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Is something about to happen?

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Canyoumakecoffeeinamicrowave · 09/03/2026 12:13

I’m a fairly anxious person, so it could be that, but I keep seeing on different Sm planforms, people saying it feels like similar to before covid lockdown and that something is about to happen.

Does anyone else feel this?

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ChubbyPuffling · 09/03/2026 14:41

It can indeed happen anywhere, the lady who runs our local toddler play sessions talks about the day things changed in Syria... she was a midwife, her hospital was bombed, her life imploded and she took 4 months travelling to get here (where her sister was studying).

Here, it is much less likely to become a front line issue, but... why do we think Trump took control of Venezuelan oil, told Texas to pump, pump, pump... just a few months before unleashing hell on the region that keeps Europe readily supplied with oil and gas. That man is going to increase his personal wealth any which way he can. He will squeeze us til the pips squeak. He is an arse , out for his own gain (and that of those who control him.)

ThatFairy · 09/03/2026 14:39

Itsmetheflamingo · 09/03/2026 14:14

How could they get a missile here? They’re bombing their neighbours because they cat reach any further away

plus why would they want to bomb the uk?

do you remember all the scare mongering about Putin who was obviously going to sail a nuke over the whole of Europe to blow up our little island? Didn’t come to anything either did it? And we actually helped lead the Ukraine resistance to him 😭

Aren't UK flying bomber jets over Iran ? I read they have ICBMs capable of reaching UK.

Of course Russia wasn't going to nuke us. They have no reason to

Endofyear · 09/03/2026 14:39

It's your anxiety that is making you feel like this - when mine is bad, I have a sense of impending doom like something bad is going to happen.

Best advice is stay off social media and don't watch the news. There are always awful things going on in the world and this middle east thing is just the latest. Yes it will affect us in terms of fuel prices and maybe a shortage of certain imported goods but it's unlikely to be more than that. Wars are horrible and hopefully this one will be over soon. Until then, don't doom scroll, get out in the fresh air and enjoy life as best you can x

Conundrummum123 · 09/03/2026 14:38

Conundrummum123 · 09/03/2026 14:30

Ridiculous

Hit too soon as said they need to be eyes open that obviously doesn’t apply to people who own their house outright

it also does apply to people who have w longer fixes because they may be able to over pay to prevent any rate shock

Crunchymum · 09/03/2026 14:37

I’m a fairly anxious person

If this is the case, I would keep off of SM as much as possible as it is not going to help your anxiety at all.

Conundrummum123 · 09/03/2026 14:30

MyOpalCat · 09/03/2026 14:18

My point was they'd already be looking at rates so they don't need some random poster telling them to do the bloody obvious.

You stated all homeowner need to watch the rates - well no the ones who own the house outright don't and those with years left before changing mortgage product don't. So your statement was plain wrong.

You might need to watch mortage rates - but no idea if OP need do - given she may be renting or on a fixed rate or in the 55% who owner occupied who own outright.

Last mortgage rate hike the media acted like it was the 90s mortgage market - rates affects are much slower to take affect.

Also I have no idea why you are assuming I'm saying mortgages aren't a huge outgoing - of course they are it's why most people these days fix for stablity and keep an eye on the rates as the need arises and undertand rates go up and down over years anyway.

You might need to be keeping an eye on the rates - which is unlucky timing if coming off a fixed rate soon or bad planning if you hadn't realise rising rates could adversly affect you or part of the risk you took with variable rates - but don't assume that everyone is in your situation.

Most homeowers don't need to worry about mortgage rates at the moment.

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Ridiculous

Justchillinhere · 09/03/2026 14:28

I worry about nothing in the news, don't watch it, try to read just basic info, yes a lot of bad things happen, but we as little people we can't change anything, every day is a blessing, grateful to just be able to breathe, have friends, family, work and enjoy the nature around us

Terfedout · 09/03/2026 14:22

Wtaf are you even going on about here? What is going to happen? How can you possibly be anxious about something when you don't even know what that something is? Absolutely bonkers. I can't even pretend to be understanding about such nonsense before the be kind brigade get started.

