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To absolutely loathe the increase in smear campaigns against businesses because of the halal meat debate?

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nc0007 · 09/03/2026 06:52

Well it’s not really a debate, is it? You either don’t care, or you’re absolutely seething because your meat may or may not be halal. But irrespectively of what you think about this, AIBU to think that people ‘outing’ businesses on social media about what meat they use and encouraging hundreds of people to smear them not just in posts but reviews to tank their ratings is just crazy?

Hundreds of people commenting ‘I’ve just left them a bad review on google’ because a (British owned baked potato) business extended their trading hours to their Muslim customers? People who have never bought anything from them in their life, probably geographically will never go there. Actively trying to sabotage a business because you think you’re what - some sort of activist?

And don’t get me started on the posts where people reach out to these poor customer service reps in supermarkets to ask them if the meat they sell is halal because of this mad narrative that ‘80% of supermarket meat is halal’ - where has this nonsense come from?!?! 😂 People screenshotting and commenting about how ‘Clare from Lidl’ is avoiding the question when she probably doesn’t have a scooby and the answer probably isn’t a straight yes or no either!

Madness. Utter madness. People treating this like it’s a full time job.

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Poetnojo · 11/03/2026 10:53

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 10:37

Well, clearly not.

Anyone who has specific dietary requirements doesn't have the luxury of being blissfully oblivious - they will need to proactively check.

Isn't this just common sense?

If regular non slaughtered by a Muslim under strict sharia law meat has always been the standard then why would you feel parents would have to check if schools have changed their food, the onus should be on the school or establishment to inform their pupils or customers about that unless you think sharia law slaughtered animals should now be the standard in the UK?
Isn't this just common sense?

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 10:53

Anonanonay · 11/03/2026 10:49

Why aren’t you opposed to cruel ritual slaughter?

I am. But I'm equally opposed to cruel non-ritual slaughter. And I'm opposed to cruel farming methods employed in mass produced meat.

I'm also opposed to people making spurious claims purporting to care about animal welfare in order to push hateful narratives when their behaviour makes it very clear that they don't actually care about animal welfare at all.

JellyCatsOnToast · 11/03/2026 10:50

BigYellowBus · 09/03/2026 07:19

People seem far more outraged about halal than kosher food. Funny that...

They don’t sell Kosher chicken in KFC, it’s not niche so obviously people care less

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 10:49

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 10:46

Both reasons are valid.

I disagree.

Anonanonay · 11/03/2026 10:49

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 00:36

Well, yes, I've been a vegetarian for almost 40 years too. I'm not a fan of slaughtering animals in a cruel way either, and I agree it's unnecessary. However, I am also against the cruelty involved in factory farming and I don't find that necessary either.

In addition, as a vegetarian and not a vegan, I'm aware of the tremendous cruelty involved in the dairy industry. I'm not ready to give up milk just yet, but i recognise that it would be hypocritical of me as a non-vegan to start lecturing others on what type of animal cruelty is tolerable and what type is intolerable.

Why aren’t you opposed to cruel ritual slaughter?

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 10:48

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 10:43

Some do it through accusations of bigotry and intolerance as below. Rather than accepting it and saying ok.

However since everyone seems to want clear halal labelling and options for everyone including those who wish to avoid it, in schools and hospitals too then great perhaps all agree.

The allegations of bigotry arise from the shameless attempts to portray halal meat as being intrinsically more cruel than non-halal meat. The evidence doesn't support this, and it's clear that the people pushing this narrative are doing so with their own agenda.

There is no issue with people making personal choices about what they do or do not wish to eat.

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 10:46

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 10:41

That isn't what people are saying. People can choose to eat, or avoid eating, whatever they like. I don't eat halal meat because I'm vegetarian. That doesn't make me a bigot.

The issue is with people claiming to avoid halal because of animal welfare reasons when they are quite happy to eat other mass produced meat without any concerns about animal welfare. This is clearly disingenuous, and it's therefore reasonable to question people's motivations.

Both reasons are valid.

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 10:43

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 10:33

Who is stopping anyone from opting out?

Some do it through accusations of bigotry and intolerance as below. Rather than accepting it and saying ok.

