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To absolutely loathe the increase in smear campaigns against businesses because of the halal meat debate?

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nc0007 · 09/03/2026 06:52

Well it’s not really a debate, is it? You either don’t care, or you’re absolutely seething because your meat may or may not be halal. But irrespectively of what you think about this, AIBU to think that people ‘outing’ businesses on social media about what meat they use and encouraging hundreds of people to smear them not just in posts but reviews to tank their ratings is just crazy?

Hundreds of people commenting ‘I’ve just left them a bad review on google’ because a (British owned baked potato) business extended their trading hours to their Muslim customers? People who have never bought anything from them in their life, probably geographically will never go there. Actively trying to sabotage a business because you think you’re what - some sort of activist?

And don’t get me started on the posts where people reach out to these poor customer service reps in supermarkets to ask them if the meat they sell is halal because of this mad narrative that ‘80% of supermarket meat is halal’ - where has this nonsense come from?!?! 😂 People screenshotting and commenting about how ‘Clare from Lidl’ is avoiding the question when she probably doesn’t have a scooby and the answer probably isn’t a straight yes or no either!

Madness. Utter madness. People treating this like it’s a full time job.

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EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 14:56

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 14:35

You still haven't engaged with the point that I have repeatedly made, you just keep responding to strawmen of your own making. I'm not sure if it is your comprehension skills that are the problem or whether this is just your usual way of dealing with something when you know your argument doesn't really stack up, but I've noticed the same pattern in a lot of threads.

I’ve noticed patterns in your posts like this one, I still have no idea what the question is you want answered.

What is it?

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 14:35

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 13:52

To what?

You still haven't engaged with the point that I have repeatedly made, you just keep responding to strawmen of your own making. I'm not sure if it is your comprehension skills that are the problem or whether this is just your usual way of dealing with something when you know your argument doesn't really stack up, but I've noticed the same pattern in a lot of threads.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 14:31

KitWyn · 11/03/2026 14:05

I'm also vegetarian. I believe you shouldn't live a life that requires other people to do jobs that you wouldn't. I would happily keep chickens and goats for milk/cheese. So I can eat dairy.

Is that dream Disney cottage the reality for most dairy and egg production? No, not at all. But I buy the most ethical dairy and eggs available. So it's a start, and supports better farming practices.

The perfect shouldn't be the enemy of the good. The good shouldn't be the enemy of small in scope, rather dull, incremental improvements that over time will radically change things for the better.

We have a legal requirement for all UK abattoirs to pre-stun. This is based on the best available evidence that it offers better (meaning less terrible) animal welfare.

It is outrageous that there is a religious exemption to this. This should never have been permitted.

It's not just about animal welfare. It's also about the fundamental principle that the UK is a secular nation, with one law for all. And we are, in practice, functionally secular.

(But we really should rid ourselves of the archaic 26 bishops within the 842 peers in the House of Lords. On the upside, any replacements have to be women bishops.)

Edited

We aren't a secular nation, although I would like us to be. Our head of state is also head of the church of England.

I believe the exemption for kosher/halal slaughter was included in the initial legislation when stunning was first made mandatory - it isn't a recent development.

As for the perfect not being the enemy of the good, I agree, but there is nothing very good about eating mass produced meat, so I'm not sure what the argument is there.

My point isn't that people shouldn't make the choices that they feel that they should make, but rather that they are not really in a position to express moral judgement if they themselves are guilty.

KitWyn · 11/03/2026 14:05

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 12:33

I do eat dairy, and as such, I fully recognise that I'm not in a position to lecture anyone on animal welfare. Because I'm guilty of consuming products that are not supportive of animal welfare at all.

I became vegetarian nearly 40 years ago because I stayed on a farm and witnessed the reality of meat production. At the time, the decision was made for ethical reasons, but knowing what I know now, I recognise that it isn't really an ethically defensible position at all. So I don't pretend that it is one. I'm vegetarian out of habit, primarily, and because the idea of meat no longer appeals to me.

I'm not dictating what choices other people make about what they eat. I'm not judging anyone for eating any kind of meat because I don't consider that I'm in a morally superior position to be able to do so. My own decision to carry on eating dairy would make it deeply hypocritical for me to criticise people for eating meat.

I'm merely asking people not to pretend that they care about animal welfare if their care only extends to this one issue while ignoring the many other types of animal cruelty involved in the meat and dairy industries.

I'm also vegetarian. I believe you shouldn't live a life that requires other people to do jobs that you wouldn't. I would happily keep chickens and goats for milk/cheese. So I can eat dairy.

Is that dream Disney cottage the reality for most dairy and egg production? No, not at all. But I buy the most ethical dairy and eggs available. So it's a start, and supports better farming practices.

The perfect shouldn't be the enemy of the good. The good shouldn't be the enemy of small in scope, rather dull, incremental improvements that over time will radically change things for the better.

