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To absolutely loathe the increase in smear campaigns against businesses because of the halal meat debate?

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nc0007 · 09/03/2026 06:52

Well it’s not really a debate, is it? You either don’t care, or you’re absolutely seething because your meat may or may not be halal. But irrespectively of what you think about this, AIBU to think that people ‘outing’ businesses on social media about what meat they use and encouraging hundreds of people to smear them not just in posts but reviews to tank their ratings is just crazy?

Hundreds of people commenting ‘I’ve just left them a bad review on google’ because a (British owned baked potato) business extended their trading hours to their Muslim customers? People who have never bought anything from them in their life, probably geographically will never go there. Actively trying to sabotage a business because you think you’re what - some sort of activist?

And don’t get me started on the posts where people reach out to these poor customer service reps in supermarkets to ask them if the meat they sell is halal because of this mad narrative that ‘80% of supermarket meat is halal’ - where has this nonsense come from?!?! 😂 People screenshotting and commenting about how ‘Clare from Lidl’ is avoiding the question when she probably doesn’t have a scooby and the answer probably isn’t a straight yes or no either!

Madness. Utter madness. People treating this like it’s a full time job.

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MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 08:40

Sharptonguedwoman · 11/03/2026 08:38

My issue is the faux outrage about animal welfare in relation to halal meat, most of which is stunned in any case, from people who don't otherwise appear to give a toss about the welfare of animals in our meat or dairy industries.

I think we all draw a line somewhere when it comes to ethics and morals about meat or anything else. My particular line is that I won't eat unstunned meat as I think it's cruel. Views may differ.

The whole welfare in slaughterhouses is a much bigger question and I don't want to derail the thread.

OK, you are free to make your own choices. But presumably that means you would be fine eating the majority of halal meat which is stunned?

nc0007 · 11/03/2026 08:40

FrizzyFrizbee · 10/03/2026 22:29

What a crap counter argument. Laws were liberalised to prevent religious control, not enforce it.

Again, tell me how far this BS should go. Child marriage for some religious communities perhaps?
Tell me OP, is it fair to give exceptions to a law based on religion? Should Westerners expect the same in non-western countries and if not, why not?

Do you think we should move toward better standards of animal welfare, or not?

It’s not a counter argument, I was merely answering your question: “Do you think it acceptable to have different sets of laws based on religion?” - where it seemed you implied that there should be no laws at all based on religious grounds.

I did not create this thread to talk about which religion, or no religion is superior or more morally “correct”.

Of course we should move towards a better standard of welfare for animals but we simply cannot pin it down to Halal or Kosher methods alone. If someone actively chooses to pick up £2 chicken breasts from their supermarket shelf (which I suspect is majority of the country since the shelves are filled to the brim with this product - you know supply and demand), then I don’t believe in the same breath they can send emails demanding to know if they’re Halal or not citing animal welfare as being the motivator here. Then screenshotting responses and plastering all over Facebook with the caption “80% of supermarket meat is Halal” and it’s awful for animal welfare. Your chickens have never seen daylight and probably never waddled freely but you’re concerned that it may not have been stunned?

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Dymaxion · 11/03/2026 08:39

I suppose we could all go back to the good old days of keeping a pig, killing it ourselves, which is still a legally viable option as long as you don't give anyone outside the immediate household any of the meat/brains ?

Sharptonguedwoman · 11/03/2026 08:38

My issue is the faux outrage about animal welfare in relation to halal meat, most of which is stunned in any case, from people who don't otherwise appear to give a toss about the welfare of animals in our meat or dairy industries.

I think we all draw a line somewhere when it comes to ethics and morals about meat or anything else. My particular line is that I won't eat unstunned meat as I think it's cruel. Views may differ.

The whole welfare in slaughterhouses is a much bigger question and I don't want to derail the thread.

nomas · 11/03/2026 08:38

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 08:26

Why would I be concerned for you? I think it’s strange someone would take a wafer blessed as the body of Christ for the reasons you say. But go for it if that’s your thing.

