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If you could afford to live by working just 3 days a week…

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Somedreamer · 09/03/2026 23:42

Would you?

Or would you keep working 5 days and put the money into savings for your future?

Extra context: No huge financial safety net, still have a mortgage and 6 months of expenses as an emergency fund.

Full disclosure: I am considering this but wondering if it’s irresponsible!

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LameBorzoi · 11/03/2026 00:34

Living on the equivalent salary for a while and putting the extra somewhere that you can't easily spend it sounds like a good idea.

Staying FT for a bit longer in order to save is a good idea in principle, but it's very easy to fall into the trap of just spending it.

PinkBuffalo · 10/03/2026 21:07

I be the same circumstances as you OP, 40 single no kids small mortgage etc

I did go down to 3 days a week over a 1 year ago now (although 10 hr days I do on the days I does working)

it been the best thing for my mental and physical health I has done as I been so much unhappy at work for a long time now. It be much more manageable for me now and I feels so much better for it

Nogimachi · 10/03/2026 20:59

I would if my children were pre-school/infant school age. Otherwise I’d do 4 days and save the extra money tax-free into my pension, to give me more flexibility later on.
If I didn’t have kids I’d do 5 days for as long as possible to save as much money as early as possible so I could relax more when I was over 50 and had less energy for work / or so if I lost my job it wouldn’t be stressful. Money saved young then just magically expands with no effort on your part, it’s great.

GreenCaterpillarOnALeaf · 10/03/2026 16:06

I’m self employed and love my job so I’d always chose to work the 5. BUT previous jobs which I hated I would jump down to three in a heartbeat. Fuck the savings.

henlake7 · 10/03/2026 15:48

I think its usually a trade off.
I work 2 nights a week and have done for years, I love it! I will have 30 yrs in a public sector pension when I finish and my mortgage is paid. Live alone so no kids to think of but I also dont have any savings and I do have to live quite cheaply.
Its worth it for me though, to have time for hobbies and relaxing. Plus I dont think I would be mentally able to cope with my job full time!

ChapmanFarm · 10/03/2026 15:28

Does your employer allow you to purchase additional annual leave? If so you could do that and give yourself a trial of a shorter working week.

The danger, especially in the public sector, at the moment is that if you drop hours you won't necessarily be able to get them back.

I couldn't up mine even if I wanted to.

I think you are single and that brings both additional pressure in the sense you only have yourself to rely on in terms of finances, but equally it frees you from a lot of the saving for children's future. You may as well enjoy your own money (and time ) you just need to work out where the right balance is.

CelestialCandyfloss · 10/03/2026 15:20

Somedreamer · 10/03/2026 00:27

Thanks, I agree with your points.

I’m 40, single, no kids or other dependents. Public sector pension.

I have been feeling fed up for a while now. I do enjoy my job but it is stressful and I would love to have more time to myself. Lots of friends work 3 day weeks while childrearing, and I find myself thinking “well I could do that too if I really want to”. But I do worry that it wouldn’t be sensible.

Would your job allow you to take a sabbatical? My job does; in a couple of years I'm going to move and was thinking when I do I am going to save up and take a sabbatical for 3 months to settle into my new place. That's the plan, anyway!

Birdsongisangry · 10/03/2026 15:16

OP I'm in a similar situation to you, I have friends who work part time for childcare reasons, and whilst I don't doubt that's hard, part of me thinks if they're making it work out of necessity, and they have higher outgoings than me (I don't have children) surely I could make it work? However I am a bit worried about the impact on future pension, and long term sustainability. I also have to remind myself that most of these friends will have to go back to FT, they aren't doing PT until retirement but only when the children are small!

As a compromise, I'm doing my best to live off less money and putting some aside in investments as well as savings. In that way I'm hoping that in 5-10 years I could be more confident that I could genuinely live long term with the pay cut, as well hopefully having a bigger cushion so that I'd have more security to go P/T, especially if for example I could pay a big chunk of the mortgage off.

Somedreamer · 10/03/2026 15:07

I really like the idea of living on the equivalent salary before dropping any days, just to see the reality of what it is like. That seems very sensible. I’m also wondering about compressed hours and using flexi time more strategically.

Urgh isn’t it a nuisance that we have to work?! As I said before, I don’t actually hate my work, but I resent that I have to do so much of it, and that it takes up the best hours of every day.

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GOODCAT · 10/03/2026 14:59

I would aim to retire early instead and put the other two days into your pension. Easier to get your working hours in earlier in your life.

Notmycircusnotmyotter · 10/03/2026 14:35

One life.

Bikenutz · 10/03/2026 14:35

I downshifted at 42. The mortgage was paid off and so I dropped a couple of days. Could still afford to live, have a holiday and save a bit. Is it an option to be full time for a few more years whilst living on a three day a week salary? And get that mortgage paid down as much as possible?

