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AIBU to think women should collectively down tools to demand change?

182 replies

ZoeHS · 12/03/2026 12:13

Reflecting on current news such as the Epstein files and wars which are started by men in which women (and children) are adversely affected. We live in a time where women’s rights are being eroded even more and misogyny is increasing. It feels like being a female means we’re in constant danger despite being the reason for the human race existing. We’re exploited in so many ways. I know it isn’t just men who are the perpetrators, but the vast majority of those doing the exploiting are men.

Do those of us who can strike and down tools collectively?

By downing tools I mean not working, not having sex, not looking after children (or perhaps we take the children with us), not producing, not buying anything. We just sit down and say no. I know on one level that it’s bonkers but I also feel like we need a real disruptive movement to challenge the status quo.

OP posts:
sunsetsites · 12/03/2026 12:40

Protesting against what, specifically? What change are you hoping for? How will not having sex your husband or refusing to care for your own children achieve that?

DeanStockwell · 12/03/2026 12:40

Can you explain to my landlord that because I am female I am not going to work and therefore not pay rent

Let's see how that goes down , I am quite happy to be part of a case study .

ApocalypseNowt · 12/03/2026 12:39

Didn't Icelandic women do something like this (the stopping working bit). Much easier to organise & get traction with a small population though!

CraftyNavySeal · 12/03/2026 12:38

WaryCrow · 12/03/2026 12:34

What I find myself saying a lot lately is ‘thank fuck the birth rate is falling’. Women are quietly quitting.

Because they are educated and have reproductive rights. If the world was really getting more misogynistic the opposite would be happening.

Theres never been a better time to be a girl or woman. Not saying misogyny and patriarchy aren’t still a problem but it’s demonstrably got better.

StarlightRobot · 12/03/2026 12:36

I don’t think the OP’s suggestion will solve anything or get traction. But I do think a lot more needs to be said about those poor girls killed by the US airstrike on Iran. This hasn’t had nearly the level of international outcry that it warrants.

WaryCrow · 12/03/2026 12:34

What I find myself saying a lot lately is ‘thank fuck the birth rate is falling’. Women are quietly quitting.

OneTealTurtle · 12/03/2026 12:30

And this is why so many people think feminism is ridiculous. Because this post is just embarrassing and insane.