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To absolutely loathe the increase in smear campaigns against businesses because of the halal meat debate?

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nc0007 · 09/03/2026 06:52

Well it’s not really a debate, is it? You either don’t care, or you’re absolutely seething because your meat may or may not be halal. But irrespectively of what you think about this, AIBU to think that people ‘outing’ businesses on social media about what meat they use and encouraging hundreds of people to smear them not just in posts but reviews to tank their ratings is just crazy?

Hundreds of people commenting ‘I’ve just left them a bad review on google’ because a (British owned baked potato) business extended their trading hours to their Muslim customers? People who have never bought anything from them in their life, probably geographically will never go there. Actively trying to sabotage a business because you think you’re what - some sort of activist?

And don’t get me started on the posts where people reach out to these poor customer service reps in supermarkets to ask them if the meat they sell is halal because of this mad narrative that ‘80% of supermarket meat is halal’ - where has this nonsense come from?!?! 😂 People screenshotting and commenting about how ‘Clare from Lidl’ is avoiding the question when she probably doesn’t have a scooby and the answer probably isn’t a straight yes or no either!

Madness. Utter madness. People treating this like it’s a full time job.

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BloominNora · 09/03/2026 15:04

MollyMMM · 09/03/2026 14:35

I already have explained my view in many posts. Making the assumption that other who do not hold the same opinion as you or hold an opinion different to you is a bigot, is a massive problem and I would say that in itself is bigoted in its own way.

Now you are just twisting things to suit your own narrative. I do not think that everyone who has a different opinion to mine is a bigot.

Christians and people who follow other religions feel like a different faith is being imposed on them, some agnostics feel similar - as an atheist, I don't agree with them, but I don't think they are bigots.

All you have said is that you feel that something is being imposed on you - but that is not a reason so I have asked for clarification about why you feel that imposition as an atheist.

There could be any number of different reasons why that might be the case - all the atheists I know either don't care because it is just words or have a problem with Islam.

It is clearly not just words to you, so I am therefore basing my assumption of you on my experience of others with similar views.

I am more than happy to have a conversation, I am completely open to having my views challenged and explaining why I think the way I do. However you clearly are not - in fact, the more you pivot to attack me, the more it is reinforcing my view.

It is not controlling at all for me to say that without further information I find your views bigoted - I am not forcing you to engage, and my opinion, as an anonymous poster on an internet forum shouldn't matter to you. I have literally no power over you, so it is no way controlling.

If you see my opinion that your view is bigoted as a 'massive problem' then that is on you - I've been nothing but open.

All the power is with you - I have explained why I am making the assumption that I am in great detail. Either accept that you do not wish to engage and that my opinion will remain as it is or engage in good faith.

Either is good with me.

nevernotmaybe · 09/03/2026 14:57

areyoulisteningyet · 09/03/2026 08:34

Ah yes, because it’s a takeover and we’re all days away from sharia law.

Cheap slaughter is cheap slaughter, and cruel no matter what. The only reason people have an issue is because it’s a Muslim practice.

So nothing should he done about anything at all, unless sharia law is days away?

Very helpful.

ThatCyanCat · 09/03/2026 14:42

MollyMMM · 09/03/2026 14:39

Atheism is not a religion. It’s wanting an absence of religion. Some atheists are more actively seeking that and others don’t really care which is fine too.
I find it very strange that we pretend that muslim practises on slaughterhouses and meat slaughtered for Muslims is completely acceptable for the entire uk population and those who oppose are racist or bigoted.

Atheism is not a religion. It’s wanting an absence of religion. Some atheists are more actively seeking that and others don’t really care which is fine too.

Hence the "some". But yes, for some atheists, the visceral reaction to a practice that changes nothing materially and at most, if they're right, are simply words spoken to someone who doesn't exist, is religious in itself.

Perhaps framing it as "spiritual" would be clearer. It's firing up the same part of the psyche.

5MinuteArgument · 09/03/2026 14:41

Judgejudysno1fan · 09/03/2026 10:56

The halal option should be made clear for muslim pupils and other meat for other non Muslim.

Yes, this is the issue. The secondary school near me serves all halal meat with 35% of their students being Muslim. Most of the non Muslim parents don't realise this. The school just assumes they don't care.

