I’m in my early 30s, educated and work as a PA to a very senior man. I’m good at my job and earn well.
At a recent work function I met his wife properly for the first time. During a conversation she said she doesn’t like me because I’m beautiful and that she feels her husband spends more time with me than he does with her. She also said I’m getting all the “good bits” of him while she gets the “crappy bits”.
I was honestly quite taken aback by that. I’ve always been completely professional and my relationship with him is strictly work-related.
AIBU to think that was an odd and uncomfortable thing for her to say?