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Nameisntmine · 09/03/2026 20:22

We live in a rental property (me, DH, DS and DD)
There’s a slab of concrete in our garden which had a beam of wood on the outer edges that’s now gone rotten and has started to just fall part. I asked if we could have the wood either replaced or removed and the landlord said no and to just put the wood in the general waste - which Ive checked on the counsil website and it isn’t even allowed!! They also said that they won’t be removing the concrete (which I didn’t ask them to do, I was only referring to the wood)
we are now going to replace the wood and dispose of the old wood correctly. But I’m not going to be asking permission to replace it as it’s something I feel HAS to be done- the concrete edges are sharp! And I feel it’s unsafe for the children if they were to fall on it etc.
the landlord has previously said we can’t do certain things around the house e.g. paining, putting up curtain poles etc. previously. However I feel like this is probably different?

I just wondered generally if this is even our responsibility as it doesn’t state in our contract regarding the garden.

AIBU to replace it without asking? I’m a bit miffed about this tbh

Landlord or me
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WallaceinAnderland · 09/03/2026 22:20

The wood can be put down the side of the shed. It will rot but in the meantime it will be a lovely little habitat for all sorts of garden creatures.

I would put some little plant pots or something around the concrete to shield it off.

Cherrysoup · 09/03/2026 22:05

Pool noodle. The wood can go to the tip, where there’s a specific wood skip, they don’t care about the state it’s in.

BlueMum16 · 09/03/2026 21:52

Nameisntmine · 09/03/2026 20:37

@BlueMum16 i think it needs something around the concrete. It’s not actually flush to the floor it’s got rocks or something underneath and it’s very sharp! I worry the kids will trip over it or get injured on it if there isn’t something protecting the edges

I can sort of see what you mean. How old are your DC?

Putting wood around it won't make it anymore safe or any less of a trip hazard though.

Nameisntmine · 09/03/2026 20:37

@BlueMum16 i think it needs something around the concrete. It’s not actually flush to the floor it’s got rocks or something underneath and it’s very sharp! I worry the kids will trip over it or get injured on it if there isn’t something protecting the edges

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BlueMum16 · 09/03/2026 20:30

I'd just drop it in the bin.i don't see the benefit of replacing.

Pippa12 · 09/03/2026 20:30

I’d just saw it up and put it in your bin or take it to the tip? I can’t see a problem replacing it like for like.