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Hallway colour crisis

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TailorTack · 12/03/2026 07:33

Well this was the colour I wanted. Tailor Tack. For our tiny little entrance, stairway and upstairs little landing. Can't even call it a hallway really because we have no hallway. I wanted to make it look lovely. But we couldn't justify the cost of F&B.
So based on me wanting a pale white pink, DH bought Blossom White Dulux and we've just spent the week prepping and decorating, it has taken 5 days, using precious annual leave time to do it whilst DC are at school and out of the way.
It's nothing like it looked online or in the colour chart pamphlet, or in the tester patch.
Online and in the Dulux colour chart it looked a very pale chilled out pink.
In my hall it is.....basically bright lilac.
It's not the colour I wanted at all😰
DH has hit the roof and said "You do this every time! We decorate a room after weeks on end of looking at different shades of different colours, then when it's done you always say you don't like it!!!". Which I can't deny. But the colours never look the same on the walls as they do on the charts, or even the tester pot patches!
Oh, forgot to say, we started off painting it what looked like a lovely sedate green on the colour chart but it looked like grey sludge on my walls so we abandoned it 1/4 way through and that caused a row in itself. And a waste of money.
I wanted a nice, very pale, calm, muted white pink.
What I've got is bright lilac, maybe you could call it bright but pale lavender.
It literally looks NOTHING like the Dulux images of the colour on their website.
It looks nothing like other images of it online.
It's done now and I will be able to live with it though I am upset because I wanted to love it. I wanted to walk in and love the colour that greeted me. Instead I think "urgh, don't like it".
DH likes it!
DD 10 is skipping around saying it's the best colour ever!!!
But DS 14 absolutely HATES it. He literally hates it. He's saying "I love our house, why have you painted the hallway bright purpley-pink?!?! It's horrible!".
This morning DH said to DS "Is the colour growing on you?" And DS said "I can't even talk about it" whilst looking mortified.
I feel really bad for him.
Should I lump it, having both spent a week of AL working on it? And just tell DS he'll have to live with it?
Or change it and risk a massive fall out with DH? He won't take any more AL to do it all over again so it'd be me on my own. And he'll argue about the time and cost involved.
And if I buy another 7.5 litres of a different colour paint, I may as well have just paid more for F&B and got Tailor Tack in the first place😪
We have an absolutely tiny little house with a tiny little hallway. I wish we could move to a more spacious house but we can't. So I thought 'Okay, just make the best of what we've got' and I was trying to create a beautiful entrance/stairs/landing. I've seen tiny houses on Pinterest/Instagram that still look lovely if they're decorated absolutely beautifully and tastefully. That's what I was trying to achieve but have failed.
So
Leave it be, or go through the pain of changing it?

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Charlize43 · 12/03/2026 17:54

B&Q would have colour matched the F&B tacky tailor colour if you'd bought the swatch in with you for a fraction of the price. They do F&B colours all the time.

EdithBond · 12/03/2026 17:47

100%. Looks fine to me OP. More pink than lilac. Though does look darker than the pale chalky, plaster pink you wanted.

But don’t despair. Almost any colour looks good if you roll with it and add the right decor touches: rugs, pictures, plants etc. Pale colours often look darker when on a large expanse of wall, like a stairwell, until you add furnishings. Some black-framed pictures should knock it back a bit.

More concerning is why your DH is blaming you - behaviour your DS seems to be copying. Did he not take equal responsibility for choosing the colour? If he really didn’t like it, why did he persist with painting the entire stairwell in it?

Agree you should check against the tester, as may well have been made up incorrectly. So, you may at least get a refund on the paint. But of course that doesn’t solve the problem of time to repaint.

Ohmygeorgey · 12/03/2026 17:45

When you get the new tester do not paint it onto the wall. Get a piece of white card (inside old cereal box works well) and paint the card, then tape it to the wall with low tack tape (only need a tiny piece of tape). Do another piece of card with the paint from the tin and compare them side by side when they are dry. Then you’ll know for sure if the paints are actually different colours.
I do have to say though, I’ve often found when you paint an entire space the colour looks different to the tester, often because of the different lighting around the space. Painting a tester card instead of direct to the wall means you can move it around at different times to day to check the colour really is want you want.

BeCheeryRedTiger · 12/03/2026 17:39

You can get paint mixed from various online sellers by specifying the brand and colour reference. I wanted a Farrow and Ball colour in my kitchen but wanted a more hard wearing and wipeable finish. I bought a specially mixed Crown Kitchen paint in the colour I wanted and it was a perfect match.

watchingthishtread · 12/03/2026 16:50

If you're asking to match Farrow and Ball beware - the Farrow and Ball paint is nothing like the colour chart. I'm assuming it's a deliberate move to make it harder to match. If they match it to the colour chart it won't be the same shade as the actual F&B.

watchingthishtread · 12/03/2026 16:47

I think that the colour has been mixed wrong and it's worth going back to the shop. With Dulux it's best to buy off the shelf. You never really know what you're getting when they mix colours.