It's crazy that the traditions of the majority are being thrown out to cater for an incoming minority. This is what breeds resentment.

EasternStandard · 09/03/2026 14:41

MollyMMM · 09/03/2026 14:39

Atheism is not a religion. It’s wanting an absence of religion. Some atheists are more actively seeking that and others don’t really care which is fine too.
I find it very strange that we pretend that muslim practises on slaughterhouses and meat slaughtered for Muslims is completely acceptable for the entire uk population and those who oppose are racist or bigoted.

Yep. It’s something when the judgement is for someone who has no affiliation to a religion not wanting to buy a product related to it.

Why should they? Let people choose.

MollyMMM · 09/03/2026 14:40

BloominNora · 09/03/2026 14:37

I'm not trying to be clever - I'm trying to have a conversation.

I could have used Fifty Shades as an example - I used political writers because people tend to feel as strongly about politics as they do about religion.

But yes - Fifty Shades is just as valid an example - so would you object to Fifty Shades being read at slaughter or is it just religious texts or texts that have meaning to large groups of people?

And, as an atheist, why do religious texts bother you?

I'm asking you because the only atheists I know in real life who object to Halal have somewhat bigoted views against Islam for non-religious reasons (and yes I have had those discussions with them and it is something we agree to disagree on). The one's that don't have bigoted views don't object to pre-stunned Halal.

I don't know any atheists in real life who don't have bigoted views against Islam who object to Halal like you claim to do - hence me trying to have the conversation.

However, you have made it clear you don't wish to engage in an actual conversation which is fair enough 💁

I have engaged with actual conversation. Maybe re read my posts.

MollyMMM · 09/03/2026 14:39

ThatCyanCat · 09/03/2026 14:24

Atheism, for some people, is its own form of religion. Just as people of Religion A might feel a strong visceral opposition to a practice from Religion B, atheists often feel the same way about a practice from any religion even when it's not really consequential in any material way. It isn't logical, as they're the ones who don't believe there is any will or power, divine or otherwise, behind any of it to be displeased, so at most it's just someone saying pointless words that have no impact on anything. But if atheism is, in its way, equivalent to religious belief - and for many people it is - then that's why people feel the same reaction against it.

Atheism is not a religion. It’s wanting an absence of religion. Some atheists are more actively seeking that and others don’t really care which is fine too.
I find it very strange that we pretend that muslim practises on slaughterhouses and meat slaughtered for Muslims is completely acceptable for the entire uk population and those who oppose are racist or bigoted.

BloominNora · 09/03/2026 14:37

MollyMMM · 09/03/2026 14:12

I think I have answered your posts. You are writing under pretence that you really want to understand, then maybe understand that don’t understand? I mean, your next post could be asking if I object to fixity shades of grey being read during slaughter. Your posts are not as clever as you think.

I'm not trying to be clever - I'm trying to have a conversation.

I could have used Fifty Shades as an example - I used political writers because people tend to feel as strongly about politics as they do about religion.

But yes - Fifty Shades is just as valid an example - so would you object to Fifty Shades being read at slaughter or is it just religious texts or texts that have meaning to large groups of people?

And, as an atheist, why do religious texts bother you?

I'm asking you because the only atheists I know in real life who object to Halal have somewhat bigoted views against Islam for non-religious reasons (and yes I have had those discussions with them and it is something we agree to disagree on). The one's that don't have bigoted views don't object to pre-stunned Halal.

I don't know any atheists in real life who don't have bigoted views against Islam who object to Halal like you claim to do - hence me trying to have the conversation.

However, you have made it clear you don't wish to engage in an actual conversation which is fair enough 💁

MollyMMM · 09/03/2026 14:35

BloominNora · 09/03/2026 14:24

What I am saying is that beyond religion or bigotry, I do not have an understanding of any other reason why someone wouldn't eat pre-stunned Halal meat if they would eat other supermarket meat (people who cite animal welfare would likely not eat any supermarket meat, so that argument doesn't come into play here)

I'm not saying you are a bigot - I don't know you and you don't know me.

What I am saying is that without any thing further to go on, I will assume that anyone who claims to be an atheist who has a problem with Halal does so a reason that is bigoted. That's what people do - we make assumptions about others based on what we know about them.

I can assume what I like about you based on what you have written.

