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To ask what would you do with too much free time?!

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MoiraRoseIsMyQueen · 12/03/2026 16:08

I’ve been made redundant, and so won’t have a job as of the end of the month, and am on gardening leave currently. Obviously having all the usual panics about money and the seemingly insurmountable task of finding a new job in this market 😫But, my main worry at the moment is having nothing to do! I know this might sound like a nice problem to have, but it’s sending my anxiety through the roof. I have two kids and a lovely husband, so only school hours are free - but the thought of potentially months of this is panicking me, there’s only so much cleaning and baking I can do!

So, what would you do - with potentially a couple of months of free time, and very limited funds?!

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Ilovelurchers · 12/03/2026 18:17

I'd look for some kind of work to have at least some money coming in while I was hunting for my next "proper" job. Anything really - schools might need exam invigilators for example - dog walking, baby sitting, shop work or bar work, maybe sign on with some tempting agencies - depends what your skills and preferences are.

I couldn't stand the feeling of not working at all, I don't think. And if it takes longer than you hope to find your next "career" job, surely any money you can bring in in the meantime will be helpful.

Sorry you are in this position - it's something I have always dreaded .....

HalfasleepChrisintheMorning · 12/03/2026 17:51

I’d do a class or a walk every day.
I would take everything out of every cupboard in the house, loft, garage, shed, sort through it all and do a lot of charity shop/ tip/ Vinted.
I’d go out for lunch or coffee with a friend or my Mum every week.
I’d see the GP for all those tiny niggles like moles etc that I keep putting off.

I only work 2 days a week. I am managing 2 Pilates a week, a bit of Vinted and am currently on a mission to use my Bupa and get all my niggles checked. Not sure why I’m not getting more done!

angelcake20 · 12/03/2026 17:44

I was an SAHM until DC went to secondary school. Honestly by the time you been for coffee with friends, been to the gym, been to the supermarket and volunteered for a couple of sessions at school or similar, the week’s gone. Very little time was spent on language learning or even housework. Now I’m basically retired, I volunteer two days a week, meet friends, exercise and spend too long researching holidays and investments (and on MN and FB etc), though more language learning is getting done. Applying for jobs these days is quite time consuming as it is.

glitterpaperchain · 12/03/2026 17:25

Threads like this make me a bit sad honestly, there are so many great ways to spend your time!

I read, crochet, garden, do colouring, journal, listen to podcasts and audiobooks, do puzzles while watching TV. You can do online courses or learn a language, join a local group or start one. You could declutter your house, redecorate, do projects you've been meaning to get to, learn new recipes, get a new cookbook and cook your way through it.

Swiftie1878 · 12/03/2026 17:16

MoiraRoseIsMyQueen · 12/03/2026 16:08

I’ve been made redundant, and so won’t have a job as of the end of the month, and am on gardening leave currently. Obviously having all the usual panics about money and the seemingly insurmountable task of finding a new job in this market 😫But, my main worry at the moment is having nothing to do! I know this might sound like a nice problem to have, but it’s sending my anxiety through the roof. I have two kids and a lovely husband, so only school hours are free - but the thought of potentially months of this is panicking me, there’s only so much cleaning and baking I can do!

So, what would you do - with potentially a couple of months of free time, and very limited funds?!

Sign up to a genealogy site and do your family tree. You can lose hours so happily immersed and it’s a great gift to your children and family.

Mansionscoldandgrey · 12/03/2026 17:06

Sweet Fanny Adams 😄

IsawwhatIsaw · 12/03/2026 17:06

Similar-my job ends March 31st.
My aim is to take at least a month off , then consider what I want. Could retire, but I think I’ll get bored.
And I’m already finding myself spending too much time looking obsessively at job sites.

MoiraRoseIsMyQueen · 12/03/2026 16:51

Guillemets · 12/03/2026 16:45

You know, hobbies don’t always have to be useful. Enjoy the uselessness of today, and ready your usefulness for tomorrow.

This is genuinely such a helpful thing to read, thank you. I feel so guilty when I’m doing anything that doesn’t feel ‘useful’, so I will remember this.

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MoiraRoseIsMyQueen · 12/03/2026 16:50

BauhausOfEliott · 12/03/2026 16:35

What I would do is put my feet up and enjoy it.

