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To think kids don’t ask for half as many toys etc these days cos of less exposure to advertising?

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Waitingforthesunnydays · 10/03/2026 17:18

Not really an AIBU but I’m just wondering if this is an age thing, a just my kid thing, or if it really is cos of less exposure to adverts aimed at children on TV. Or perhaps it’s cos of the sheer amount of kids’ toys out there these days, rather than everyone wanting a Barbie or transformer or Ninja Turtle like they did in the 80s/90s. My dd is only 5 so she may just not have reached the stage of constantly nagging me for the latest toy like I did to my mum. But I notice she never asks for anything, unless we’re in the supermarket where she’ll ask for sweets or a magazine if she sees them. When I was that age in the late 80s/early 90s I remember constantly nagging my mum for a Ninja turtle figure and a shellsuit 🤣. But I’d be sat in front of the tv every day after school with heavily child-aimed advertising shown to me every 20 mins, plus we went to way more physical shops compared to now, where I get most stuff online. I think the shellsuit obsession came from kids at school wearing them (non uniform school). Dd only watches cartoons on iplayer so no adverts & sometimes YouTube kids which I don’t think has adverts in what she watches on there. There actually seems to be way less engagement with popular culture amongst little kids these days, compared to 35 years ago. Obviously I know that’ll change as soon as she starts to get interested in social media, which is still (hopefully) a long way off. But I’m just wondering if others with similar age kids are noticing the same?

OP posts:
Popcorn76 · 10/03/2026 17:54

Mine is 6 but is always asking me for lego, usually the most expensive lego sets going. He makes a beeline for the lego store whenever we are in a town.

mumofoneAloneandwell · 10/03/2026 17:50

I'm not someone who is anti screen time, but I do think it's because of screens x

goz · 10/03/2026 17:47

MiddleAgedDread · 10/03/2026 17:44

This nails it! Also more kids in full time nursery / childcare and wrap around care as more mums
work so less time to play at home.

To be fair I’m not really sure how less play time at home would really translate to asking for less toys. Surely more time playing with different things outside the home with and increases exposure to the opinions and likes of peers would increase their awareness of items they don’t have but want?

goz · 10/03/2026 17:45

I think 5 is just still young. Imo parents tend to be quite off on the age when they’re retelling a story from 30 years ago in terms of what their child did at what age.

My oldest DC is just about to be 5 and she has never asked for anything specific other than an abstract ask ‘I want a fluffy unicorn for my birthday’ but she hasn’t seen any adverts so it’s never specific.

MiddleAgedDread · 10/03/2026 17:44

user1476613140 · 10/03/2026 17:19

They're too busy with their heads in gadgets instead.

This nails it! Also more kids in full time nursery / childcare and wrap around care as more mums
work so less time to play at home.

harrietm87 · 10/03/2026 17:37

I agree. I also sort of feel that my own childhood (90s!) was a golden age of toys, whereas what’s available now is mostly a rehash of the old favourites or just less good. Perhaps just rose tinted spectacles!

thistlerodealake · 10/03/2026 17:35

Think you are right op for those who don’t have much time on screens don’t see any advertising.

however I can’t walk by a shop without my daughter noticing the latest football and what she needs to do to earn ANOTHER bloody football. She’s 4 😂😭

tiv2020 · 10/03/2026 17:30

My dd is 5 and only watches 30min youtube per day.
I estimate by her age I would have watched 500hours of ads back in the 80s.
Ynbu.

Waitingforthesunnydays · 10/03/2026 17:27

Mine doesn’t. She has an iPad and I let her watch stuff on iplayer but there’s no big fight to get her off it. She actually prefers playing with her toys or colouring (also aware this may change as she gets older) but she doesn’t show any particular preference for a specific toy (eg a Barbie) then nags me for the Barbie car, the Barbie house whatever, like I used to do with my mum. She is happy to play with a variety of different toys. I think part of it is the sheer amount and variety of kids’ toys these days. We had less choice back in the day

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Hotdoughnut · 10/03/2026 17:25

There is generally less playing, which is very sad. In my house we have toys galore!! My kids don't have computer games but do watch tv for a bit after school. But they mostly choose to play and I've noticed my 11 year old now seems "immature" compared to her peers. But I'm glad they're getting a childhood. No social media until at least 14.

AloeTom · 10/03/2026 17:19

Sadly I think it’s because they only care about screens .

user1476613140 · 10/03/2026 17:19

They're too busy with their heads in gadgets instead.