However since everyone seems to want clear halal labelling and options for everyone including those who wish to avoid it, in schools and hospitals too then great perhaps all agree.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 10:41

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 10:33

Plenty are saying people are bigoted or intolerant if they don’t want to eat, buy halal or have it as the only option in schools. That’s the problem.

If that’s changed and people accept a no without that in return then great.

That isn't what people are saying. People can choose to eat, or avoid eating, whatever they like. I don't eat halal meat because I'm vegetarian. That doesn't make me a bigot.

The issue is with people claiming to avoid halal because of animal welfare reasons when they are quite happy to eat other mass produced meat without any concerns about animal welfare. This is clearly disingenuous, and it's therefore reasonable to question people's motivations.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 10:37

Poetnojo · 11/03/2026 10:25

So blissfully oblivious wouldn't cut it in that scenario.

Well, clearly not.

Anyone who has specific dietary requirements doesn't have the luxury of being blissfully oblivious - they will need to proactively check.

Isn't this just common sense?

Edndns · 11/03/2026 10:34

As a non religious Hindu..I would eat holy communion wafers if I wanted to..I eat halal and non halal. It doesn't bother me. I just don't need beef and pork. If someone blessed and prayed over my refried beans for example I wouldn't be bothered. I'd enjoy the food.

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 10:33

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 10:32

I'm not missing that point at all, I'm responding to a hypothetical scenario put forward by a pp. I recognised that the scenario was flawed for precisely the reasons that you have outlined, I was trying to respond to the pp's question in good faith.

I don't understand why people keep putting forward strawman arguments about people being forced to eat halal meat against their will. Nobody is arguing that people should have to eat it if they don't want to, and nobody is arguing that it shouldn't be labelled.

Plenty are saying people are bigoted or intolerant if they don’t want to eat, buy halal or have it as the only option in schools. That’s the problem.

If that’s changed and people accept a no without that in return then great.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 10:33

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 10:27

I asked about schools. I agree with @NoisyViewereveryone should give consent before consuming food connected to religious rituals. No they shouldn’t happily eat anything just because they are unaware.

It is always ok for people to choose to opt out of religious ritual and practise. And it should be made clear so they can decide. Or parents for them if too young.

Who is stopping anyone from opting out?

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 10:32

NoisyViewer · 11/03/2026 10:21

But the point your missing is your daughter wouldn’t be given a blessed piece of bread because as an atheist and someone who hasn’t taken their first communion they’d only get it fraudulently by lying they have been. This would never be inflicted on her knowingly .

To suggest it doesn’t matter anyway is to be wilfully ignorant about others consent into participating in a religious practice. They may not want their food blessed by a pray of a religion they don’t follow if they’re atheist or not. Some people maybe as vehemently anti religion that they wish to be no part of any religious practices by eating that blessed meat unwittingly they’re being made to. Their beliefs are not any less valid just because they didn’t witness fhe ritual doesn’t mean it’s ok. They should label the meat and advertise it.

I'm not missing that point at all, I'm responding to a hypothetical scenario put forward by a pp. I recognised that the scenario was flawed for precisely the reasons that you have outlined, I was trying to respond to the pp's question in good faith.

I don't understand why people keep putting forward strawman arguments about people being forced to eat halal meat against their will. Nobody is arguing that people should have to eat it if they don't want to, and nobody is arguing that it shouldn't be labelled.

nc0007 · 11/03/2026 10:31

FrizzyFrizbee · 11/03/2026 10:11

The fact of the matter is that any thread can generate debate around the opinions expressed. Did you call out anyone “derailing” your thread, whose beliefs were aligned to your own?

And I don’t think this debate is only about animal welfare either. People are calling out the dubious exceptions given In laws to groups of people based on religion. It is NOT bigoted or racist to be cheesed off about that, nor to call it out. And I may not agree some forms of protest, but I have seen far, far, far worse forms of protest around other contentious issues.

As far as I am concerned, I am glad the issue is getting more attention. I think it’s high time the government ditched the two tier legal system, and mandated ever higher welfare standards, also applying to imported meat.

I have, upthread. I’m engaging with you directly because you decided to quote me in the first place.

