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AIBU not wanting son's friends peeing in the garden

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DandyLemonTraybake · 08/03/2026 11:17

My son's (20M) football team had a big game yesterday evening and we were hosting the after party as he's the team captain. I drove my son and a few of his teammates home and the others Ubered to ours. I was pulling into the driveway and noticed a few of his teammates just arriving and getting out of the car. They were already quite drunk as there had been drinking at the game in the change rooms and a few of them made a beeline to the bushes and began peeing. One of them was also peeing into the bushes lining the drive way. I got out and asked him if he could please not do that and he just gave me a dismissive look and ran off after finishing. I find this to be pretty disrespectful but am not sure if it's just me.

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ExtraOnions · 08/03/2026 11:20

Did you Son think this was ok ?? Is he ok with Pissing in the street in general ?

Another revolting group of young, entitled, men.

tutugogo · 08/03/2026 11:19

That very odd behaviour, i would not be hosting again if they can’t control themselves long enough for you to open the door. Grown men need to know how to behave

rubyslippers · 08/03/2026 11:18

That is absolutely grim

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