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Why are boys clothes so rubbish ?!?

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Runnersknee · 12/03/2026 13:35

My little boy has just outgrown 18-24 month clothes and omg I knew there was a lot less
choice for boys compared to girls but I’m disappointed by the selection.

Choices seem to be tracksuits, clothes covered in characters / graphics or baggy checked trousers and everything in grungy colours. I’m not ready to stop with the ‘cute’ cloth s for my baby, he’s only 2!! And it’s one tiny rails of clothes for boys compared to a massive section of girls things !!

Most boy mums I know feel the same. I can’t understand why shops continue to make the boys option an after thought ?!?

Also if anyone can recommend places that actually do nice things for boys then please let me know !! Up till now I’ve been dressing my boy mainly in the supermarket clothes but really not keen on their boys offering.

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AffableApple · 12/03/2026 15:27

I'd say buy from the girl section, but the girl section is full of tighter, shorter clothes. Shopping for three-year-old B/G twins, I can tell you there's a market for generously-cut, brightly-coloured clothing, without everything being pink/glittery/unicorny. I don't understand children's clothing.

WhatwillitTake · 12/03/2026 15:26

Wait until your son is into the child section and out of the infants. It gets worse!! 😥

BertSymptom · 12/03/2026 15:25

I agree with others about George at Asda having fun, affordable boy bits. I don’t have a boy but lots of the stuff I buy from the Little Angels range on their website for DD is categorised as boys even though I think it’s really cute and suitable for both.

Agree with others about not necessarily discounting girls bits either. There’s lots of nice unisex clothes out there that have to be categorised one or the other online but will work for both.

Babsandherwabs · 12/03/2026 15:25

Babsandherwabs · 12/03/2026 15:24

Next is particularly bad for girl v boy. Look at the difference in these pants! Girls deserve good elastic!

Boys

Girls

…Can’t have 2 links in one post apparently!

Babsandherwabs · 12/03/2026 15:24

Next is particularly bad for girl v boy. Look at the difference in these pants! Girls deserve good elastic!

Boys

Runnersknee · 12/03/2026 15:23

@Usernamenotfound1 tbh pink and frilly is exactly the way I would dress a girl if I had one so I think my eyes just get drawn to all of that in the shops 😂

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toastofthetown · 12/03/2026 15:21

On a more budget end, the Asda Little Angels range often has some great pieces in it and they wear really well too. Just because Organic Zoo is too pricy for me most of the time, even second hand. I don’t think it’s in store though, just online.

Babsandherwabs · 12/03/2026 15:21

The are depressing print-wise but they’re cut SO much better. Even the pants! Girls pants are so much flimsier. My daughter’s leggings last waaaaay less time than my sons’.

So many people seem to think this is clever ‘why not shop for your son in the girls section? Clothes have no gender!!’….. well, because I want them to be able to play without their clothes restricting them? Frills, rubbish flimsy fabrics, knees that get holes, too-short t-shirts that aren’t long enough in waist or sleeve. Depressing!

So yeah, rather than my sons wearing girl’s clothes, my daughter wears boys clothes. Obviously she loves unicorns and rainbows and all that but we do not shy away from the boys section! And I shopped for my boys (no longer small) in fun shops with fun prints.

My mum went through a phase of buying them both camo, probably because it was the only thing available, that was depressing and dreary!

Usernamenotfound1 · 12/03/2026 15:21

Runnersknee · 12/03/2026 14:05

Thank you for the suggestions so far - seems like I will be needing to up my boys clothes budget 😂

Just really feel the high street is missing a trick, why shouldn’t boys have the same option as girls 😫

I think you’re misled about girls options!

girls are limited to pink and frilly. Yes variations on that theme but IMO it’s as limited as boys are. Walk into next and it’s pink one side and brown dinosaurs the other. Finding non-pink or practical trousers is a challenge- girls trousers seem to be slim fit, and even jeans will have pink flowers or princess style embroidery.

girls definitely don’t have more options, it’s pink or pink. Pastel purple maybe at a push.

i used to buy from eBay a lot. Get more value for your money. Pumpkin patch, vertbaudet, Jojomamanbebe, gap, and the like were my go to, and I never restricted by gender, I’d happily buy “boys” clothes for girls and coce versa. EBay I also got some good designer bargains which were a lot less gender styles and colour coded.

Scottishskifun · 12/03/2026 15:17

Blade and Rose, Kite, Frugi and Boden all have nice stuff and different options.

Edictfromno10 · 12/03/2026 15:16

Massive gap in thr market for cute, fun, bright boys clothes. I'd love to be able to put my boys in more colourful stuff, I have to hunt for what they do have. I fortunate to be able to spoil my boys and think it's a shame for the economy that I don't spend as much as I could do due to lack of choice! If I had an entrepreneurial bone in my body I'd start the business myself!!

Tableforjoan · 12/03/2026 15:12

It’s because they are building up to the teenage years of either jeans and a polo or joggers and a T mandatory uniforms. No coats unless it’s a big old goose one.

I hate that girls clothes very rarely have pockets. Hate that. Also that it’s all pink or sparkly. I have one daughter who loves that and one who shops in the boys section. So I think really shops get it wrong on both sexes often.