I'm assuming that the 5 days included a lot of prep work, wood work and ceilings. Changing the colour should be a half day per coat, so not as big a job.

Pink is trickey and it can be hard to pull off outside of a bedroom. If you have a tendency not to be happy with your choices maybe play it a bit safer.

gennyral · 12/03/2026 16:44

gennyral · 12/03/2026 16:38

Out of interest, did you not test the paint on your walls?

Oh you did, just RTFT.

You had some great advice, no need for smart pants replies. Hope you get it sorted. Only how did you not see this wasn't the right colour? The colour you originally chose is nice.

ThisTaupeZebra · 12/03/2026 16:40

AgnethaF · 12/03/2026 15:09

Hi OP, you said in a previous post that you wanted Blossom White, but you said the sticker on the tin says Blossom Pink.

Maybe that's the issue?

Dulux doesn't do a 'Blossom Pink' paint though, it does a Blossom Tree (slightly more lilac than Blossom White), a Dulux Heritage Blossom and a Peach Blossom (v pink).

You are getting a harsh time on here OP, but it is AIBU. You might have had a bit more support on Chat or one of the home deco/reno forums.

There is something particuarly heart breaking about investing time, effort and money in home improvements only to find it wasn't quite what you were expecting.

The fact that you wanted a Farrow and Ball colour is kind of neither here nor there as you ordered and paid for Blossom White by and in Dulux! FWIW I think it looks very different from how it is advertised and I would query it with the people who mixed the paint.

One final thing, from somebody who just came home and cried as the grouting in my freshly installed bathroom was 'the wrong grey' (it was supposed to be light grey and came out anthracite!) and then realised it was just because it was still wet! How long has it been since you painted? It may well dry out paler over the next day or two.

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gennyral · 12/03/2026 16:38

Out of interest, did you not test the paint on your walls?

tommyhoundmum · 12/03/2026 16:32

I just wanted to say if you ask for the Dulux copy of any other company's colour the paint shop can match it well

diddl · 12/03/2026 16:26

I’m in the “it’s too late now” camp. You should have realised within the first pot it wasn’t right.

Especially if the tin was correctly labelled.

FranticFrankie · 12/03/2026 15:58

Aluna · 12/03/2026 15:47

Of course they do 😄

Why so snarky??????
Just why?
Laughing emoji - but you are anything but funny

NewTricks2026 · 12/03/2026 15:58

I knew a staff member had mixed it before I even read that post. Same happened to us. Took it home, slapped a bit up on the wall and was scratching our heads. DH called them and said it looked nothing like the sample wasn’t right, they said go back and they would change it, free of charge which they did.

I’m in the “it’s too late now” camp. You should have realised within the first pot it wasn’t right.

MrFluffyDogIsMyBestFriend · 12/03/2026 15:50

Just leave it and arrange some counselling for DS.

It looks quite nice to me.

Aluna · 12/03/2026 15:47

FranticFrankie · 12/03/2026 15:17

They claim 99%, I think
They used to scan the paint chart, but now have a different system - better accuracy???

Of course they do 😄

FranticFrankie · 12/03/2026 15:17

Aluna · 12/03/2026 11:31

And that’s fine but that doesn’t mean they’re a close match to the actual colour.

They claim 99%, I think
They used to scan the paint chart, but now have a different system - better accuracy???

Springisnearlyspring · 12/03/2026 15:10

Re 5 days surely it depends on how much prep and what else done eg woodwork, spindles and doors. Also if only working 9.30-2.30 when kids at school it’s short day. Last time we had hallway and landing done it took a professional a week inc stripping old paper.

AgnethaF · 12/03/2026 15:09

Hi OP, you said in a previous post that you wanted Blossom White, but you said the sticker on the tin says Blossom Pink.

Maybe that's the issue?

NewspaperTaxis · 12/03/2026 15:02

MissyB1 · 12/03/2026 12:12

Will attach a photo of Tailor Tack in my bedroom, it definitely came out pinker than I imagined.

I will add a point here, because I've been meaning to post something on this subject, going thru the same process.

If you are doing the ceiling and strip above the picture rail as white, as in Pure Brilliant White, you should use that as your benchmark, or ground zero. When doing a colour testing, do a big strip of Pure Brilliant White tester, then apply your tester of the other paint below it.