It still doesn’t change the fact most people don’t do that. And opting out is fine. No one gets called bigot or intolerant as they do when opting out of halal.

We also don’t ask school age dc to take communion and there’d be an issue if it was the only option, as some school dinners are with halal.

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Why would I be concerned for you? I think it’s strange someone would take a wafer blessed as the body of Christ for the reasons you say. But go for it if that’s your thing.

You were the one rather patronisingly telling me ‘If you go to mass and people stand up for communion just stay sitting. It’s fine.’

I didn’t ask for your opinion on what’s fine so maybe you were concerned about me becoming Christian against my will.

It’s not ‘my thing’, what a strange attitude. I’ve also had langar at a Sikh temple, are you concerned about me becoming accidentally Sikh too?

It still doesn’t change the fact most people don’t do that. And opting out is fine. No one gets called bigot or intolerant as they do when opting out of halal.

MrsB has repeatedly explained why people get called intolerant for bleating on about halal whilst ignoring the low standard of care of animals in abattoirs , and it’s got nothing to do with opting out of halal. No one has issues with that. Opting out is fine.

Jamba0 · 11/03/2026 08:35

nc0007 · 09/03/2026 06:52

Well it’s not really a debate, is it? You either don’t care, or you’re absolutely seething because your meat may or may not be halal. But irrespectively of what you think about this, AIBU to think that people ‘outing’ businesses on social media about what meat they use and encouraging hundreds of people to smear them not just in posts but reviews to tank their ratings is just crazy?

Hundreds of people commenting ‘I’ve just left them a bad review on google’ because a (British owned baked potato) business extended their trading hours to their Muslim customers? People who have never bought anything from them in their life, probably geographically will never go there. Actively trying to sabotage a business because you think you’re what - some sort of activist?

And don’t get me started on the posts where people reach out to these poor customer service reps in supermarkets to ask them if the meat they sell is halal because of this mad narrative that ‘80% of supermarket meat is halal’ - where has this nonsense come from?!?! 😂 People screenshotting and commenting about how ‘Clare from Lidl’ is avoiding the question when she probably doesn’t have a scooby and the answer probably isn’t a straight yes or no either!

Madness. Utter madness. People treating this like it’s a full time job.

Opposing extreme animal abuse can hardly constitute smearing. It's plain unethical. They cut their throats with a knife and make them suffer for a long time, bleeding to death. That's the only way it's accepted to be halal. No different than those ISIS videos of human hostages where they did exactly the same. And you think opposing the sale of this kind of product is 'smear campaigning'?

Besides, halal meat has to follow specific protocols. It's only acceptable halal when they cut their throats and then 'embed' the meat with prayers, and these prayers are not exactly loving or nice... they call for the killing of other people. And you eat that energy. The entire practice is gross and barbaric.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 08:30

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 08:27

No they can say both reasons as much as they like.

Yes, and others can call them out on the fact that they're obviously being disingenuous.

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 08:27

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 08:25

They don't. They just need to stop bleating about animal welfare on the Internet when it's obvious that they don't give a toss about it.

No they can say both reasons as much as they like.

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 08:26

nomas · 11/03/2026 08:21

Fortunately that sounds like a one off set up. If you go to mass and people stand up for communion just stay sitting. It’s fine.

This is quite patronising. Where have you got the impression that I wasn’t fine with being asked to get up and participate? I wasn’t forced.

Not sure if you’re concerned for me
or concerned with gate-keeping Christianity. Neither is necessary.

Why would I be concerned for you? I think it’s strange someone would take a wafer blessed as the body of Christ for the reasons you say. But go for it if that’s your thing.

It still doesn’t change the fact most people don’t do that. And opting out is fine. No one gets called bigot or intolerant as they do when opting out of halal.

We also don’t ask school age dc to take communion and there’d be an issue if it was the only option, as some school dinners are with halal.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 08:25

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 08:19

Why do they need to let you know?

