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Hallway colour crisis

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TailorTack · 12/03/2026 07:33

Well this was the colour I wanted. Tailor Tack. For our tiny little entrance, stairway and upstairs little landing. Can't even call it a hallway really because we have no hallway. I wanted to make it look lovely. But we couldn't justify the cost of F&B.
So based on me wanting a pale white pink, DH bought Blossom White Dulux and we've just spent the week prepping and decorating, it has taken 5 days, using precious annual leave time to do it whilst DC are at school and out of the way.
It's nothing like it looked online or in the colour chart pamphlet, or in the tester patch.
Online and in the Dulux colour chart it looked a very pale chilled out pink.
In my hall it is.....basically bright lilac.
It's not the colour I wanted at all😰
DH has hit the roof and said "You do this every time! We decorate a room after weeks on end of looking at different shades of different colours, then when it's done you always say you don't like it!!!". Which I can't deny. But the colours never look the same on the walls as they do on the charts, or even the tester pot patches!
Oh, forgot to say, we started off painting it what looked like a lovely sedate green on the colour chart but it looked like grey sludge on my walls so we abandoned it 1/4 way through and that caused a row in itself. And a waste of money.
I wanted a nice, very pale, calm, muted white pink.
What I've got is bright lilac, maybe you could call it bright but pale lavender.
It literally looks NOTHING like the Dulux images of the colour on their website.
It looks nothing like other images of it online.
It's done now and I will be able to live with it though I am upset because I wanted to love it. I wanted to walk in and love the colour that greeted me. Instead I think "urgh, don't like it".
DH likes it!
DD 10 is skipping around saying it's the best colour ever!!!
But DS 14 absolutely HATES it. He literally hates it. He's saying "I love our house, why have you painted the hallway bright purpley-pink?!?! It's horrible!".
This morning DH said to DS "Is the colour growing on you?" And DS said "I can't even talk about it" whilst looking mortified.
I feel really bad for him.
Should I lump it, having both spent a week of AL working on it? And just tell DS he'll have to live with it?
Or change it and risk a massive fall out with DH? He won't take any more AL to do it all over again so it'd be me on my own. And he'll argue about the time and cost involved.
And if I buy another 7.5 litres of a different colour paint, I may as well have just paid more for F&B and got Tailor Tack in the first place😪
We have an absolutely tiny little house with a tiny little hallway. I wish we could move to a more spacious house but we can't. So I thought 'Okay, just make the best of what we've got' and I was trying to create a beautiful entrance/stairs/landing. I've seen tiny houses on Pinterest/Instagram that still look lovely if they're decorated absolutely beautifully and tastefully. That's what I was trying to achieve but have failed.
So
Leave it be, or go through the pain of changing it?

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ghostofadog · 12/03/2026 10:16

I feel your pain OP, I have done similar where the colour over the whole walls looked very different than the tester. Don't know why people are giving you a hard time and saying you should have done it quicker and should have known better, honestly I don't know what is up with people! I'm not surprised it took that long, hall/stairs/landing is absolutely the worst room to do because of all the woodwork and awkward bit above the stairs, and because people have to keep walking through it. I mostly do my own decorating but I paid someone to do ours while we were away, worth every penny.

Anyway, repainting the actual walls won't be a huge task so if you really hate it I think you just have to do it. Don't know how much pink you need but we did ours Nutmeg White which I absolutely love. It's a warm neutral with pinky tones in it, sometimes it looks like a soft grey, sometimes more gentle pink. I'm attaching pics but they don't seem to pick it up all that well, it is slightly more pinky than that.

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reabies · 12/03/2026 10:16

OP I've done literally the same thing, but wasn't even half as diligent as you with prep and testing haha. Went to B&Q, saw a sample swatch that I thought aligned with what I wanted and just went for it. 2 coats later and I hate it. I wanted white with a tiny touch of green, I've got a very minty, wintery green hallway now.

I was quite down about it and DH who initially didn't like the swatch sample anyway tried very hard to make me feel better about it, bless him. I'm going to give it a few months and re-paint in the summer I think, I just really don't like it.

