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Is something about to happen?

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Canyoumakecoffeeinamicrowave · 09/03/2026 12:13

I’m a fairly anxious person, so it could be that, but I keep seeing on different Sm planforms, people saying it feels like similar to before covid lockdown and that something is about to happen.

Does anyone else feel this?

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Wellthisisdifficult · 09/03/2026 13:50

KidsAndDogsGalore · 09/03/2026 13:02

😅 wishful thinking on my behalf! (Wouldn't it be lovely if we could just cut the crap and have peace again!)

We’ve hardly ever had peace though, there’s always been a war happening somewhere. Some wars have been catastrophic, the 30 years War knocked out up to 10% of the European population (50% of some areas of what we know as Germany). I would say experiencing war in some form or another is an inevitable consequence of being human.

What I do think though that we have become a bit over sensitised. We used to be much more focused on our own country and the friendly tribes.This is what was important, that these survived. Weakening an enemy was to be celebrated, because it meant we were less threatened.

Now we have people not sure whose side to take in a war so it makes the feeling very painful because those people will never be able to make sense of the constant wars, their mental health will suffer, society suffers.

Wars will always happen, we seem to have become disconnected from how to survive this fact

Conundrummum123 · 09/03/2026 13:50

MyOpalCat · 09/03/2026 13:46

When we know we at end of the fixed rate we pay attention anyway - I think most people do these days.

We had to go onto a higher rate than we had prior last year - but much lower than our first mortage on previous house.

Rates go up and down - when you are coming near to an end you keep yourself informed and try for the best deal you can get.

When I was a teen my parents and many other families were badly hit by rising rates as the market was full of variable mortages - now it's somewhere between 70-85% of mortgages are fixed and 55 % owner occupied houses having paid mortages off completely and owned outright. Rate rises affect fewer people immediately.

Despite having a mortage we've 4 years before we need to change and won't need to start looking for another three and half years when rates may be completely different.

That’s you though, there may be people on 2 yr fixes or with 1 year left and they need to have their eyes open. In fact all of us do, some may pay down capital balance whilst on a favourable rate.

well people might wait until the end of their term not knowing you can secure a rate up to 6 months before. Not everyone knows this

I don’t know why you are downplaying how significant mortgage rates are, for most people it’s their largest expense

Echobelly · 09/03/2026 13:47

Well, it's certainly a situation where a lot of impactful things could happen. I mean, we felt something was about to happen before COVID because we had several months' warning - news that got closer and closer about this new virus. I initially hoped it would be like Swine Flu and get staved off before reaching the UK, but when it reached Italy it was crystal clear it was coming here too.

There's no obvious path forward at the moment - a number of things could happen, none of them good, but I don't think anyone can call what that will be. Especially with the yahoos in charge of America. It'll be bad news if they continue to prosecute this war to fight Trump's low ratings, but it'll also be bad news if they just leave a ruined Iran under a new and even more aggressive despot.

MyOpalCat · 09/03/2026 13:46

Conundrummum123 · 09/03/2026 13:20

Yeah but this has inverted the yield curve meaning it’s pretty likely that the rates people coming off may be lower than the fixed rates available! We’re now in a rate increase environment

there will also be people coming off fixed rates now that can act pretty quick..

When we know we at end of the fixed rate we pay attention anyway - I think most people do these days.

We had to go onto a higher rate than we had prior last year - but much lower than our first mortage on previous house.

Rates go up and down - when you are coming near to an end you keep yourself informed and try for the best deal you can get.

When I was a teen my parents and many other families were badly hit by rising rates as the market was full of variable mortages - now it's somewhere between 70-85% of mortgages are fixed and 55 % owner occupied houses having paid mortages off completely and owned outright. Rate rises affect fewer people immediately.

Despite having a mortage we've 4 years before we need to change and won't need to start looking for another three and half years when rates may be completely different.

FloofBunny · 09/03/2026 13:42

It's already happened, hasn't it? Trump has lit WW3.

smallglassbottle · 09/03/2026 13:42

Gen X survived the Cold War, Thatcher, playing in abandoned industrial sites, Spangles (if you know, you know 😉), Chorlton & The Wheelies, random pockets of diesel filled water, and regular beatings with leather belts 💪🏻

We got this 😊

pimplebum · 09/03/2026 13:41

You need to see a doctor- that won’t happen quickly but you need tell them
you are thinking this way

in the mean time keep busy volunteer etc
snd either stay off social media or train your algorithm the show you positive news and puppies only

Zov · 09/03/2026 13:39

I am assuming you are worried because of what's going on in Iran/The Middle East?

I'm not worried. The UK/world has been through far worse.

I'm guessing you are quite young @Canyoumakecoffeeinamicrowave ?

I don't mean that as patronising or condescending, but everyone I know around my age (older Gen X/around late 50s) and older, is not worried, as we have seen/been through worse. It tends to be younger millennials and GenX who are catastrophising.

Enyastar · 09/03/2026 13:39

Itsmetheflamingo · 09/03/2026 13:37

Las I saw (Friday - accept things change) we were very, very far away from the impacts on oil that we saw within a week of the Ukraine war breaking out.

do you have some reason to think it’ll be worse than that?

