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Dogs in hotels

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SlouchyBeanie · 07/03/2026 19:51

Staying in a chain hotel. Just seen two lots of dogs being taken to stay in a room. One lot was 2 spaniels, the other was a sausage dog and a bigger one I can't identify. I mean, what the fuck!?? I'm allergic to dogs and how do I know if there's been one in my room? Easy, I feel a bit unwell. Am I completely alone in thinking dogs have no business being in hotels and their owners are shit owners to imagine their dogs would enjoy this sort of experience. As I type, a third one has arrived, a terrier looking thing. I'm totally gobsmacked at the number of dogs in this hotel and find it unacceptable. I feel quite fired up about this at the moment, probably made worse by the barking and yapping I can hear. So am I being unreasonable that dogs should not be allowed in hotels?

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NoSoapJustUseShowerGel · 07/03/2026 23:43

Frequency · 07/03/2026 23:41

The poster above competes in sports where her dogs are needed. I travelled for CPD courses/seminars in canine behaviour and welfare, so my dog kinda was essential.

Your dog trumps human health needs, got it.

HelloVoid · 07/03/2026 23:42

Frequency · 07/03/2026 23:41

The poster above competes in sports where her dogs are needed. I travelled for CPD courses/seminars in canine behaviour and welfare, so my dog kinda was essential.

Yes attending competitions without the dogs would be a bit pointless (although perhaps I’d have more success 😂).

SlouchyBeanie · 07/03/2026 23:42

KimberleyClark · 07/03/2026 23:26

You should not have booked a dog friendly hotel.

I didn't know dogs are allowed in any hotel. I've never stayed in a hotel where dogs are allowed in the rooms. I thought no dogs was the norm.Now I've learned differently I can make sure it doesn't happen again.

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HoskinsChoice · 07/03/2026 23:41

SlouchyBeanie · 07/03/2026 23:21

Wow. I'm worth stalking :)

Erm. What?

Frequency · 07/03/2026 23:41

NoSoapJustUseShowerGel · 07/03/2026 23:38

And now it’s flipped the other way round and those of us who have no choice but to avoid dogs (or risk an asthma attack/eczema flare etc) find ourselves having difficulty finding somewhere. Except people have choice to take their dogs or not - it’s not actually necessary to take dogs everywhere (obv with the relatively rare exception of assistance dogs). So I guess you might have some insight into how we feel.

The poster above competes in sports where her dogs are needed. I travelled for CPD courses/seminars in canine behaviour and welfare, so my dog kinda was essential.

HelloVoid · 07/03/2026 23:41

SlouchyBeanie · 07/03/2026 23:35

Yes, I always stay in Premier Inns if possible and have never encountered a dog there. I was surprised to find quite so many in the HIE so it took me aback. But now I know so I won't make that mistake again. I stay in different hotels around 40 nights a year and have never seen a dog. Most people are sensible. I'll be more picky with hotels in future.

There you go, problem solved 😊.

Premier Inn is your answer, personally I’m sad they don’t allow dogs as their beds are the comfiest beds ever. But good I guess for the dog haters out there. I do have a Premier Inn mattress on my bed so I get to sleep there every night…with the dogs 🐕

NoSoapJustUseShowerGel · 07/03/2026 23:38

Frequency · 07/03/2026 23:28

Agreed. I used to travel a lot with my terrier for work reasons and often had to stay outside of/on the outskirts of town because dog-friendly, central places were not easy to find.

We almost never found anywhere we could eat out unless we were deep in the countryside.

And now it’s flipped the other way round and those of us who have no choice but to avoid dogs (or risk an asthma attack/eczema flare etc) find ourselves having difficulty finding somewhere. Except people have choice to take their dogs or not - it’s not actually necessary to take dogs everywhere (obv with the relatively rare exception of assistance dogs). So I guess you might have some insight into how we feel.