CurbsideProphet · 12/03/2026 15:12

I really do not like and would not dress my little boy in clothes with any kind of character, Marvel, Minecraft, cartoon faces. I also don't like the baby turd brown that Primark is fond of using, or the horrendous "Little Prince / Little Man".

I like Asda for brightly coloured plain t shirts and stripey t shirts.

DC hates jumpers so I look for hoodies on Vinted from a mix of brands - we have some nice plain but brightly coloured ones from TU and Vertboudet. We also have some lovely little checked shirts from Next that I bought on Vinted.

Aislyn · 12/03/2026 15:07

Boden and Frugi do cute kids clothes

JayJayj · 12/03/2026 15:06

I felt the same way about girl clothes when my daughter was younger. (She in 3-4 now) it’s still not great.

Most of her clothes have always come from Zara and H&M. I used to buy more “boys” clothes as the colours were better.

Thatcannotberight · 12/03/2026 15:03

Justploddingonandon · 12/03/2026 14:54

My 13 year old doesn't want to wear black everything, but good luck finding anything else in that size! In fact, I struggle to find any clothes that fit him as a lot of places only go up to 12 in kids sizes, but men's (even in xs) swamp him. He can't wait to grow into adult sizes as apparently men are allowed colours in their clothing.

Next go up to age 16 but not in our store, only online. Mine is just in small mens clothes, but I found women's size small, things like hoodies ( as long as they weren't cropped) were a good fit and come in bright colours. Nobody knows which sex the clothes are meant for.

Runnersknee · 12/03/2026 15:03

Making a list of all these brands and will be getting onto Vinted - thanks everyone

@Bitzee that’s really interesting re lack of demand as so many mums I know feel the same re boys clothes and seems like mums here feel the same too. I wonder if the lack of demand is because mums aren’t seeing what they like so not buying.

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NoYourNameChanged · 12/03/2026 15:00

navigatingthestars · 12/03/2026 14:58

Yep, Minecraft (which ds5 doesn’t have the first clue about) Spider-Man and lightning McQueen in shades of black, navy and grey. It is so miserable for little boys.

I do have a few items from Boden and JoJo (although he’s outgrowing that) but even they are stereotyped and assume dinosaurs, space and vehicles are the only interests a boy can have!

Sometimes all bloody three on one top, a space dinosaur in a truck, like dude, chill 😂

navigatingthestars · 12/03/2026 14:58

Yep, Minecraft (which ds5 doesn’t have the first clue about) Spider-Man and lightning McQueen in shades of black, navy and grey. It is so miserable for little boys.

I do have a few items from Boden and JoJo (although he’s outgrowing that) but even they are stereotyped and assume dinosaurs, space and vehicles are the only interests a boy can have!

NoYourNameChanged · 12/03/2026 14:56

Oh, I was quite unhelpful there! Good ones are, I think, Boden, Joules sometimes, Kite, Zara (altho they can be a bit beige happy at times!), H&M and sometimes Tu. Vinted is great for the dearer brands, and for some you may not have thought of already, plus vintage stuff can be lovely!

LolNotFunny · 12/03/2026 14:56

I used to feel the same when looking at the endless tracksuits and cartoon characters but H&M and Next do very nice boys clothes in my opinion.

Justploddingonandon · 12/03/2026 14:54

Thatcannotberight · 12/03/2026 14:35

Definitely H&M, I had some lovely t shirt and shorts sets from M&S in jolly colours, and Verbaudet.
Then suddenly they're 14 and will only wear black everything 🙄 🤣

My 13 year old doesn't want to wear black everything, but good luck finding anything else in that size! In fact, I struggle to find any clothes that fit him as a lot of places only go up to 12 in kids sizes, but men's (even in xs) swamp him. He can't wait to grow into adult sizes as apparently men are allowed colours in their clothing.

Lookingforwardto2025 · 12/03/2026 14:52

Vinted for Little Green Radicals, Kite, Frugi, Maxomorra etc. I have managed to get DS to age 10 in bright fun clothes with these brands.

Bitzee · 12/03/2026 14:52

Runnersknee · 12/03/2026 14:05

Thank you for the suggestions so far - seems like I will be needing to up my boys clothes budget 😂

Just really feel the high street is missing a trick, why shouldn’t boys have the same option as girls 😫

They’re not missing a trick. They have more girls clothes more they sell more of them vs. the boys clothes. Maybe there’s a wider debate there but it is what it is and the shops are only reacting to demand.

Personally I like Zara, Uniqlo for basics and Next for slim fit trousers with the odd thing from Jacadi for special occasions. You definitely find more online for boys. Avoid the supermarkets unless it’s for basic basics like pants that no one sees or it’s from the school uniform section which usually has nice plain polo shirts.

NoYourNameChanged · 12/03/2026 14:50

It’s shit isn’t it? It doesn’t get much better either… well, it gets significantly worse actually 😂 at least some places still do lovely little boys clothes at preschool age. My son is 4 but in clothes 8-9 years (sometimes bigger!), and the selection is fucking dire. Grey joggers, black joggers, Minecraft or PlayStation hoodies, ugly drab T-shirts… it’s a nightmare. I’ve actually ‘made’ a few tops for him myself recently with iron on transfers because it’s just so shit that he doesn’t get to wear proper little boy clothes anymore. Out here looking like a teenage roadman if I’m not careful 😂