I suggest you watch the news today. Oil prices have gkne through the roof since Fri

Itsmetheflamingo · 09/03/2026 13:37

Las I saw (Friday - accept things change) we were very, very far away from the impacts on oil that we saw within a week of the Ukraine war breaking out.

do you have some reason to think it’ll be worse than that?

BrownSharpie · 09/03/2026 13:37

Anything could happen tomorrow, Kim Jong-Un might nuke us all because he’s upset that world leaders are getting to play with their war toys and he’s been left out.

Take some Prozac and don’t want the news.

smallglassbottle · 09/03/2026 13:35

DuchessofStaffordshire · 09/03/2026 12:58

Most able bodied people have two stalks called legs which grow from their backsides.

I'm not walking an eight mile round trip to Lidl for anyone. The train is too expensive and buses are full of <horror> other people, so I'm not doing that either. I don't live in a town so there's nowhere to walk to either, unless you count the chemists and they buggered my prescription up so I don't go there anymore.

AInightingale · 09/03/2026 13:35

Dunno, I feel similar - that the fuel shortages may lead to mini lockdowns of a sort. Schools closing or learning moving online, shops on restricted hours, WFH. We do seem to be facing a serious gas supply crisis and it may be a case of having to prioritise some use over others.

Parker231 · 09/03/2026 13:32

Canyoumakecoffeeinamicrowave · 09/03/2026 12:24

Yes, sorry should have stated in the post-not a lockdown

What have you read?

Carouseloflife · 09/03/2026 13:31

Inflation, hike in petrol prices and interest rates go up and down. It’s part of life and why we try to save for rainy days and not live beyond our means.
The weather affects us too, especially when it looks miserable outside we can feel there’s a cloud hanging over us.
Hopefully the world leaders will get their act together and bring some sort of stability again.
Try and stay hopeful, spring is on its way.

Itsmetheflamingo · 09/03/2026 13:28

Also in positive news I am getting divorced and quite looking forward to having my assets valued in the next few months rather than a year ago 😁

Itsmetheflamingo · 09/03/2026 13:26

I don’t understand all these people saying “it feels like before lockdown” wtf?! Covid was creeping here in a perfectly open way a good month before lockdown. You didn’t spidey sense anything. You just got anxious.

it feels quite privileged and attention seeking to be banging on about “something happening” to the uk whilst people thousands of miles away genuinely are waking up to their towns being blown apart. Whilst you fanny around on your phone feeling scared

likelysuspect · 09/03/2026 13:26

CarterBeatsTheDevil · 09/03/2026 13:07

Do what I do, OP, and teach your social media algorithms to show you crafting, cookery and how to make up a hooded eyelid.

You forgot cats.

KidsAndDogsGalore · 09/03/2026 13:24

Enyastar · 09/03/2026 13:16

No but petrol and diesel is about to become extortionate. Over £100 to fill up average car.

... not for everyone. We have an EV & solar panels. That's one bullet we dodged. Because no doubt l, these will also be hit by price rises.

Yes smug, but I like to add something positive at least for some people...

GoldBthehypo · 09/03/2026 13:23

I do feel like maybe we could be walking i to a recession at some point but too early to say so who knows but I can understand the feeling OP

HelloCheekyCat · 09/03/2026 13:22

damelza · 09/03/2026 12:51

The best gift I gave myself was to stop listening and watching endless news and analyses from talking heads and doom mongers.

OK, I get the headline news every morning and avoid going any deeper into it, but I keep up with the basics.

We will be told to put our heads between our knees and kiss our arses goodbye if it ever reaches that critical juncture. That'll be enough news for me.

It's amazing how light life can be if you ignore most of it. It will happen anyway and there is damn all I can do about it as an individual is there?

Are you me 😆
I keep abreast of current affairs but don't dwell on it because there is literally nothing I can do about it

Conundrummum123 · 09/03/2026 13:21

Pedallleur · 09/03/2026 13:12

Something somewhere is always about to happen/is happening/has happened but there is a very good chance whatever it is/was won't affect you/me

In this instance that analogy is wrong, it will affect us due to inflation, energy prices and mortgage rates

Conundrummum123 · 09/03/2026 13:20

MyOpalCat · 09/03/2026 13:13

home owners need to be eyes open to the change

If it mortage rates we're fixed for next few years like a large part of the mortgage market these days - and due to ageing population many more than in past own houses outright.

If it's council tax or energy prices well those affect people in rented properties as well as rents going ever up which is probbaly not great with eldest looking to graduate this year.

Yeah but this has inverted the yield curve meaning it’s pretty likely that the rates people coming off may be lower than the fixed rates available! We’re now in a rate increase environment

there will also be people coming off fixed rates now that can act pretty quick..

Bitsandbobs2 · 09/03/2026 13:17

Goldfsh · 09/03/2026 12:19

My pension fund value today means I might have to stay indoors forever

Edited

Omg this, my husband has 3 different ones at a very big loss

Enyastar · 09/03/2026 13:16

No but petrol and diesel is about to become extortionate. Over £100 to fill up average car.