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Price of new jewelry is too much?

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Andreaoid · 11/03/2026 13:17

I've been back and forth with my local jewellers about creating a new signet ring since November. I want to model it on my late husband's. His is too big to alter and very sentimental to me so I've decided create a new one from my own 14k gold.

How much would you expect to pay? The job is to create an oval signet ring (slightly larger face than women would normally wear), tiny ring size D, a deep seal engraved family shield and laser inscription of two words (the ring size is too small to use hand inscription). All of this will use mostly my 14k gold but they also need to use new 14k grain to make it pure 14k hallmark so some new gold will be used.

This is jewellers in East Midlands. They just called me, after 5 months of finalising and dragging out the process. The quote is £3,100. I nearly fainted. Is it (un)reasonable to call it quits? I'm 35, widowed and wanted something of my husband's to wear every day. But it seems like I'm not in the right 'salary band' for it.

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Talipesmum · 11/03/2026 14:52

How much of the cost is the weight of extra gold, and how much is the work? Do you have any other jewellery / gold you could give them to include in it?

I’d try to find that out, then get quotes from other jewellers.

Andreaoid · 11/03/2026 14:39

Papyrophile · 11/03/2026 14:11

I think that's exorbitant as you are providing most of the gold. Yes, I know gold has increased but £3,100 is the price of an ounce of gold! I had a signet ring made for a significant birthday a few years ago, also using family gold, and the cost was about £500.

I genuinely thought that the ring would be around £1,500 with today's prices for just the grain and the job. There's no way they can do it without the grain as the melting wouldn't retain 14k hallmark and it could cause pitting down the line.

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Andreaoid · 11/03/2026 14:36

FrostyPalms · 11/03/2026 14:28

I don't know much about jewelry, but that sounds like a lot of work so I'm not surprised that it's pricey.

As someone who was widowed at a younger age than you, I would urge you to perhaps take a step back from this project, especially if spending that amount of money is an issue. You'll likely find in a few years that it becomes less important than it seems right now. Can you wear his ring on a necklace?

It's been almost 2 years now and I thought it'd be a nice gesture - I would wear a piece of his family every day until my passing. We haven't had a proper wedding (2+2 only), I don't have a proper wedding ring, etc. So I thought I'd make a replica of his for myself. His is too large to wear on my neck - it's a large signet ring that he wore on a third finger, not a pinky.

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GasPanic · 11/03/2026 14:36

Why don't you remove the shield part of the signet ring and incorporate it into another piece of jewellery ?

Surely that would be cheaper. You could have it say placed as a pendant on a necklace. If it is too small to drill a hole it could be mounted on or in another piece of metal.

That would probably be far cheaper than the re-engraving/reproduction and would keep the original piece.

Pedallleur · 11/03/2026 14:29

Precious metals have risen in price dramatically in the last few years. Almost doubled in fact and you have to have someone who can do the work plus business rates etc.

FrostyPalms · 11/03/2026 14:28

I don't know much about jewelry, but that sounds like a lot of work so I'm not surprised that it's pricey.

As someone who was widowed at a younger age than you, I would urge you to perhaps take a step back from this project, especially if spending that amount of money is an issue. You'll likely find in a few years that it becomes less important than it seems right now. Can you wear his ring on a necklace?

Ddd0gdaycare · 11/03/2026 14:23

Suggest contacting Claire Allain an ethical jeweller based in Scotland.

I can personally recommend her services & jewellery

Has own websites & shop on Etsy

Coffeeandbooks88 · 11/03/2026 14:12

Sorry I didn't read your post properly.

Papyrophile · 11/03/2026 14:11

I think that's exorbitant as you are providing most of the gold. Yes, I know gold has increased but £3,100 is the price of an ounce of gold! I had a signet ring made for a significant birthday a few years ago, also using family gold, and the cost was about £500.

mumofoneAloneandwell · 11/03/2026 13:33

I was trying to buy some gold studs recently and got told the same, that the price of gold has hiked. Sorry op x

ButItFeelsLikeYoureFlirtingWithMe · 11/03/2026 13:30

It’s strange you say this. I was in a jewellers earlier this week, and the person who served me was talking about how the price of gold as sky rocketed recently. I have a ring I’d like repairing, and she was saying how a lot of people are saying choosing not to go ahead with repairs once they receive the quote, because the cost of a repair is disproportionate to the original cost of the the piece of jewellery.

JacquesHarlow · 11/03/2026 13:19

YABU.