5128gap · 10/03/2026 14:30

I tend to live my life 20% focused on the future, 80% in the here and now. So while I give a nod to preparing for what might be, I'm far more interested in what's in front of me. Ive come to this way of thinking after multiple experiences of watching life throw curve balls that scupper future plans, ill health, death or bereavement and realising there's no promise of tomorrow that justifies too much sacrafice today. So if I had your choice, I'd go for what would make me happier now. I'm older than you though, and may have made a different decision in my 40s.

EightSteps · 10/03/2026 14:21

At 59, ill and burnt out: fair enough.
At 40 with a mortgage and bare minimum emergency savings: I wouldn't.

StarCourt · 10/03/2026 14:16

I’m 59. Burnt out and I’ll, I’m considering doing this.

EightSteps · 10/03/2026 14:11

I'd see how you can reduce stress at work, or possibly compress to four days a week nine a fortnight rather than sacrifice earnings and investment potential.

You could give yourself a target of two years during which you learn to live off the reduced salary, and put the difference into investments. That way you'd see how manageable it is, and build a safety net at the same time which would be v. useful if you decide to take the leap.

Also, we all go through phases where we feel 'meh' about work. They usually pass. I hated my job about 7 years ago* and seriously thought about leaving for something less stressful but lower paid. I'm so glad I didn't though.

*coincided with perimenopause, unsurprisingly.

SouthcoastSunshine · 10/03/2026 14:00

If you got made redundant now, would your pension (when accessible) be enough to live on if you couldnt get another public sector role? Also the problem with pubic sector is that if you want to retire early you either have to accept a big reduction in annual pension or be able to support yourself until 68+. If it were me, until i had either savings or paid off the mortgage i dont think i would as you wouldnt get much in terms of universal credit/job seekers or whatever it is called.

Somedreamer · 10/03/2026 13:24

SuzyFandango · 10/03/2026 08:49

I would love to have more time to myself. Lots of friends work 3 day weeks while childrearing

You realise they don't get "more time to themselves" when childrearing, right? They are just doing two jobs, and are probably dashing from work to responsibilities at home. They are probably doing loads of washing and extra cleaning, taking kids to and from childcare and activities, supporting them with homework, spending time buying kids shoes, clothes, gifts for birthday parties. Not to mention just spending time with kids. An afternoon being a "patient" for an enthusiastic four year old "doctor" is not "time for themselves".

I see what you’re saying but it’s besides the point really. My friends wanted children, that is how they choose to spend their time and they prioritise this over work and finances. I can do likewise. I could choose to spend my extra days renovating the house and garden and argue that this is work too.

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Somedreamer · 10/03/2026 12:59

I have all sorts of ideas about what I’d do with my extra 2 days a week! As I live alone I really want to be more social and build more of a network in the community. I would see more of my friends and family and I would spend significant time volunteering. I quite fancy being a magistrate, or a charity trustee. I would also quite like to do a bit of low-pressure academic work, maybe write a paper or two in my area of interests, or maybe start a blog. I would also like to get into gardening, knitting, read more, the classic ‘write a book’ etc etc!

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Somedreamer · 10/03/2026 12:45

Thanks for all the replies, I’m enjoying reading them over lunch.
4 days does seem like a good option, I had originally thought that that ‘doing the same amount of work for less pay’ problem would be more of an issue with this though.

To answer the question about why I haven’t saved more, I had a career change and went back to uni for 4 years in my late 20s and early 30s. So that had an impact on savings, and my salary hasn’t always been this level.

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MrFluffyDogIsMyBestFriend · 10/03/2026 11:38

By the way, you don't have to have a meaningful hobby - whatever that means. You're allowed to potter about at home.

MrFluffyDogIsMyBestFriend · 10/03/2026 11:37

As someone who's disabled and can't even work one day I would say that the security of the extra money might seem like a good idea but if you work three days, you're more likely to stay healthy so that would be more sustainable. Thus creating security in a different way. Plus you'd have a much nicer life now and you'd even enjoy your job more knowing that you only have to work three days.

AnotherBretonTop · 10/03/2026 11:19

How long left on mortgage? Could you over pay for the next year or so and then go part time? At least then you would have financial security.

OrdinarySloth · 10/03/2026 11:14

I would keep working 5 days and stash the extra money away for the future. Or maybe compromise and work 4 days. Maybe if there was something meaningful I wanted to do in those 2 days off, I’d considered the 3 days but not if it was just general “me time” with no plans.

It’s my plan for when my son is older. I currently work school hours and we won’t need me to increase my working hours to fund our life as it is now when that’s not necessary. But I will want to be putting the extra into retirement or general savings.

WorstPaceScenario · 10/03/2026 11:13

Swiftie1878 · 10/03/2026 08:36

Life can turn in a sixpence. Earn while you can to save for when you can’t.

I think there's a balance to be found. Having recently seen two of my peers die in their forties and early fifties, I've planned financially to live a long life but I'm also making sure I get the most out of my life while I have it. For me, that includes working less but I appreciate that's not everyone's preference.