It won't make a difference to you - you don't have to care about my opinion. We are two people on the internet who will likely never meet in real life.

Personally I find differences of opinion really interesting. I think the world would be an incredibly boring place if we all thought the same. If people didn't talk about different view points and come to understandings, we would all live in our little homogenous echo chambers living bland little lives and throwing hatred and contempt around.

Listening to and talking about those different views, debating and understanding how others think, even if we don't personally think that way or agree with it is how we get to live harmoniously in a vibrant world. You find the common thread and then figure out how to live with the differences.

You do not need to try and convince me of anything - I was asking the question out of a desire to understand your view point, but if you do not want to talk about that view point, you don't have to, just as I don't have to take you at your word that the view you don't want to talk about is one that is valid in my mind.

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I already have explained my view in many posts. Making the assumption that other who do not hold the same opinion as you or hold an opinion different to you is a bigot, is a massive problem and I would say that in itself is bigoted in its own way.

EasternStandard · 09/03/2026 14:29

HolyRigatone · 09/03/2026 14:21

Most of the people who care passionately about this issue don’t give a shit about animal welfare. If they did, they’d be vegan, because non-halal slaughter is also grim, as is dairy farming. It’s just another stick to beat Muslims with, and the relatively recent extension of their “concerns” to Kosher meat is just an attempt to mask their real intentions.

They’re the same people who are desperately concerned about women and girls’ safety and rights when it comes to Asian grooming gangs, but oddly silent about (or act completely contrary to) women and girls’ safety and rights the rest of the time.

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Why is labelling and not buying halal meat an issue for anyone?

JHound · 09/03/2026 14:28

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 09/03/2026 10:37

I have no objections to food being clearly labelled either. On the contrary, I think it would be a good development, but I would like to see a broader system that takes into account the conditions of the animal's life and not just its death. We could perhaps have a ratings system, a bit like we do with food hygiene. Then consumers could make genuinely informed choices about what they eat.

That’s an even better idea.

BloominNora · 09/03/2026 14:24

MollyMMM · 09/03/2026 14:02

So people who do not agree with you are bigoted if they are not fully giving an explanation accepted by you? This is what you saying, isn’t it? I need to convince you why as an atheist I do not want to eat halal or I am a bigot.

What I am saying is that beyond religion or bigotry, I do not have an understanding of any other reason why someone wouldn't eat pre-stunned Halal meat if they would eat other supermarket meat (people who cite animal welfare would likely not eat any supermarket meat, so that argument doesn't come into play here)

I'm not saying you are a bigot - I don't know you and you don't know me.

What I am saying is that without any thing further to go on, I will assume that anyone who claims to be an atheist who has a problem with Halal does so a reason that is bigoted. That's what people do - we make assumptions about others based on what we know about them.

I can assume what I like about you based on what you have written.

It won't make a difference to you - you don't have to care about my opinion. We are two people on the internet who will likely never meet in real life.

Personally I find differences of opinion really interesting. I think the world would be an incredibly boring place if we all thought the same. If people didn't talk about different view points and come to understandings, we would all live in our little homogenous echo chambers living bland little lives and throwing hatred and contempt around.

Listening to and talking about those different views, debating and understanding how others think, even if we don't personally think that way or agree with it is how we get to live harmoniously in a vibrant world. You find the common thread and then figure out how to live with the differences.

You do not need to try and convince me of anything - I was asking the question out of a desire to understand your view point, but if you do not want to talk about that view point, you don't have to, just as I don't have to take you at your word that the view you don't want to talk about is one that is valid in my mind.

ThatCyanCat · 09/03/2026 14:24

Atheism, for some people, is its own form of religion. Just as people of Religion A might feel a strong visceral opposition to a practice from Religion B, atheists often feel the same way about a practice from any religion even when it's not really consequential in any material way. It isn't logical, as they're the ones who don't believe there is any will or power, divine or otherwise, behind any of it to be displeased, so at most it's just someone saying pointless words that have no impact on anything. But if atheism is, in its way, equivalent to religious belief - and for many people it is - then that's why people feel the same reaction against it.

HolyRigatone · 09/03/2026 14:21

Most of the people who care passionately about this issue don’t give a shit about animal welfare. If they did, they’d be vegan, because non-halal slaughter is also grim, as is dairy farming. It’s just another stick to beat Muslims with, and the relatively recent extension of their “concerns” to Kosher meat is just an attempt to mask their real intentions.