Els1e · 12/03/2026 10:13

I have had similar experience with Brewers where the colour I ended up was deeper than the sample. However I liked it so kept. I would normally say I don't like lilac but I actually do like your hall colour. But it's not the colour you wanted and if it really bothers you, I would repaint. Not sure if your DS is going to like pale pink either though.

Beachtastic · 12/03/2026 10:12

It is really weird how light can affect paint colour. I've sometimes painted rooms and been aghast at the results, which look totally different - yet holding the sample card next to the wall verifies the colour match.

If I were you, I'd make it my own job to repaint the walls one weekend. Re the F&B colour you had your heart set on, you could use a cheaper colour match for the first layer and F&B just to finish it all off:

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/home_decoration_pictures/5359061-the-great-is-farrow-ball-paint-worth-it-debate-results-of-experiment

And then, if the F&B colour looks shit too, then obviously you have to divorce so that you can go and live in a convent somewhere!

The great “Is Farrow & Ball paint worth it?” debate – RESULTS OF EXPERIMENT! | Mumsnet

Redecorating… and got sucked into the ^See how it changes colour with the light!^ F&B marketing, even though I know perfectly well you could easil...

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/home_decoration_pictures/5359061-the-great-is-farrow-ball-paint-worth-it-debate-results-of-experiment

IWishToBeAnonymous · 12/03/2026 10:09

They've done something wrong mixing it, typed the wrong code in or picked the wrong colour. I'd ask for new replacement paint and compensation. Go back tell them you'd like a tester pot and then compare to your tin. Take the photos.

DrToothandtheElectricMayhem · 12/03/2026 10:08

I’d swerve all soft pinks if you’re not getting good light.
we have a dark dining room with only borrowed light from the kitchen and I used stirabout. Beautiful and warm but no peach or worse, dirty pink tones. Try that, but just get the real thing. Getting a dupe is often a false economy.

SecretSquid · 12/03/2026 10:07

hididdlyho · 12/03/2026 07:45

Maybe just stick to brilliant white, it's inexpensive and works anywhere. You can bring in colour and interest with artwork etc.

Sadly not true. I painted my kitchen brilliant white and it looked blue, I had to paint over it. It was so blue I thought it must be the wrong colour paint, but no. North-east facing kitchen. Plays havoc with every colour I try.

randomchap · 12/03/2026 10:06

ThiagoJones · 12/03/2026 10:01

Surely it’s better to find a colour everyone likes though, instead of 2 family members liking it and 2 hating it?
I wouldn’t leave a colour in my house that I hated. My home is my sanctuary, I spend a lot of time in it, and to actively hate the colour of the walls wouldn’t work for me. My DH wouldn’t care if I repainted though.

And that can be determined through discussion, rather than a unilateral decision that will force a repaint.

I'm not saying don't repaint, but just consider how forcing his hand by painting a tester pot on the wall might cause arguments and tension.

They've spent 5 days getting it to like this, considering all that prep work has been done I'd guess maybe 2 days to repaint. Assuming two coats. That's a whole weekend gone

BellesAndGraces · 12/03/2026 10:03

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Totally agree. Repainting will be a doddle now you’ve done everything else.

BellesAndGraces · 12/03/2026 10:03

I feel your pain. I painted my very large living room, it’s about 5m x 5m, Gentle Fawn - primer, base coat and 2 top coats. I wanted to love it but I really didn’t, it too had a lilac tint that wasn’t visible on the sample patch I painted. I agonised over it for a couple of days, got a friend round for her opinion and she instantly said “of course it’s lilac and it looks like an Essex boudoir. Repaint it right away and you’ll have forgotten the pain as soon as it’s done.” I did repaint and she was right. No way could I have lived with the lilac. So my advice to you is to just repaint it. But complain to Brewers so you don’t have to pay for the replacement paint. If you want Tailor Tack just colour match it, Brewers will have the code in their system as they sell F&B.

