybe it's just... topical? Quarter of a million Brits live(d) there and the OP literally referred to a news article about this very subject. So maybe have a go at The Guardian first 🤷🏼‍♀️

(Although I must admit I was spaffing off about Dubai / UAE / Qatar long before this war was a twinkle in Trump's eye. As a Dubai fan you must be familiar with their record on women's, migrant workers', LGBT+ and human rights)

The OP (like a few other MNetters) is eaten up with it and using a war in which people are suffering and dying, as a reason to spaff off about their hatred.

Never been to Dubai but I'm not a fan of this sort of vile behaviour we've seen since the war kicked off.

YellowFruitBowl · 12/03/2026 17:48

Animal welfare was never very high on the list of priorities in Dubai, tbh -- there used to be big culls of the large population of street strays before high-profile international events, and it wasn't wildly unusual for a certain type of person to keep a 'tame' cheetah or tiger cub chained up on their property.

OneTealTurtle · 12/03/2026 17:48

I see absolutely nothing wrong with this.

TappyGilmore · 12/03/2026 17:47

Maybe people should have thought ahead. When I was a child my family lived the expat life (fortunately never the Middle East, we were in Hong Kong and then in Singapore) and this is precisely why my parents would never let us get pets. Not because of war. Because it’s not your home country, you’re going to end up moving on eventually, and it’s difficult and expensive to move pets with you when you do leave.

But yes I totally agree OP, just cruel and disgusting.

Blushingm · 12/03/2026 17:46

NototerrorismIntheUK · 12/03/2026 17:21

Take animals with you?

There is no requirement for a pet passport currently. If coming back to Europe, then its quite safe to bring pets here. They aren't dashing off on little boats for their lives.

Your pet needs to be vaccinated against rabies for example and a blood test 30 days later that needs to go to a EU approved lab. Then wait 3 months after the blood draw. Plus tapeworm treatment 5 days before

What would you do if this was the case?

maysayyea · 12/03/2026 17:46

Don’t judge a person before walking a mile in their shoes. It’s very very easy to say from the safety of your home that “I would never ….”

SerendipityJane · 12/03/2026 17:45

Frugalgal · 12/03/2026 17:33

Nearly 100 years ago??

Things that happened 2000 years ago are still used in discussion today. 100 years is a mere tick tock,

KStockHERO · 12/03/2026 17:44

Absolutely soulless bag of cunts.

NototerrorismIntheUK · 12/03/2026 17:44

Herewegoagainandagainandagain · 12/03/2026 17:40

Lets take out of the conversation how many feel about Dubai in general as this could happen in many places.

I understand the instinct to want to save every life, especially our pets, they are part of our homes and lives and much loved.

But in real crisis situations, people are often forced to make impossible decisions very quickly. Flee the region or stay and potentially, directly face the horror of war.

Sadly, animals do become expendable when the priority has to be getting people and possibly children to safety.

If someone can take their pets with them, that is great. But if they can’t, that doesn’t make them cruel or uncaring, it means they’re doing what they must due to significant risks for their safety. I can imagine many tears have been shed over those pets that had to be left behind as options were limited.

Judging those choices only comes from a place of privilege or from never having experienced the chaos of a true emergency. I judge you OP, and your unrealistic expectations of others, more than them.

Fair enough.

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SideshowAuntSallyxx · 12/03/2026 17:43

itsthetea · 12/03/2026 16:39

I rather suspect that if bombs fell around here people would leave their pets easily - when you fear for your life many things change

Nope mine would be in their basket and going where ever I go. They're my responsibility, and not something just to dump.

Wetdoggo · 12/03/2026 17:43

BoredZelda · 12/03/2026 17:43

Your adopted city is under attack, and your home government has finally got you a flight, but you can’t take your dog, what do you do?

Exactly this.

BoredZelda · 12/03/2026 17:43

Your adopted city is under attack, and your home government has finally got you a flight, but you can’t take your dog, what do you do?

NototerrorismIntheUK · 12/03/2026 17:43

Daysgo · 12/03/2026 17:32

Plenty people leave pets behind in emergencies whether that be hurticanes, flooding, fires etc. id be pretty sure most are left behind due to people being rescued first. I don't think thats wrong tbh. Very sad, devastating maybe for lots of people who have pets but would u save ur dog before ur child?

Edited

Fair enough. I'm wrong.

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Wetdoggo · 12/03/2026 17:43

PuppiesProzacProsecco · 12/03/2026 17:39

I think you've misunderstood me. I meant if it was my husband vs my dogs, he might not come out of it so well.

Ah. I’d expect oh to support me and our kids - we are a blended family so I mean his and mine.

HellsBells13 · 12/03/2026 17:42

It would not enter my head to leave my babies. I rather wait out.

PoliteSquid · 12/03/2026 17:42

I adore my pets. But they are pets. When fleeing a war zone my pets would not be my priority and I absolutely would not risk my life for them!!

I have a relative who strongly supported the evacuation flight for dogs from Afghanistan - was very high profile a few years ago. Anyway they said “who cares about the people, those poor dogs” That horrified me and I lost a lot of respect for them as a person after that.

Herewegoagainandagainandagain · 12/03/2026 17:40

Lets take out of the conversation how many feel about Dubai in general as this could happen in many places.

I understand the instinct to want to save every life, especially our pets, they are part of our homes and lives and much loved.

But in real crisis situations, people are often forced to make impossible decisions very quickly. Flee the region or stay and potentially, directly face the horror of war.

Sadly, animals do become expendable when the priority has to be getting people and possibly children to safety.

If someone can take their pets with them, that is great. But if they can’t, that doesn’t make them cruel or uncaring, it means they’re doing what they must due to significant risks for their safety. I can imagine many tears have been shed over those pets that had to be left behind as options were limited.

Judging those choices only comes from a place of privilege or from never having experienced the chaos of a true emergency. I judge you OP, and your unrealistic expectations of others, more than them.

valentinka31 · 12/03/2026 17:40

Ionlymakejokestodistractmyself · 12/03/2026 17:12

Same. I don't really agree with the keeping of pets generally but if you do keep them, they're pets not babies and should be treated as such.

? so are pets just lives and souls that you treat as you like, with no responsibility??

these Dubai residents are all rich, so they should pay to relocate their pets.

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