We have a legal requirement for all UK abattoirs to pre-stun. This is based on the best available evidence that it offers better (meaning less terrible) animal welfare.

It is outrageous that there is a religious exemption to this. This should never have been permitted.

It's not just about animal welfare. It's also about the fundamental principle that the UK is a secular nation, with one law for all. And we are, in practice, functionally secular.

(But we really should rid ourselves of the archaic 26 bishops within the 842 peers in the House of Lords. On the upside, any replacements have to be women bishops.)

HappyClapper100 · 11/03/2026 13:55

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 13:47

So people who are avoiding halal and kosher because of the stunning issue may still be eating unstunned meat if they are consuming mass produced meat without knowing its provenance.

Yes. And it's more the case for kosher meat.

Let's say a Jewish community requires 50kg of lamb a month. If you only count certain parts of the animal as appropriate to eat, then you have to kill more lambs to get that 50kg of meat per month.

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 13:52

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 13:49

You're just sidestepping now. I understand that you haven't really got an answer.

To what?

Estersouthwester · 11/03/2026 13:51

areyoulisteningyet · 09/03/2026 07:19

This spud bros thing is hilarious. I think they’re arseholes because they charged £15 for a potato at Silverstone, but the people complaining that a potato is halal are hysterical.

"Halal" doesn't just apply to meat it can apply to all foodstuffs.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Halal

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 13:49

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 13:48

I don’t even know why there’s a disagreement since everyone wants labelling for halal meat.

Mostly I think some have got it wrong with the disingenuous and bigoted accusations. If they’re dropped then it’s all good.

You're just sidestepping now. I understand that you haven't really got an answer.

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 13:48

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 13:43

You're not engaging with my point, because you're still on about labelling. Which I have repeatedly said that I support.

As for people doing the research, for someone who genuinely cares about animal welfare, it wouldn't be unnecessary. But I agree that it could be time consuming, hence my support for comprehensive labelling to make things easier.

But none of that addresses my previous points.

I don’t even know why there’s a disagreement since everyone wants labelling for halal meat.

Mostly I think some have got it wrong with the disingenuous and bigoted accusations. If they’re dropped then it’s all good.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 13:48

DrPrunesqualer · 11/03/2026 13:27

Agree and Easternstandard it’s also worth noting,
having tried to do this myself with some Asda products, no matter how high you go with a business they rarely come back with a definitive answer because they don’t know it themselves

They know. They just don't want to tell you.

If meat is produced to high welfare standards, they will make this very clear in order to justify the inevitably higher prices.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 13:47

HappyClapper100 · 11/03/2026 13:28

No but an animal is slaughtered accor8dng to kosher rules and then as it is the hind legs or whatever, they are sold on the main meat market and never labelled as kosher as it is not kosher by Jewish standards. It has just been killed in a way that means the kosher parts can be consumed by Jewish people.

The rest is sold to us as meat.

So people who are avoiding halal and kosher because of the stunning issue may still be eating unstunned meat if they are consuming mass produced meat without knowing its provenance.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 13:45

DrPrunesqualer · 11/03/2026 13:21

Because your point isn’t based in fact

So why not actually engage with it and explain how it is possible for people to genuinely care about animal welfare while still being happy to eat mass produced meat as long as it isn't halal. Please could you explain the specific logic behind the thinking process that Muslim cruelty = bad and non-muslim cruelty = ok.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 13:43

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 13:22

I am engaging with your points.

I’ll put it another way to see if you can accept what people are saying.

If there was an item of food that looked exactly the same and one was vegetarian and one was meat would you want to research every outlet and item to make sure you got the right version, or would you just say make a label, make it clear.

And ik you’re going to say you want labels but then go on about people researching province. It’s time consuming and unnecessary if there’s a label, that’s the point of clear information.

You're not engaging with my point, because you're still on about labelling. Which I have repeatedly said that I support.

As for people doing the research, for someone who genuinely cares about animal welfare, it wouldn't be unnecessary. But I agree that it could be time consuming, hence my support for comprehensive labelling to make things easier.

But none of that addresses my previous points.

HappyClapper100 · 11/03/2026 13:28

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 10:01

It’s frequency too. I’m not sure kosher is as prevalent in outlets including public ones such as schools.

No but an animal is slaughtered accor8dng to kosher rules and then as it is the hind legs or whatever, they are sold on the main meat market and never labelled as kosher as it is not kosher by Jewish standards. It has just been killed in a way that means the kosher parts can be consumed by Jewish people.

The rest is sold to us as meat.

DrPrunesqualer · 11/03/2026 13:27

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 13:22

I am engaging with your points.

I’ll put it another way to see if you can accept what people are saying.