IdrisElbow · 12/03/2026 10:02

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ThiagoJones · 12/03/2026 10:01

randomchap · 12/03/2026 09:47

DD loves it. So it's a 50 50 split.

Yes, op might do the work herself, but there's still costs involved.

It would be better to discuss and find a compromise, like leave it for a month to see if it grows on her. Rather than making a unilateral decision

Surely it’s better to find a colour everyone likes though, instead of 2 family members liking it and 2 hating it?
I wouldn’t leave a colour in my house that I hated. My home is my sanctuary, I spend a lot of time in it, and to actively hate the colour of the walls wouldn’t work for me. My DH wouldn’t care if I repainted though.

Kidsarekarma · 12/03/2026 09:59

Sympathies OP, the lilac colour looks identical to my bedroom walls after painting with Dulux Dusted Fondant. This picture shows what I thought I was getting. It could be the light in my room that distorts the colour but it's the same in daylight, artificial light and shade - I don't like it but can't be bothered changing it for now.

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Hydro2012 · 12/03/2026 09:57

TailorTack · 12/03/2026 09:11

If you still have a tester, can you paint a patch under a picture frame or mirror where it won't be seen and compare? Maybe it genuinely isn't the same, or maybe it's the lighting.

That's a good idea. I hadn't thought of that. We've got no tester left as I used it all up to paint a big patch on the wall. The tester patch looked lovely. The paint from the big tin we got looks completely different. DH says it's because it's now all over walls that it looks different to the patch test.
Like I say upthread, we didn't buy it off the shelf, we got it from Brewers and a young man (looked around 19/20) made it up by adding colours to a tin of white paint. I am wondering if he's made it up wrong.
I think I'll take your advice, buy a new tester, paint a patch over the wall we've painted, and take a photo and show the colour difference to staff in Brewers....

I’d second doing this. We had a dulux colour (also in hallway) that I was convinced wasn’t same as the tester we’d used. The place we bought it from agreed it wasn’t but said we needed to raise with dulux. From memory I had to send them brush samples from the tester plus the paint we’d used. They ended up confirming the “recipe” for a 5L tin was incorrect and gave us vouchers to buy replacement paint alongside details of the correct recipe.

MsPug · 12/03/2026 09:55

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chocorabbit · 12/03/2026 09:54

You are right OP. It does look very different. Who cares if others like it if it's not what you want?

ParkingNightmares · 12/03/2026 09:54

I painted my bedroom in Dulux blossom just a week ago, it looks nothing like your photo. And I added a bit of dark salmon pink to whoosh it up a bit...no idea why yours looks purple

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Littlejellyuk · 12/03/2026 09:53

TailorTack · 12/03/2026 08:06

OMG it literally looks nothing like this colour.
I love the colour shown here!
It is nothing like it.
We got it from Brewers and a staff member made it up. He used a tin of white then added colours to make it up. It's in a Dulux tin. But it is not like the colour you've linked which is the colour we'd looked at. Do you know what, I'm starting to think he's made it up wrong......
I've added my stairway image but MN has said it's sensitive content and hidden it. It's just a stairway wall!😂

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I think it looks nice, but I don't have to live with it. Maybe go to Brewers and have a word?

Nothing worse than when you want something, put in time, money and effort and it turns out wrong. 😔

I'm always wary of getting colours mixed, in case it goes wrong, and if we need some spare for touch ups etc in future. 🎨 🖌

We wanted F&B paint, but it was ridiculously expensive, so I basically tried to find a similar shade in B&Q within their Homesense range (off the shelf) and found it for half the price of F&B on both occasions (our hallway is bottle green and white, our lounge is a deep sage) which was lucky really. 🙏

Random to add but would you pop in pink light bulbs or warm bulbs, to try and make it look more pink? Or would that send your DS over the edge? 😆

Sending hugs 🫂

Psychosislotus · 12/03/2026 09:53

Omg we did the same! And we did it with F&B

Basically this is a problem in all rooms; but much worse in hallways imo.

