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To ask what would you do with too much free time?!

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MoiraRoseIsMyQueen · 12/03/2026 16:08

I’ve been made redundant, and so won’t have a job as of the end of the month, and am on gardening leave currently. Obviously having all the usual panics about money and the seemingly insurmountable task of finding a new job in this market 😫But, my main worry at the moment is having nothing to do! I know this might sound like a nice problem to have, but it’s sending my anxiety through the roof. I have two kids and a lovely husband, so only school hours are free - but the thought of potentially months of this is panicking me, there’s only so much cleaning and baking I can do!

So, what would you do - with potentially a couple of months of free time, and very limited funds?!

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k1233 · 13/03/2026 21:05

@MoiraRoseIsMyQueen maybe try to give your day some structure. Once kids are at school, hit the job boards and check for new roles. Have you approached any recruiting agencies for your industry? You might be able to pick up casual or contract work while you look. I've done that before and a three month contract turned into over 18 months and would have contined but I got a full time job elsewhere.

Once you've done all you can job hunting, then get any chores sorted. After that, do something you enjoy until school finishes.

Liteharted · 13/03/2026 20:58

You might find it's not as much free time as you think especially if the DC are in school normal hours (9-3ish). You will need time to search for jobs, apply and go to interviews plus there's the usual cleaning and admin. Go to the gym and spend an hour afterwards in the pool / spa.

Kapitolbench · 13/03/2026 20:53

Draw, paint. Knit, crochet , craft, bake….

garden, redecorate, sort out cupboards, clean

shop, attend adult ed courses, visit museums, read , meet friends for coffee

research things that interest you, learn to speak a language, practice / learn a musical instrument

read lots of books from the library, listen to audiobooks / podcasts

vd t museums, the theatre, art galleries.

a million things you can do… embrace them

cupfinalchaos · 13/03/2026 20:47

I’m 58 and don’t work anymore. Gym, meet friends, cook for family and dinner party prep.

JustAnotherDayWorkingAtHome · 13/03/2026 20:46

Yoga daily, Running, Reading newspaper, Reading books, walk dog, declutter, sort garden

TheChosenTwo · 13/03/2026 20:43

I think my approach would depend on how great the need was to earn money.
If it was desperate (as in, I needed to earn money within the next 3 months otherwise we wouldn’t be able to pay the bills) then I’d pretty much be job hunting morning til evening - including things like updating skills/CV etc.
if it was less desperate (as in we’d be okay for 12 months) then I’d lean Into more of a routine of job hunting for an hour or two a day and then buggering off out for a walk or to meet a friend, an afternoon seeing my mil or gardening (if you enjoy it, I don’t!), wild swimming, gym and spa, baking, decluttering an area of the house…

but I’m not good without some kind of routine and structure, I’d sit and be very unproductive, scrolling and watching telly, and those things don’t really make me feel very good!

Greenwriter76 · 13/03/2026 20:41

DaisyChain505 · 12/03/2026 16:13

Do some online courses.

Start an exercise regime like running or even walking and see how far you progress in the time.

Do jobs you’ve been putting off around the house. De cluttering your wardrobe etc.

Order some books and take yourself out for coffee shop dates.

You don’t need to fill every minute and you deserve to take some downtime and relax. It’s ok to binge a few series on Netflix etc.

Love all of this - and OP you’ll have loads of uninterrupted time to job hunt / apply so I don’t expect you’ll be out of work too long. I would love a decent stretch of free time to do all the above.

Catcatcatcatcat · 13/03/2026 20:29

Massive declutter and put it all on Vinted.

SleepingStandingUp · 13/03/2026 20:00

Volunteer? Most charity shops round here are begging for help.

Chinsupmeloves · 13/03/2026 18:16

Catch up on everything I've neglected and put off for too long, including myself! Xx

StrawberrySquash · 13/03/2026 09:10

MoiraRoseIsMyQueen · 12/03/2026 16:32

Gosh, thank you, right back at you! It’s so hard to settle into doing anything ‘nice’ with the doom hanging over you isn’t it. Sending solidarity and crossing fingers for you!

Give yourself permission to enjoy some time off! I think it's good to have it at least once in your life. Watch all of that series you never got to the end of!

sunsetsites · 13/03/2026 09:06

I would be doing lots of home projects, getting the garden ready for summer, painting the shed, redecorating inside, doing all the little jobs you never get around to doing.

ShakeNCake · 13/03/2026 09:05

Research and write my family history into a little book to pass down the generations

Do a free or cheap course in a new skill either for fun or for new job development/preparation

Listen to or read all the classic literature I haven't got to yet

Explore the local area by bus and train and have lunch somewhere new, all the places you've thought would be nice but never actually got to

Couch to 5k

Plan or do the decor/refurb of a part of the house you've been meaning to get round to

Get in the garden and plant some lovely bright annuals

EasternStandard · 13/03/2026 08:45

Ponderingwindow · 13/03/2026 00:32

I would start with structure to you job hunt. It is going to take up a significant portion of school hours. Decide how much of your time it deserves and set a schedule. That way you can put it away and not feel guilty when you aren’t thinking about it.