SlouchyBeanie · 07/03/2026 23:35

HelloVoid · 07/03/2026 23:24

I travel around and stay in hotels a lot because I compete in a dog sport with my dogs, and go to competitions all over the UK. So I kinda have to bring my dogs. I usually stay in Travelodges as it’s the cheapest option but have stayed in other chains and independent hotels. I don’t really know what your problem is though, there’s far more NON dog friendly hotels out there, so just choose one of them? Premier Inn, for example.

Yes, I always stay in Premier Inns if possible and have never encountered a dog there. I was surprised to find quite so many in the HIE so it took me aback. But now I know so I won't make that mistake again. I stay in different hotels around 40 nights a year and have never seen a dog. Most people are sensible. I'll be more picky with hotels in future.

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Lovelylydia · 07/03/2026 23:35

MakeYourOwnSunshine · 07/03/2026 20:08

There's absolutely no need for dogs to stay in hotels. They're animals, if you have to take them with you somewhere they can stay in the car overnight with a window cracked open, it won't kill them.
I recently went on a city break, was about to book a really nice independent hotel when I read the bit of the website that said they were dog friendly. So the chain hotel that did not allow dogs got my business instead.

Because dogs are sentient beings, unlike you.

NoSoapJustUseShowerGel · 07/03/2026 23:33

OneBreezyHelper · 07/03/2026 23:28

when have people ever left their dogs home alone when they were going away for the weekend or holidays, really?

Where did I say they left them home alone?!

Presumably they used kennels or had friends or family look after them 🙄.

OneBreezyHelper · 07/03/2026 23:28

NoSoapJustUseShowerGel · 07/03/2026 23:10

Yanbu at all. We have dog allergies and it is ridiculous how hard it is to find dog-free spaces these days.

People used to live life just fine without the need to have their dogs with them at all times, it’s beyond frustrating.

when have people ever left their dogs home alone when they were going away for the weekend or holidays, really?

NoSoapJustUseShowerGel · 07/03/2026 23:28

Frequency · 07/03/2026 23:21

Where do you want to visit? I am willing to bet you a month's salary I can find you dog-free hotels and eateries in your chosen destination.

I’m sure you can find one, maybe even a handful. My point is there’s a massive lack of choice. I know this from experience in looking for UK holiday cottages for the past few years. If I filter by no-pets I get about 10-20% of options available. Same goes for nice coffee shops at weekends- I know from lived experience. It’s completely disproportionate.

Frequency · 07/03/2026 23:28

HelloVoid · 07/03/2026 23:24

I travel around and stay in hotels a lot because I compete in a dog sport with my dogs, and go to competitions all over the UK. So I kinda have to bring my dogs. I usually stay in Travelodges as it’s the cheapest option but have stayed in other chains and independent hotels. I don’t really know what your problem is though, there’s far more NON dog friendly hotels out there, so just choose one of them? Premier Inn, for example.

Agreed. I used to travel a lot with my terrier for work reasons and often had to stay outside of/on the outskirts of town because dog-friendly, central places were not easy to find.

We almost never found anywhere we could eat out unless we were deep in the countryside.

Strumpetpumpet · 07/03/2026 23:27

I generally avoid anywhere dog-friendly, as I have allergies. It can be a bit of a pain but it is - for now - still doable, there are some hotels/cottages/ restaurants which don’t allow dogs. If and when that’s no longer the case, I’ll be buying a camper van 😎

KimberleyClark · 07/03/2026 23:26

You should not have booked a dog friendly hotel.

AcquadiP · 07/03/2026 23:25

Frequency · 07/03/2026 22:52

I was on a train once with my late terrier. He was shattered from a weekend of training activities, so he spent the entire 2 hours under my seat, gently snoring.

As we got close to my stop, I woke him to put his coat on coz it was pissing down, and we were walking home.

The woman sat opposite me immediately started coughing and complaining that he was setting off her asthma and the smell of him was making her nauseous. She sent her poor, embarassed looking husband off to find a member of staff to complain because dogs are not allowed on trains.

I bit my tongue, but I really, really wanted to say "dude, he's been here for two fucking hours, and you've only just noticed."