CharlotteRumpling · 09/03/2026 14:20

Canyoumakecoffeeinamicrowave · 09/03/2026 14:18

Well yes exactly but where will it go from here

Nobody knows really.

H1ppychicken · 09/03/2026 14:20

I think it is normal to feel that sinking something is about to happen (especially given all that’s happening in the world right now and the feeling that anything could happen next) but if you are getting this largely from social media then maybe you should give yourself a social media break and concentrate on things you can control?

Canyoumakecoffeeinamicrowave · 09/03/2026 14:18

FloofBunny · 09/03/2026 13:42

It's already happened, hasn't it? Trump has lit WW3.

Well yes exactly but where will it go from here

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MyOpalCat · 09/03/2026 14:18

Conundrummum123 · 09/03/2026 13:50

That’s you though, there may be people on 2 yr fixes or with 1 year left and they need to have their eyes open. In fact all of us do, some may pay down capital balance whilst on a favourable rate.

well people might wait until the end of their term not knowing you can secure a rate up to 6 months before. Not everyone knows this

I don’t know why you are downplaying how significant mortgage rates are, for most people it’s their largest expense

My point was they'd already be looking at rates so they don't need some random poster telling them to do the bloody obvious.

You stated all homeowner need to watch the rates - well no the ones who own the house outright don't and those with years left before changing mortgage product don't. So your statement was plain wrong.

You might need to watch mortage rates - but no idea if OP need do - given she may be renting or on a fixed rate or in the 55% who owner occupied who own outright.

Last mortgage rate hike the media acted like it was the 90s mortgage market - rates affects are much slower to take affect.

Also I have no idea why you are assuming I'm saying mortgages aren't a huge outgoing - of course they are it's why most people these days fix for stablity and keep an eye on the rates as the need arises and undertand rates go up and down over years anyway.

You might need to be keeping an eye on the rates - which is unlucky timing if coming off a fixed rate soon or bad planning if you hadn't realise rising rates could adversly affect you or part of the risk you took with variable rates - but don't assume that everyone is in your situation.

Most homeowers don't need to worry about mortgage rates at the moment.

Itsmetheflamingo · 09/03/2026 14:16

Canyoumakecoffeeinamicrowave · 09/03/2026 14:13

It can happen anywhere, this is my point

Your point is you’re scared that anything can happen anywhere?

I mean, an Albanian drug dealing gang member might kick your door down and beat you to death but I suspect you don’t constantly think about that?!

Canyoumakecoffeeinamicrowave · 09/03/2026 14:16

Zov · 09/03/2026 13:39

I am assuming you are worried because of what's going on in Iran/The Middle East?

I'm not worried. The UK/world has been through far worse.

I'm guessing you are quite young @Canyoumakecoffeeinamicrowave ?

I don't mean that as patronising or condescending, but everyone I know around my age (older Gen X/around late 50s) and older, is not worried, as we have seen/been through worse. It tends to be younger millennials and GenX who are catastrophising.

I’m Xennial

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CharlotteRumpling · 09/03/2026 14:16

DrumsPleaseFab · 09/03/2026 14:14

I also feel we are on the cusp of another big world event, US/Israel war vs Iran is a big deal, and they are trying to drag the U.K. and Europe in, it is not likely to be all over and ok in a few weeks, despite what Trump says.

the idea that this would not concern us, is very much an island-mentality

i also guess everyone who is completely unconcerned does not have loved ones in the military or in the Middle East

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I do. I do not think they will be helped by me panicking or going on SM.