It’s so hard to relax into anything ‘nice’ with the stress of money and trying to find a job! I’m in this horrible middle ground - lots of lovely free time and not feeling like I can enjoy it 🥴

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IndigoBluey · 12/03/2026 16:47

I’d plan some nice walks, short and long and finish at a cafe afterwards and do some reading.

maybe a free online course, in something you have an interest in. I enjoyed rebel finance and also did one wellbeing.

declutter house, recycling trips.

spend time on meal planning, writing up new recipes to try, if you like cooking of course

reading more

Wifey1face · 12/03/2026 16:46

I am off work currently and volunteer as a telephone buddy for Macmillan, the NHS, and a couple of other local charities. Most national charities will have opportunities if you contact them - it’s hugely rewarding.

Guillemets · 12/03/2026 16:45

You know, hobbies don’t always have to be useful. Enjoy the uselessness of today, and ready your usefulness for tomorrow.

Thundertoast · 12/03/2026 16:44

I'd get really fit!! You never know whats round the corner.

itsthetea · 12/03/2026 16:44

Get up at normal time
go for a walk after breakfast
spend 3 hrs on applications
lunch
exercise
one household job - any room to paint? A coffee table to fix up?

FlapperFlamingo · 12/03/2026 16:42

When I was in gardening leave I redecorated 2 rooms and the stairs/landing plus has a massive sort out of all cupboard. You could also check finances are in order (best rates, best insurance cost etc).

DaisyChain505 · 12/03/2026 16:40

Set yourself schedules for the day.

Take it slow in the mornings and have breakfast and watch something.

Potter about getting house jobs like washing, cleaning done.

Leave the house and get outside for a walk/run.

Set yourself half an hour aside to look for jobs/reply to emails etc.

BauhausOfEliott · 12/03/2026 16:35

What I would do is put my feet up and enjoy it.

MoiraRoseIsMyQueen · 12/03/2026 16:33

noidea69 · 12/03/2026 16:12

Gym, meal prep, batch cook.

I mean the obvious one is look for a new job.

My freezer is full and I’ve only been off a week 😂 Also finding I’m getting a bit obsessive about checking job websites (wit very little joy so far) so I’m very conscious that I need to intersperse job hunting with other things to stop me going insane!

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MoiraRoseIsMyQueen · 12/03/2026 16:32

GodSaveTheClean · 12/03/2026 16:13

No advice as in the same boat. I’ve looked on the Volunteer Action Network website and signed up for two very part time volunteer roles.

Otherwise house jobs, gardening and walking. But it’s hard to relax and enjoy the time whilst having the looming threat of not being able to pay the mortgage in a few months. DH also wfh so not very relaxing trying to not disturb him. The various
threads about the awful job market are scaring me so avoiding those..

An unmumsnetty solidarity hug for you.

Gosh, thank you, right back at you! It’s so hard to settle into doing anything ‘nice’ with the doom hanging over you isn’t it. Sending solidarity and crossing fingers for you!

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MiddleAgedDread · 12/03/2026 16:23

gym, run, sort out drawers / cupboards etc, decorating and DIY, maybe some online training.....

goingtotown · 12/03/2026 16:22

Declutter

faerylights · 12/03/2026 16:21

That sounds like bliss to me.

I'd take the dog out to explore lots of new places, give the house a good sort out and catch up with all the odd jobs I never get round to doing,

InWithPeaceOutWithStress · 12/03/2026 16:21

I would focus on getting fit (unless you are already) - you can get both cardiovascular fit and build a lot of strength in 12-months. The first 12 months is the hardest I think as it’s all new, lots of thinking and planning, slightly more gruelling, and it can feel hard to fit it in around work and other commitments.

Once you’ve achieved a certain level of fitness you can then just maintain it, it’s easier to fit around your work routine, you’re in the habit and it’s generally needs less day to day motivation. My local authority subsidised gym is less than £25 a month, so a fairly cheap hobby.

General fitness is so fundamental to living a long and happy life. I’d take this as a real opportunity to focus on that. It gives you a sense of achievement at the start of the day and you’ll be happy to just potter about after that.

Marmite27 · 12/03/2026 16:19

Gym
school reading
declutter the house
batch cook
cross stitch /knit / crochet

Jesswebster01 · 12/03/2026 16:17

Alot of schools are after people to go in and hour or two and read with the kids your kids school may also be? Id excercise and do all the jobs I'd been meaning to do round the house.

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