😂

HelloVoid · 07/03/2026 23:24

I travel around and stay in hotels a lot because I compete in a dog sport with my dogs, and go to competitions all over the UK. So I kinda have to bring my dogs. I usually stay in Travelodges as it’s the cheapest option but have stayed in other chains and independent hotels. I don’t really know what your problem is though, there’s far more NON dog friendly hotels out there, so just choose one of them? Premier Inn, for example.

Smilesinthesunshine · 07/03/2026 23:21

This country seems to be full of dog haters these days, I am sure that didn't used to be the case. Most dogs I have met are much better than moaning, nasty, whinging and whining humans.

Frequency · 07/03/2026 23:21

NoSoapJustUseShowerGel · 07/03/2026 23:20

That’s all well and good if dog-free businesses were easy to find. Unfortunately these days the majority are dog-friendly leaving those allergic to dogs with next to no choice about where to stay or where to have coffee.
Too many places have listened to their customers, unfortunately it’s easy to be vocal about how you would like them to welcome your dogs, it’s much harder to put across the anti-dog side because these days not wanting to be around dogs apparently makes you some kind of awful person.

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Where do you want to visit? I am willing to bet you a month's salary I can find you dog-free hotels and eateries in your chosen destination.

SlouchyBeanie · 07/03/2026 23:21

HoskinsChoice · 07/03/2026 23:14

How original. We have someone claiming they think they're really badly off to piss people off and now an anti-dog post to provoke people into responding. AI really needs to come up with some new ideas for their money making click bait. 🎣 1/10.

Wow. I'm worth stalking :)

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NoSoapJustUseShowerGel · 07/03/2026 23:20

ShowMeTheSushi · 07/03/2026 22:35

Businesses are listening to their customers, that’s why many are dog-friendly. Believe it or not, lots of people actually enjoy travelling with pets or spotting them around hotels. Hotels can’t cater to every allergy, preference, or phobia, some welcome dogs, some don’t. OP’s meltdown? Easily avoided with a little research… or common sense.

That’s all well and good if dog-free businesses were easy to find. Unfortunately these days the majority are dog-friendly leaving those allergic to dogs with next to no choice about where to stay or where to have coffee.
Too many places have listened to their customers, unfortunately it’s easy to be vocal about how you would like them to welcome your dogs, it’s much harder to put across the anti-dog side because these days not wanting to be around dogs apparently makes you some kind of awful person.

SlouchyBeanie · 07/03/2026 23:18

Oh well. I'm comfortable to be in a large minority.

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HoskinsChoice · 07/03/2026 23:14

How original. We have someone claiming they think they're really badly off to piss people off and now an anti-dog post to provoke people into responding. AI really needs to come up with some new ideas for their money making click bait. 🎣 1/10.

Frequency · 07/03/2026 23:13

TheOtherSide21 · 07/03/2026 23:06

My dog lives the epitome of a ‘natural’ life - he does the exact job he’s bred to do. Outdoors. In all weathers. When he’s not working, he’s outside with me with full run of our smallholding. He loves a car journey with his nose out the window and will race you to the car door. Goes to play golf on a Sunday with my OH. He’s in peak health, perfect condition. He spends at least half his day- often more- flat out sleeping. Because he is tired and fulfilled. He does not care where he sleeps, as long as it’s comfy and quiet and he can cuddle into me if the notion takes him. He’s not ‘holed up’ when he’s in a hotel - he’s happily resting because he’s a content and confident dog who can settle anywhere as his needs are consistently met.

Some folk are bonkers 😂

The concept of companion breeds seems to have passed OP by. My dogs are "living their natural life" when they're snuggled in bed with me.

https://www.chichisandme.com/the-fascinating-history-of-chihuahuas-from-ancient-royals-to-modern-companions/

NoSoapJustUseShowerGel · 07/03/2026 23:10

Yanbu at all. We have dog allergies and it is ridiculous how hard it is to find dog-free spaces these days.

People used to live life just fine without the need to have their dogs with them at all times, it’s beyond frustrating.

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