You have the double height wall
Weird light interactions - a flood of natural when you open the door
Your facing amplifies things ten fold as the paint and light reflect off each other and bounce. There’s also little to soften it.

Basically you really need to study your aspect/ facing.

Get the colour books out and really stick to the rules. You either go light white/cream or you go dark. There’s no in between for halls with little light.

You also need to pick your lightbulbs to go with the paint undertone.

So if you are north facing; you either lean into that and go very cool - blue undertone with white lights. Or you go yellow under base. Red is tricky against north. It should neutralise it but often ends up more purple than red. Green is a tricky one. It’s possible but hard to get the right one because green is a combo of blue and yellow.

Basically we did the same thing. Wanted plaster colour. It’s very much pink! Not in a good way. So now we are going cream based yellow.

Aluna · 12/03/2026 09:52

TailorTack · 12/03/2026 09:49

Yes I did. Painted a large square with ready made dulux tester pot. Liked it.
The colour we've painted from the big tin we got made up in Brewers is different to the tester patch we painted.
This isn't just me. DH completely agrees it's a totally different colour.
Difference is, he says he likes lilac. Whereas I don't like lilac.

Paint colour is always stronger once you’ve got a whole wall of it not just a section, and it will be darker in the corners. In hall you have 2 walls fairly close together intensifying the effect.

Notweirdatall · 12/03/2026 09:50

We’ve had the same experience with dulux actually. We were looking at a wheat shade, which was fine in the tester pot but when we painted the whole room had a lilacy/ rose hue.

We asked Dulux about it, and from memory, were told that it was to do with curing of the paint. It settled down after 6 weeks or so and we’re now totally happy with it. Maybe look it up, but I think it may be a known dulux thing!

TailorTack · 12/03/2026 09:49

BelleEpoque27 · 12/03/2026 07:45

Did you not check the colour on the walls first? Paints will look completely different in different lights, depending on which way the windows are facing, what type of lightbulb you have...

Get some plain paper and paint the colours you like onto them, them blu-tac them up and live with them for a few days. Move them around the room, to the lighter and shadier parts. You'll see how the colours change throughout the day. (Even better paint them onto the walls directly, but this can be tricky to cover with deeper shades.)

Before we painted our dining room I had 18 different colour testers up around the room, for weeks 😂 I love the colour we have now though!

Yes I did. Painted a large square with ready made dulux tester pot. Liked it.
The colour we've painted from the big tin we got made up in Brewers is different to the tester patch we painted.
This isn't just me. DH completely agrees it's a totally different colour.
Difference is, he says he likes lilac. Whereas I don't like lilac.

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upsofloating · 12/03/2026 09:49

I bought 'made-up' paint which was completely the wrong colour, took a painted sample of both the original and the made-up one back and they agreed and did me a new pot. It's important to take painted samples rather than photos, though.

Sometimes you can find 'secondhand' (but perfectly good) F&B paint on Ebay etc.

Good luck. And yes to the posters saying that you've the done the hardest bit so repainting shouldn't take too long.

AmazingGreatAunt · 12/03/2026 09:48

At the risk of sounding incredibly dull and boring, there is a reason why all my walls are white. I use paintings, furniture and in some cases soft furnishings to inject colour.
I only have stripped floorboards in most rooms (colour through rugs), bathrooms and kitchen/hall are tiled.
It is possible that I get overwhelmed with too much choice, so the decision was easy.

Aluna · 12/03/2026 09:47

apintofwine · 12/03/2026 09:44

You can try your luck with Brewers but they usually have some disclaimer about it not matching.

Painters World online are brill. I always use them - order Dulux Trade Vinyl Matt Tinted Colour, then just type in “Farrow and Ball Tailor Tack” and they will colour match it for half the price of F&B, but for a great quality paint.

If you order by 1pm(I think) it’ll arrive next day. Never let me down!

Colour matches are never the same shade.

It’s better to find a live paint colour similar to the F&B shade you want, then you can be sure what you’re getting.