They’re the same people who are desperately concerned about women and girls’ safety and rights when it comes to Asian grooming gangs, but oddly silent about (or act completely contrary to) women and girls’ safety and rights the rest of the time.

MollyMMM · 09/03/2026 14:13

EasternStandard · 09/03/2026 14:05

This is quite controlling. Buy the halal or explain why. I’m not sure why people take this position on here.

Fortunately if labelling catches up with consumer opinion you’ll not know who buys what, only if demand goes down.

Controlling. Yes 👏

MollyMMM · 09/03/2026 14:12

BloominNora · 09/03/2026 14:02

The animal welfare position I understand.

But it is the prayer bit I don't - how are the words being imposed on you?

If they hold no meaning, how does it make any difference? And would you feel the same about sitting and eating with a Muslim person who said those words over the table prior to eating?

I am genuinely trying to understand why you feel that way?

I mean - would you take issue with someone reading from Marx or Rousseau because they were imposing left wing ideology on you or from Burk or Hayek because they were imposing right wing ideology while they were slaughtering an animal or is it just religious texts?

Would you have an issue with a simple gratitude form of words if it didn't have an organised religious connotation?

I think I have answered your posts. You are writing under pretence that you really want to understand, then maybe understand that don’t understand? I mean, your next post could be asking if I object to fixity shades of grey being read during slaughter. Your posts are not as clever as you think.

EasternStandard · 09/03/2026 14:05

BloominNora · 09/03/2026 13:51

Yes - that is my view at the moment because I cannot see any other reason other than religion or bigotry why a meat eater who cares about animal welfare would not eat pre-stunned Halal meat.

I am happy to have my mind changed about that - hence asking why an atheist would object to what is simply a handful of words and having a conversation. As I said, having conversations with people who have different views has caused me to change my mind in the past and rethink my stance on things.

A reply along the lines of "I don't have to tell you" is fine people are perfectly entitled keep their reasons to themselves.

However, I am just as entitled to assume that a meat eater who has declared themselves to not be religious, buys meat from the supermarket but would refuse to buy pre-stunned Halal meat and refuses to discuss the reasons why in a perfectly polite conversation is doing so because their reasons are in fact bigoted and they know it.

This is quite controlling. Buy the halal or explain why. I’m not sure why people take this position on here.

Fortunately if labelling catches up with consumer opinion you’ll not know who buys what, only if demand goes down.

BloominNora · 09/03/2026 14:02

MollyMMM · 09/03/2026 13:33

  1. Animal welfare. I eat very little meat and dairy, but when I do I try to buy the most ethically produced products. The reason I am practically a vegan, is because I found this too difficult to navigate.

  2. I find it bizarre that we have Muslim prayers in slaughterhouses in the Uk and that this is becoming bc a norm. You said as an atheist, you do not care. As an atheist I do care and I dont follow why I shouldn’t care as prayers are meaningless for me. It’s not meaningless if imposed on me (indirectly or directly).

The animal welfare position I understand.

But it is the prayer bit I don't - how are the words being imposed on you?

If they hold no meaning, how does it make any difference? And would you feel the same about sitting and eating with a Muslim person who said those words over the table prior to eating?

I am genuinely trying to understand why you feel that way?

I mean - would you take issue with someone reading from Marx or Rousseau because they were imposing left wing ideology on you or from Burk or Hayek because they were imposing right wing ideology while they were slaughtering an animal or is it just religious texts?

Would you have an issue with a simple gratitude form of words if it didn't have an organised religious connotation?

MollyMMM · 09/03/2026 14:02

BloominNora · 09/03/2026 13:51

Yes - that is my view at the moment because I cannot see any other reason other than religion or bigotry why a meat eater who cares about animal welfare would not eat pre-stunned Halal meat.

I am happy to have my mind changed about that - hence asking why an atheist would object to what is simply a handful of words and having a conversation. As I said, having conversations with people who have different views has caused me to change my mind in the past and rethink my stance on things.

A reply along the lines of "I don't have to tell you" is fine people are perfectly entitled keep their reasons to themselves.