They don't. They just need to stop bleating about animal welfare on the Internet when it's obvious that they don't give a toss about it.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 08:24

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 08:04

Sure do it or don’t. No one will say it’s intolerant or bigoted to opt out if someone realises what lining up for a blessed communion means.

Side stepping mistakenly religious adults, would you be ok with holy communion for all school children?

As an atheist, I wouldn't have been remotely bothered if someone had given my dd a special wafer that had been prayed over. As far as I'm concerned, it is just a wafer?

If they had made my dd participate in a wider religious ritual around the giving of the wafer, then I would not have been happy with that, unless it was a one-off educational experience, in which case it would have been fine.

Are children eating halal meat in schools being asked to take part in wider Islamic rituals around the consumption of that meat? Or are they simply eating their lunch, blissfully oblivious?

nomas · 11/03/2026 08:21

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 08:17

Fortunately that sounds like a one off set up. If you go to mass and people stand up for communion just stay sitting. It’s fine.

As is labelling any halal product and consumers opting out due to welfare or because it’s a religious ritual that is not for them.

Fortunately that sounds like a one off set up. If you go to mass and people stand up for communion just stay sitting. It’s fine.

This is quite patronising. Where have you got the impression that I wasn’t fine with being asked to get up and participate? I wasn’t forced.

Not sure if you’re concerned for me
or concerned with gate-keeping Christianity. Neither is necessary.

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 08:19

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 08:15

How can it be both? Anyone who genuinely has strong beliefs about animal welfare would avoid eating mass produced meat in any case, so this simply wouldn't be an issue for them.

As for people choosing to opt out for other reasons, that's their prerogative, I just want them to be honest about why.

Why do they need to let you know?

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 08:17

nomas · 11/03/2026 08:13

In my case we were.

Fortunately that sounds like a one off set up. If you go to mass and people stand up for communion just stay sitting. It’s fine.

As is labelling any halal product and consumers opting out due to welfare or because it’s a religious ritual that is not for them.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 08:15

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 08:10

It’s both. Not always together. Some want to avoid it not because they are religious though, it’s more opting out of religious ritual through informed choice which is fine.

Or their dc are not religious so they’d prefer to not have it in schools.

How can it be both? Anyone who genuinely has strong beliefs about animal welfare would avoid eating mass produced meat in any case, so this simply wouldn't be an issue for them.

As for people choosing to opt out for other reasons, that's their prerogative, I just want them to be honest about why.

5MinuteArgument · 11/03/2026 08:13

Sharptonguedwoman · 11/03/2026 07:46

Good question. I suspect that most people aren't aware of the subtleties, just that there are questions over cruelty and those questions are connected with religious beliefs maybe. Or that's how they are seen.

Yes, it should be the halal and kosher debate.

The reason why people focus on halal is because the kosher industry is small while the halal industry is much bigger and growing and there's concern about whether it crosses into general meat consumption without people knowing. This is happening in a secondary school near me, so I can imagine it happens in other places too.

nomas · 11/03/2026 08:13

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 08:10

Ok you’re not being asked to participate if you don’t have faith.

In my case we were.

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 08:10

nomas · 11/03/2026 08:05

Thanks MrsB. That’s so funny about your DH.

I’ve always been open to learning about different religions and have no issue with going to a place of worship and doing what I’m asked.

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Ok you’re not being asked to participate if you don’t have faith.

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 08:10

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 08:06

Does anyone actually have an issue with someone choosing not to eat halal meat for religious reasons? I'm not aware of this.

My issue is the faux outrage about animal welfare in relation to halal meat, most of which is stunned in any case, from people who don't otherwise appear to give a toss about the welfare of animals in our meat or dairy industries.

It’s both. Not always together. Some want to avoid it not because they are religious though, it’s more opting out of religious ritual through informed choice which is fine.

Or their dc are not religious so they’d prefer to not have it in schools.