If there was an item of food that looked exactly the same and one was vegetarian and one was meat would you want to research every outlet and item to make sure you got the right version, or would you just say make a label, make it clear.

And ik you’re going to say you want labels but then go on about people researching province. It’s time consuming and unnecessary if there’s a label, that’s the point of clear information.

Agree and Easternstandard it’s also worth noting,
having tried to do this myself with some Asda products, no matter how high you go with a business they rarely come back with a definitive answer because they don’t know it themselves

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 13:22

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 13:19

I've explained my point repeatedly, but you have just created strawmen and declined to engage with it.

Yes, we agree on labelling. It's getting quite tiresome to go around in circles about the rest.

I am engaging with your points.

I’ll put it another way to see if you can accept what people are saying.

If there was an item of food that looked exactly the same and one was vegetarian and one was meat would you want to research every outlet and item to make sure you got the right version, or would you just say make a label, make it clear.

And ik you’re going to say you want labels but then go on about people researching province. It’s time consuming and unnecessary if there’s a label, that’s the point of clear information.

DrPrunesqualer · 11/03/2026 13:21

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 13:20

I agree, because you are all studiously refusing to engage with my point.

Because your point isn’t based in fact

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 13:20

DrPrunesqualer · 11/03/2026 13:17

Exactly

going round and round in circles here.

I agree, because you are all studiously refusing to engage with my point.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 13:19

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 13:16

Why the subterfuge, label it as halal and people can see quickly whether to avoid.

And yes you’ve said you want labelling so what’s there to disagree on? No one is bigoted, or disingenuous or whatever else is accused of them. They just want a quick easy way to know what a product is.

I've explained my point repeatedly, but you have just created strawmen and declined to engage with it.

Yes, we agree on labelling. It's getting quite tiresome to go around in circles about the rest.

DrPrunesqualer · 11/03/2026 13:17

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 13:16

Why the subterfuge, label it as halal and people can see quickly whether to avoid.

And yes you’ve said you want labelling so what’s there to disagree on? No one is bigoted, or disingenuous or whatever else is accused of them. They just want a quick easy way to know what a product is.

Exactly

going round and round in circles here.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 13:17

DrPrunesqualer · 11/03/2026 13:13

Which is impossible isn’t it because as you’ve seen on this thread food isn’t labelled

That’s the point !

It’s also worth noting that whilst some people continue to shame others for even asking the question ( or expressing their views)
they won’t.

Edited

It isn't impossible though. Some people choose to avoid eating meat altogether if they are uncertain of its provenance.

And yes, I support better labelling so that people can make informed choices more easily, but in the absence of that, people are still making choices about what they eat.

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 13:16

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 13:09

Of course I don't know, that isn't what I said.

What I said was that the people who do care about animal welfare are not in any danger of accidentally eating halal meat against their will, because they will have done their own due diligence on the provenance of the meat before eating it anyway.

Why the subterfuge, label it as halal and people can see quickly whether to avoid.

And yes you’ve said you want labelling so what’s there to disagree on? No one is bigoted, or disingenuous or whatever else is accused of them. They just want a quick easy way to know what a product is.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 13:15

EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 13:09

Here you seem to be saying choosing meat carefully means avoiding halal too.

It is not a good a standard as other welfare for meat, another agreement.

That isn't what I'm saying. I am not making any judgements on that. I'm sure that there are different standards of welfare in halal meat production as in any other.

What I'm saying is that choosing meat carefully means having a clear understanding of how the animal has been raised and killed. You can make your own judgements about what you're willing to accept and what you're not, but if you care enough to do your own due diligence, then there will be zero risk of eating something that doesn't comply with your own ethical standards. Hence my suggestion for clear labelling around welfare standards and slaughter methods on all meat, and not just halal/kosher etc.

DrPrunesqualer · 11/03/2026 13:13

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 13:09

Of course I don't know, that isn't what I said.

What I said was that the people who do care about animal welfare are not in any danger of accidentally eating halal meat against their will, because they will have done their own due diligence on the provenance of the meat before eating it anyway.

Which is impossible isn’t it because as you’ve seen on this thread food isn’t labelled

That’s the point !

It’s also worth noting that whilst some people continue to shame others for even asking the question ( or expressing their views)
they won’t.

DrPrunesqualer · 11/03/2026 13:11

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 11/03/2026 13:04

As I've said, I also think people should be about to make informed choices, and I support comprehensive labelling in order to facilitate this.

My issue is not with people making their own choices. My issue is with people who are claiming to care about animal welfare in order to further a particular agenda that actually has nothing to do with animals, but only applying that concern with regard to halal meat and not all other types of meat/dairy etc.

Assumptions again
you have no idea why people object to halal and kosher meat

Statistics clearly show it is for welfare reasons
I assume you’ve read the stats although as you are claiming the contrary maybe not

Might be worth a google search