This is because the other paint - in our case Dulux Heritage Piano White - will, if you will, show its true colours under the PBW. If Piano White ordinarily seems pretty damn nice and white on an old dirty wall (and note of course, most if not all paint colours - but especially whites - look several shades lighter when you first apply them; but the next-day second coat application and then leaving it for a week will show what the colour really is...) it won't in the final analysis. Under the Pure Brilliant White of the ceiling, Piano White looks like Ivory White which is what it really is. It looks like yellow teeth, or a bandage and in the darkness of the hall, looks darker and more shadowy than I'd have liked. I might have avoided this if I'd realised to put the Pure Brilliant White on to compare.

Most Dulux so-called White colours are nothing of a kind, many paints don't do much variation on Pure Brilliant White - imo because they can't sell them in magazines. House Beautiful type mags can only sell bold, dark, dynamic colours because they look good in the photos, variations on pure white just don't.

Benjamin Moore do a pretty good range of almost whites and I think the quality is better so if you did go for Pure Brilliant White all round, their one might look better.

I'm not totally sure about painting a sample on a white card because while it's not an awful idea, the Benjamin Moore samples came out a bit different. Another problem is picking an inconspicuous part of the room or hall to test your paints, because while that's good for a starter, it's not the typical part of the room, it may throw a false reading.

Poshjock · 12/03/2026 14:58

TailorTack · 12/03/2026 10:30

Wow, thanks guys. Loads of really helpful advice and support here!
And I'm reassured by people saying they see lilac in my photo too!
And it's absolutely true that re-painting the walls won't take 5 days.
2 days. 1st day first coat. 2nd day second coat.
Or maybe I should paint it all white again before I put a new colour on, like I did before we painted on this colour. In which case 3 days.
Anyhow we've made the surface of the walls look perfect with all our filling and finishing and undercoat, so it will be easier to re-paint.
I absolutely did not know there were companies who match F&B and LG! What a brilliant discovery! Are they decent with how accurate they are?
I need to navigate DH though. He's pretty set on liking the lilac. If he hated it too it would be easier. Although I personally think he'd like any colour that was painted on. He's very un-discerning about colour shades. He just cannot bear the thought of re-doing it all.

I feel your pain. I have returned a tin of Dulux 3 times now, because the colour on the chart and even in the shop lighting looks completely different when home and under my house lighting conditions. That looks so like Perfectly Taupe that I bought and hated it as soon as I loosened the lid.

I really like the Valspar website as it gives really good information on undertones and groups together in sub colour groups. You can also order "paint chips" I haven't received mine yet so can't comment on how useful they are however... Big shout out to Crown for the A5 paint cards. They are fantastic you get 5 for £4 and can hold them up and move them around your room to see the shade. I got them because I have gone very bold and wanted to be sure - currently painting bedroom in Woodland Wanderer which is a very dark green and I have paint card for dark blue for the living room and picked Midnight Navy.

One of the cards I got was Creme de la Rose which is going to be my complementary colour to the green in the bedroom. It's really subtle.

Highly highly recommend the Crown cards.

DaisyDooley · 12/03/2026 14:32

Which is why I only ever use F&B and Little Greene. You can’t recreate them because of the pigments they use.
I know F&B say that if the colour is not a match for their colour chart they will come out to see why.
Light changes their colours during the day.
Also for those who don’t know (and I haven’t RTFT) don’t use a sample pot to paint a patch on the wall. Paint a piece of backing paper (or several) and place them in different places on the wall. Then as the light changes during the day so should the colour reflect that.
IMHO if you want a particular F&B colour then bite the bullet and pay for it rather than living in permanent disappointment that the colour you wanted isn’t the colour you are living with.
Worth £100 for the peace of mind to get what you want IMHO.

PigletJohn · 12/03/2026 14:30

The stuff in your pic looks nothing like Blossom White. There is a mistake. Phone the shop manager. Take in a sample and the remains in the tub. Don't throw away the label or the receipt or the tub.

Lovemycat2023 · 12/03/2026 14:30

Mammabex · 12/03/2026 13:43

It wont help your current predicament, but in future use B&Q valspar paint. They offer a colour guarantee that if you hate it, you can buy a 2nd paint and they refund you for the first hated colour.

B&Q also have a light box by their samples so you can double check the colour under different lights.

That’s very useful to know! Just in the process of choosing between two valspar shades (although I am getting the tester pots not just the little swatches so that should help)

Weeelokthen · 12/03/2026 14:28

I still can't get over it taking 5 days 😮😂

watermybegonias · 12/03/2026 14:27

Please go back to where you had the paint mixed - there is no way on this earth that is how it should have come out. I had a similar thing once but stopped painting very quickly! Take the actual spot tin back and let them see it, and then compare with what it should be.

I know it doesn’t solve your time and energy issue, but a refund from them can go towards what you really want, or just get the Blossom White made up properly.

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