Poetnojo · 11/03/2026 08:09

HappyClapper100 · 11/03/2026 06:45

Halal meat is labelled though. It is only kosher slaughtered meat that is sold on the general market.

This is not true. They won't sell meat labeled as halal if it is not, but have to such qualms about selling halal meat not labelled as such so that if meat eaters of other faiths or none are unwittingly eating meat that has specifically been slaughtered under strict Islamic law ie 'sharia law'

nomas · 11/03/2026 08:08

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 08:01

Right. I don’t know what that is maybe they were handing out something else.

Most people in church hearing someone bless a wafer as the body of Christ isn’t going to think yeh I’ll line up even though they don’t believe.

It’s the same for halal. People would like to opt out of the religious ritual. People should accept that want to.

It was definitely the wafer for the body of Christ.

I don’t think anyone has an issue with people opting out.

But going back to the OP’s first post, restaurants are allowed to serve whatever they want including halal. People who don’t want to eat the food can simply opt out.

The same as Muslims and Jews and Hindus have to opt out of eating meat at the vast majority of restaurants in the UK. E.g. eating a BigMac at McDonalds isn’t possible for
Muslims, Jews or Hindus.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 08:06

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 08:01

Right. I don’t know what that is maybe they were handing out something else.

Most people in church hearing someone bless a wafer as the body of Christ isn’t going to think yeh I’ll line up even though they don’t believe.

It’s the same for halal. People would like to opt out of the religious ritual. People should accept that want to.

Does anyone actually have an issue with someone choosing not to eat halal meat for religious reasons? I'm not aware of this.

My issue is the faux outrage about animal welfare in relation to halal meat, most of which is stunned in any case, from people who don't otherwise appear to give a toss about the welfare of animals in our meat or dairy industries.

nomas · 11/03/2026 08:05

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 08:00

Lots of people who aren't very familiar with church rituals might just assume that they should follow whatever everyone else is doing in order to be polite/respectful.

My (Sikh) DH assumed that he should cross himself when we went to a funeral in a Catholic Church because that's what he saw everyone else doing and he wanted to show respect.

Thanks MrsB. That’s so funny about your DH.

I’ve always been open to learning about different religions and have no issue with going to a place of worship and doing what I’m asked.

5MinuteArgument · 11/03/2026 08:04

nomas · 10/03/2026 23:01

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No one can be this obtuse.

Picking on Pakistanis is stupid because they did NOT EXIST in 1933!

How could Pakistanis have campaigned for halal in 1933 when they didn’t exist?!

ACTUALLY, if you bothered at all to read the OPs post, you would have seen that the OP referred specifically to halal. No mention of kosher.

So what? It doesn’t change the fact that the Board of Deputies of British Jews campaigned hard for the slaughter exclusion, not Pakistanis. Because once again for those in the back - Pakistanis didn’t exist in 1933!

But what perhaps YOU don’t wish to acknowledge is that the discrepancy in the law has become more apparent because whilst there is greater visibility of outlets selling halal in the mainstream, there is little ‘kosher’.

So Muslims should be penalised because there are more of them? Twisted logic.

Nobody is being penalised. What's happening is that Muslims and Jews are being given preferential treatment in that they have been given exemptions from UK law.

Given that it impacts negatively on animal welfare, according to the RSPCA and FAWC, maybe that wasn't such a good idea. And now that the halal industry in particular has expanded so much, the practice was bound to come under greater scrutiny.

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 08:04

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 08:00

Lots of people who aren't very familiar with church rituals might just assume that they should follow whatever everyone else is doing in order to be polite/respectful.

My (Sikh) DH assumed that he should cross himself when we went to a funeral in a Catholic Church because that's what he saw everyone else doing and he wanted to show respect.

Sure do it or don’t. No one will say it’s intolerant or bigoted to opt out if someone realises what lining up for a blessed communion means.

Side stepping mistakenly religious adults, would you be ok with holy communion for all school children?