However, I am just as entitled to assume that a meat eater who has declared themselves to not be religious, buys meat from the supermarket but would refuse to buy pre-stunned Halal meat and refuses to discuss the reasons why in a perfectly polite conversation is doing so because their reasons are in fact bigoted and they know it.

So people who do not agree with you are bigoted if they are not fully giving an explanation accepted by you? This is what you saying, isn’t it? I need to convince you why as an atheist I do not want to eat halal or I am a bigot.

nomas · 09/03/2026 14:01

fashionqueen0123 · 09/03/2026 12:34

Yeah think something on the door. But that's now attracting him customers. Someone also went and cleaned off the eggs for him

🤣

That man is an absolute knob head. No one should be vandalising him OR eulogising him.

BloominNora · 09/03/2026 13:51

EasternStandard · 09/03/2026 13:32

This desire for understanding doesn’t really tally with your earlier post

‘Anyone who then avoided stunned Halal couldn't argue animal welfare and could be called out for the clear bigot's they are - particularly if they are not religious (like over 50% of the country)’

Yes - that is my view at the moment because I cannot see any other reason other than religion or bigotry why a meat eater who cares about animal welfare would not eat pre-stunned Halal meat.

I am happy to have my mind changed about that - hence asking why an atheist would object to what is simply a handful of words and having a conversation. As I said, having conversations with people who have different views has caused me to change my mind in the past and rethink my stance on things.

A reply along the lines of "I don't have to tell you" is fine people are perfectly entitled keep their reasons to themselves.

However, I am just as entitled to assume that a meat eater who has declared themselves to not be religious, buys meat from the supermarket but would refuse to buy pre-stunned Halal meat and refuses to discuss the reasons why in a perfectly polite conversation is doing so because their reasons are in fact bigoted and they know it.

FrizzyFrizbee · 09/03/2026 13:38

Following on from my previous point, the law is that animals must be stunned before slaughter with EXEMPTIONS for religious slaughter practices. I would like to see ZERO exemptions. This, I understand, is also the position of the RSPCA and the British Veterinary Association.

Judgejudysno1fan · 09/03/2026 13:34

BloominNora · 09/03/2026 13:27

Nobody needs to explain anything - I am just interested as to why.

I have had conversations with Muslims about their beliefs and why they believe them and some really interesting conversations with Jehovah's Witnesses as to why they believe what they do - particularly around not celebrating Christmas and Birthdays.

I have also had conversations with people from different sides of the political spectrum and different backgrounds to me as to where their beliefs, ideas and views come from.

Sometimes that has led me to change my mind about things or think of things differently, sometimes listening to my views has changed other peoples minds

Having conversations about what people believe and why leads to greater understanding and a much more peaceful and cohesive world generally.

And thats all great, respecting others way of life/religions/thoughts etc.

MollyMMM · 09/03/2026 13:33

BloominNora · 09/03/2026 13:27

Nobody needs to explain anything - I am just interested as to why.

I have had conversations with Muslims about their beliefs and why they believe them and some really interesting conversations with Jehovah's Witnesses as to why they believe what they do - particularly around not celebrating Christmas and Birthdays.

I have also had conversations with people from different sides of the political spectrum and different backgrounds to me as to where their beliefs, ideas and views come from.

Sometimes that has led me to change my mind about things or think of things differently, sometimes listening to my views has changed other peoples minds

Having conversations about what people believe and why leads to greater understanding and a much more peaceful and cohesive world generally.

  1. Animal welfare. I eat very little meat and dairy, but when I do I try to buy the most ethically produced products. The reason I am practically a vegan, is because I found this too difficult to navigate.

  2. I find it bizarre that we have Muslim prayers in slaughterhouses in the Uk and that this is becoming bc a norm. You said as an atheist, you do not care. As an atheist I do care and I dont follow why I shouldn’t care as prayers are meaningless for me. It’s not meaningless if imposed on me (indirectly or directly).

FrizzyFrizbee · 09/03/2026 13:32

SpringsOnTheWay · 09/03/2026 09:01

I don’t care what colour anyone is, what sky fairy they do or don’t believe in.
I do care passionately about animal welfare and think we can do better.

this thread is exactly why you can’t say it in real life though, because you get lumped in with “a type”.

This sums it up for me as well. I think labelling is important and welfare standards should be increased across the board, with no exceptions made for any religions.