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EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 10:27

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 10:23

Well, I presume that Holy Communion wafers have special significance to Christians.

And likewise, I presume that halal meat has special significance to Muslims.

As far as I'm concerned, as an atheist, they are just wafers and meat with no significance at all, hence I wouldn't have any objections to eating them (if I actually ate meat, which I don't).

I asked about schools. I agree with @NoisyViewereveryone should give consent before consuming food connected to religious rituals. No they shouldn’t happily eat anything just because they are unaware.

It is always ok for people to choose to opt out of religious ritual and practise. And it should be made clear so they can decide. Or parents for them if too young.

KitWyn · 11/03/2026 10:25

nc0007 · 11/03/2026 08:40

It’s not a counter argument, I was merely answering your question: “Do you think it acceptable to have different sets of laws based on religion?” - where it seemed you implied that there should be no laws at all based on religious grounds.

I did not create this thread to talk about which religion, or no religion is superior or more morally “correct”.

Of course we should move towards a better standard of welfare for animals but we simply cannot pin it down to Halal or Kosher methods alone. If someone actively chooses to pick up £2 chicken breasts from their supermarket shelf (which I suspect is majority of the country since the shelves are filled to the brim with this product - you know supply and demand), then I don’t believe in the same breath they can send emails demanding to know if they’re Halal or not citing animal welfare as being the motivator here. Then screenshotting responses and plastering all over Facebook with the caption “80% of supermarket meat is Halal” and it’s awful for animal welfare. Your chickens have never seen daylight and probably never waddled freely but you’re concerned that it may not have been stunned?

Some complaints about halal meat usage in mainstream food are driven by racism. That's true.

But the core complaint that only halal (and kosher) slaughter is exempt from the prestunning requirement is wholly valid. Why should other UK abattoirs be mandated to do this if it doesn't matter?

Does saying prayers while cutting an animal's throat and letting it bleed, mean it magically isn't a very frightening, painful and unnecessarily cruel death for the cow, goat or lamb? Of course not.

Significant additional suffering occurs when the animal is fully awake and conscious during the initial cut and the bleed out. The larger the animal the longer this brutal death takes.

Both the RSPCA and the British Veterinary Association actively campaign for the removal of the UK religious exemption from prestunning. These expert bodies both agree it is animal cruelty and must stop. They are right.

Also valid, is the complaint that labelling does not include this information. People aren't to be allowed to choose to vote with their feet and wallets. Why not?

There must be one law for all. It's a core enlightenment principle.

We should remove the religious exemption (both kosher and halal) from the UK requirement to pre-stun for animal slaughter. Prestunning must be required for all. No special pleading.

(Context: I'm a longstanding vegetarian.
Largely on animal welfare grounds. It's very, very easy to eat well as a vegetarian now. Plus, I'm not religious. I don't want any variety of ancient misogynistic and homophobic nonsense chanted over my food, even if it's just a bag of carrots.
Freedom from religion is also an important human right.)

Poetnojo · 11/03/2026 10:25

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 10:18

I would expect Muslim parents - and any other parents of children with specific dietary requirements- to proactively seek out information about the food that their children are being fed. I wouldn't advise anyone to make assumptions.

So blissfully oblivious wouldn't cut it in that scenario.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 10:23

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 10:12

Your use of special is interesting here. Would you say the same re halal meat being special?

On the actual communion if schools regularly gave dc blessed wafers I’d be happy to say no thanks. And that should be an option. Same with halal meat.

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Well, I presume that Holy Communion wafers have special significance to Christians.

And likewise, I presume that halal meat has special significance to Muslims.

As far as I'm concerned, as an atheist, they are just wafers and meat with no significance at all, hence I wouldn't have any objections to eating them (if I actually ate meat, which I don't).

NoisyViewer · 11/03/2026 10:21

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 08:24

As an atheist, I wouldn't have been remotely bothered if someone had given my dd a special wafer that had been prayed over. As far as I'm concerned, it is just a wafer?

If they had made my dd participate in a wider religious ritual around the giving of the wafer, then I would not have been happy with that, unless it was a one-off educational experience, in which case it would have been fine.