DrumsPleaseFab · 09/03/2026 14:14

I also feel we are on the cusp of another big world event, US/Israel war vs Iran is a big deal, and they are trying to drag the U.K. and Europe in, it is not likely to be all over and ok in a few weeks, despite what Trump says.

the idea that this would not concern us, is very much an island-mentality

i also guess everyone who is completely unconcerned does not have loved ones in the military or in the Middle East

Itsmetheflamingo · 09/03/2026 14:14

ThatFairy · 09/03/2026 14:01

I don't think we should just wash OP clear of sensible insight. What if Iran hits us with a missile ? I read they have ICBMs

How could they get a missile here? They’re bombing their neighbours because they cat reach any further away

plus why would they want to bomb the uk?

do you remember all the scare mongering about Putin who was obviously going to sail a nuke over the whole of Europe to blow up our little island? Didn’t come to anything either did it? And we actually helped lead the Ukraine resistance to him 😭

Canyoumakecoffeeinamicrowave · 09/03/2026 14:13

Itsmetheflamingo · 09/03/2026 13:26

I don’t understand all these people saying “it feels like before lockdown” wtf?! Covid was creeping here in a perfectly open way a good month before lockdown. You didn’t spidey sense anything. You just got anxious.

it feels quite privileged and attention seeking to be banging on about “something happening” to the uk whilst people thousands of miles away genuinely are waking up to their towns being blown apart. Whilst you fanny around on your phone feeling scared

It can happen anywhere, this is my point

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LBFseBrom · 09/03/2026 14:10

No I don't feel that at all.

CharlotteRumpling · 09/03/2026 14:09

Get off SM and go for a walk. I am doing just that shortly. It's sunny where I am.
Then I am going to eat some icecream and read a book for the rest of the day.

Mauhea · 09/03/2026 14:09

I try to keep up to date with current events and wouldn't say the state of the world is keeping me up at night, given that I'm tucked in a pretty useless part of England. However, I did recently realise that my passport had expired, and not having my 'papers' in order has made me slightly uneasy.

ThatFairy · 09/03/2026 14:01

I don't think we should just wash OP clear of sensible insight. What if Iran hits us with a missile ? I read they have ICBMs

likelysuspect · 09/03/2026 14:00

Wellthisisdifficult · 09/03/2026 13:50

We’ve hardly ever had peace though, there’s always been a war happening somewhere. Some wars have been catastrophic, the 30 years War knocked out up to 10% of the European population (50% of some areas of what we know as Germany). I would say experiencing war in some form or another is an inevitable consequence of being human.

What I do think though that we have become a bit over sensitised. We used to be much more focused on our own country and the friendly tribes.This is what was important, that these survived. Weakening an enemy was to be celebrated, because it meant we were less threatened.

Now we have people not sure whose side to take in a war so it makes the feeling very painful because those people will never be able to make sense of the constant wars, their mental health will suffer, society suffers.

Wars will always happen, we seem to have become disconnected from how to survive this fact

I think society and the world at large (certainly in the West) we were sold a lie and also wanted to believe the lie that wars are over, the war to end all wars (except the one that came after it...!), the UN, NATO, the Human Rights would see the end of the risk of WWIII

Nope, we need to accept exactly what you say, unfortunately we are just a bunch of warring tribes, still the same as ancient peoples, just with cars and computers now.

DuchessofStaffordshire · 09/03/2026 13:55

smallglassbottle · 09/03/2026 13:35

I'm not walking an eight mile round trip to Lidl for anyone. The train is too expensive and buses are full of <horror> other people, so I'm not doing that either. I don't live in a town so there's nowhere to walk to either, unless you count the chemists and they buggered my prescription up so I don't go there anymore.

Bit you said that fuel going up would mean you'd be stuck inside, which is patently untrue. If it did go up to the point that you found it unaffordable then you would have to consider other transport options in order to get to Lidl.

Marmalademorning · 09/03/2026 13:51

The price of oil is sky rocketing and I’ve started to see reports in the news that Brits are being urged to drive less. But apart from that I haven’t seen much.