I’d focus on this too. You’ll be able to relax much better once you’ve secured a job.

morningmists · 13/03/2026 08:16

Volunteering
Gardening
Declutter the house and sell stuff on vinted etc

Go for some nice walks

Online courses to boost my CV

Read a pile of books

Meet up with friends for walks /coffee

EBearhug · 13/03/2026 08:11

My garden looked great when I was made redundant, because I had more time for it. I was also a lot fitter, as I had time to more exercise. I did some arty stuff, again something I don't usually have much time for. I spent a lot of time going down to the sea and also visited a lot of the free local museums in the area.

I didn't volunteer, because I knew I needed to find another job, and I didn't want to commit to something that woukd mean I would then have to let them down when I went to interviews or got a job.

I also ended up doing a 3 month training course, in a new field, which I haven't yused, as I got a job in my old field.

I loved being out of work, but it wasn't financially sustainable for much longer.

Bushmillsbabe · 13/03/2026 07:57

I presume your children are primary age, so how about volunteering to read with them

violetcuriosity · 13/03/2026 07:27

I would focus on creating a routine, something like-

school run
check job sites
cleaning
episode of a series
lunch
prep dinner
walk/coffee somewhere
school run

SouthernNights59 · 13/03/2026 05:56

DaisyChain505 · 12/03/2026 16:40

Set yourself schedules for the day.

Take it slow in the mornings and have breakfast and watch something.

Potter about getting house jobs like washing, cleaning done.

Leave the house and get outside for a walk/run.

Set yourself half an hour aside to look for jobs/reply to emails etc.

I'm retired and have all day to fill in every day, and this is pretty much what I do (apart from looking for jobs obviously). I find the days pass much more quickly than they ever did when I was working, and I no longer clock watch.

Tonissister · 13/03/2026 05:48

Just create structure in your days. Proper job searching and application is almost a full time job in itself.
Stay or get very fit. You'll present in interviews as much more confident and energised, so make working out a top priority for at least an hour or two a day.
Spend a few hours a day on job hunting. Tailor each application so you meet their requirements. If you can't apply yet due yo gardening leave, research potential companies- what are their forthcoming projects, their aims and plans. Be ready for when you can apply.

Then set yourself a couple of projects. Things there is never time to do when working: clear out garage/ attic; redecorate the bedrooms or living room; total declutter and deep clean; create a vegetable patch in your garden; sew some curtains etc. And enjoy time with DC, hanging out at the park after school, going for bike rides when it's fine or doing craft projects, watching films on rainy afternoons. You won't regret that time.

If you can come out of the gardening leave much fitter with your house in order and some really strong job applications, having had fun with your DC, you'll have done well.

Octavia64 · 13/03/2026 05:48

Doing something that occupies your brain may also help you switch off from your worries.

i learnt Spanish on Duolingo. Also planted lots of seeds, tidied the garden (weather not conducive right now!) and took up recorder.

TheMagicDeckchair · 13/03/2026 05:37

I would be the same OP- in fact I was many years ago. I moved in with DH 200 miles away and no job, in a new area and I remember getting a bit obsessed with job hunting! The uncertainty and being out of my routine was stressful and caused me some anxiety.

Anyway, I work three days now and have 2 school days “off”. I’m doing an adult course this term that takes up most of one day. On my other day, I sort out laundry first thing and then it might be a house project- decluttering/painting, or a deep clean. Maybe a trip to town to take donations to the charity shop and a bit of shopping.

Gardening is great for my anxiety (I’m stressed about getting a property sale through at the moment and have been fixating about that), but when I’m in the garden sweeping leaves in the fresh air, it makes me feel so much better. It’s exercise and productive! I maybe finish my “jobs” by 1.30-2ish and then have a break before the kids come home. I can’t bring myself to spend ages on hobbies when I know my spare time is limited.

Wordsmithery · 13/03/2026 05:12

Volunteering is an all rounder - if you find a role that you really enjoy. Great on your CV plus you'll meet people and learn new skills.
Structure your day so you have dedicated times to exercise, to job hunt, to clean/declutter/do admin/whatever and some fun time for a hobby or activity.

LameBorzoi · 13/03/2026 00:58

Would you feel better if you had a structured plan for your job hunt? So not just looking at advertisements, but scheduling things like updating LinkedIn, booking coffee meetings with contacts or a friend who might talk things through with you, signing up for courses to upskill?

KeeleyJ · 13/03/2026 00:42

1st year of Covid I was still working but found evenings dragged on as I was used to driving home from work, hitting the gym for 2 hours, getting home, showering, making my dinner, eating dinner, tidying the kitchen, drying my hair and finally sitting down for around 9pm!

WFH and everything being closed meant I was sitting down by 5pm and it drove me nuts.

I deep cleaned and decluttered the house, totally revamped and redecorated DS's old bedroom into a spare room, made a huge pile of crocheted blankets for the cat home, indulged in fancy cooking, dug out my cross stitch stuff from the attic and made my first cross stitch thing in this millenium 😆, oh and finally took up sewing and knitting!