Are children eating halal meat in schools being asked to take part in wider Islamic rituals around the consumption of that meat? Or are they simply eating their lunch, blissfully oblivious?

But the point your missing is your daughter wouldn’t be given a blessed piece of bread because as an atheist and someone who hasn’t taken their first communion they’d only get it fraudulently by lying they have been. This would never be inflicted on her knowingly .

To suggest it doesn’t matter anyway is to be wilfully ignorant about others consent into participating in a religious practice. They may not want their food blessed by a pray of a religion they don’t follow if they’re atheist or not. Some people maybe as vehemently anti religion that they wish to be no part of any religious practices by eating that blessed meat unwittingly they’re being made to. Their beliefs are not any less valid just because they didn’t witness fhe ritual doesn’t mean it’s ok. They should label the meat and advertise it.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 10:18

Poetnojo · 11/03/2026 10:05

Would it be OK then, by your logic, to not inform Muslims that the meat they were eating for their lunch was not halal? They would simply be eating their lunch blissfully oblivious?

I would expect Muslim parents - and any other parents of children with specific dietary requirements- to proactively seek out information about the food that their children are being fed. I wouldn't advise anyone to make assumptions.

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 10:12

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 08:24

As an atheist, I wouldn't have been remotely bothered if someone had given my dd a special wafer that had been prayed over. As far as I'm concerned, it is just a wafer?

If they had made my dd participate in a wider religious ritual around the giving of the wafer, then I would not have been happy with that, unless it was a one-off educational experience, in which case it would have been fine.

Are children eating halal meat in schools being asked to take part in wider Islamic rituals around the consumption of that meat? Or are they simply eating their lunch, blissfully oblivious?

Your use of special is interesting here. Would you say the same re halal meat being special?

On the actual communion if schools regularly gave dc blessed wafers I’d be happy to say no thanks. And that should be an option. Same with halal meat.

FrizzyFrizbee · 11/03/2026 10:11

nc0007 · 11/03/2026 09:59

I didn’t say you directly, I don’t know if you missed the line where I started talking about a group of people who don’t choose higher welfare produce and this was clearly a continuation of that trail of thought?

Here’s the problem - I started a thread about people bombarding businesses with 1 star reviews because they may or may not serve halal meat. I did not start yet another thread on whether people think Halal or Kosher meat is ok. But posters such as yourself decide to skip the question and derail and proudly announce that you yourself choose higher welfare produce.

Well let me make this clear, if you do your due diligence and overall actively choose your produce for genuine welfare reasons then I respect you and your choices, because they are genuine and you’re looking to make an industry wide change. But for those who still choose to overlook pick the worst meat available and make it end to end all about Halal, then I cannot believe for one second that welfare is the motivator for their opposition.

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The fact of the matter is that any thread can generate debate around the opinions expressed. Did you call out anyone “derailing” your thread, whose beliefs were aligned to your own?

And I don’t think this debate is only about animal welfare either. People are calling out the dubious exceptions given In laws to groups of people based on religion. It is NOT bigoted or racist to be cheesed off about that, nor to call it out. And I may not agree some forms of protest, but I have seen far, far, far worse forms of protest around other contentious issues.

As far as I am concerned, I am glad the issue is getting more attention. I think it’s high time the government ditched the two tier legal system, and mandated ever higher welfare standards, also applying to imported meat.

Poetnojo · 11/03/2026 10:05

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 08:24

As an atheist, I wouldn't have been remotely bothered if someone had given my dd a special wafer that had been prayed over. As far as I'm concerned, it is just a wafer?

If they had made my dd participate in a wider religious ritual around the giving of the wafer, then I would not have been happy with that, unless it was a one-off educational experience, in which case it would have been fine.

Are children eating halal meat in schools being asked to take part in wider Islamic rituals around the consumption of that meat? Or are they simply eating their lunch, blissfully oblivious?

Would it be OK then, by your logic, to not inform Muslims that the meat they were eating for their lunch was not halal? They would simply be eating their lunch blissfully oblivious?

Edndns · 11/03/2026 10:02

I don't care. I'd even eat kosher meat. It doesn't bother me.

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