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Dogs in hotels

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SlouchyBeanie · 07/03/2026 19:51

Staying in a chain hotel. Just seen two lots of dogs being taken to stay in a room. One lot was 2 spaniels, the other was a sausage dog and a bigger one I can't identify. I mean, what the fuck!?? I'm allergic to dogs and how do I know if there's been one in my room? Easy, I feel a bit unwell. Am I completely alone in thinking dogs have no business being in hotels and their owners are shit owners to imagine their dogs would enjoy this sort of experience. As I type, a third one has arrived, a terrier looking thing. I'm totally gobsmacked at the number of dogs in this hotel and find it unacceptable. I feel quite fired up about this at the moment, probably made worse by the barking and yapping I can hear. So am I being unreasonable that dogs should not be allowed in hotels?

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ShowMeTheSushi · 08/03/2026 12:31

NoSoapJustUseShowerGel · 07/03/2026 23:43

Your dog trumps human health needs, got it.

Your need trumps millions of disabilities and mental health needs (failed by humans and healthcare, but helped by dogs). Got it.

Unicornsandrainbow · 08/03/2026 12:27

A couple of weeks before christmas the petrol station a couple of doors down from my parents had a serious gas leak affecting water and the air. This affected 47 houses. They evacuated and had to put several of those family including their family pets into hotels and air bnbs. It's still not sorted. I don't think those dog owners were being selfish though wanting better air quality. It's still not been sorted yet

ShowMeTheSushi · 08/03/2026 12:27

MakeYourOwnSunshine · 07/03/2026 20:08

There's absolutely no need for dogs to stay in hotels. They're animals, if you have to take them with you somewhere they can stay in the car overnight with a window cracked open, it won't kill them.
I recently went on a city break, was about to book a really nice independent hotel when I read the bit of the website that said they were dog friendly. So the chain hotel that did not allow dogs got my business instead.

Perhaps you could share the dog-free hotel you stayed at for those who claim none exist.

ShowMeTheSushi · 08/03/2026 12:22

NoSoapJustUseShowerGel · 07/03/2026 23:20

That’s all well and good if dog-free businesses were easy to find. Unfortunately these days the majority are dog-friendly leaving those allergic to dogs with next to no choice about where to stay or where to have coffee.
Too many places have listened to their customers, unfortunately it’s easy to be vocal about how you would like them to welcome your dogs, it’s much harder to put across the anti-dog side because these days not wanting to be around dogs apparently makes you some kind of awful person.

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No one is saying that not wanting to be around dogs makes someone an awful person. Allergies and preferences are perfectly valid, but you can’t expect the world to revolve around your needs or dislikes. The issue and pattern with these types of threads is that people often use allergies or phobias as an excuse to mock dogs, their owners, and the businesses that choose to welcome them.

Some posters even go as far as demanding that people stop bringing dogs to places that are openly dog-friendly, ignoring the fact that the business owners themselves made that choice.

Businesses are not charities. They’re run by people who need to pay bills, support their families, and keep their businesses viable. If welcoming a certain customer base helps them stay open especially when many hospitality businesses are struggling, that’s simply the reality of running a business.

And while options may be more limited in some areas, it’s not really accurate to say there’s “next to no choice.” There are still plenty of places that aren’t dog-friendly.

NoWordForFluffy · 08/03/2026 12:01

And another search for all of England. Over 3000 cottages where pets aren't allowed.

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NoWordForFluffy · 08/03/2026 11:57

Quick search...780 cottages, 442 allow pets. That leaves over 300 for people who want to avoid pet friendly places.

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NoWordForFluffy · 08/03/2026 11:53

Ritasueandbobtoo9 · 08/03/2026 11:37

I have dog allergies and want a dog free holiday cottage in Uk but there was one on a search I did earlier today. We are being excluded from society.

Weird. When I specify dog friendly when looking for cottages, loads disappear from the search. 🤷‍♀️

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 08/03/2026 11:48

Next time just check whether the hotel allows dogs.

Easy enough, FFS - what is wrong with some people? Or do they just enjoy having something to moan about?

RobinInTheCrabApple · 08/03/2026 11:48

Ritasueandbobtoo9 · 08/03/2026 11:37

I have dog allergies and want a dog free holiday cottage in Uk but there was one on a search I did earlier today. We are being excluded from society.

Where do you want to stay? Let us know and the power of MN can find you somewhere.

RobinInTheCrabApple · 08/03/2026 11:45

Seriouslynonono · 08/03/2026 11:28

I don't want a cottage. I want a b and b or a small inexpensive hotels - these are all 'dogs welcome' unfortunately.

It's not my budget - it's the lack of availability because most reasonably priced places have gone dog friendly in the last 3 years since everyone got a dog during covid.

Premier Lodge would work for you then. I made a mistake earlier when I said there were 7 in the Lake District. There are 10. Rooms start at about £50 a night.

Just looked at their Kendal branch. 4 nights, late April - £388 B&B. No dogs in rooms or restaurant.

Frequency · 08/03/2026 11:40

Seriouslynonono · 08/03/2026 11:28

I don't want a cottage. I want a b and b or a small inexpensive hotels - these are all 'dogs welcome' unfortunately.

It's not my budget - it's the lack of availability because most reasonably priced places have gone dog friendly in the last 3 years since everyone got a dog during covid.

https://www.diamondlodgeambleside.uk/cms/about/

Ambleside, dog free, £100 a night for their basic room.

About – Diamond Lodge Ambleside

https://www.diamondlodgeambleside.uk/cms/about/

faerylights · 08/03/2026 11:39

Ritasueandbobtoo9 · 08/03/2026 11:37

I have dog allergies and want a dog free holiday cottage in Uk but there was one on a search I did earlier today. We are being excluded from society.

You're not being excluded from anything. Like anyone else with an allergy, or disability, you just need to do your research as to whether dogs are allowed before you book.

Ritasueandbobtoo9 · 08/03/2026 11:37

I have dog allergies and want a dog free holiday cottage in Uk but there was one on a search I did earlier today. We are being excluded from society.

NoWordForFluffy · 08/03/2026 11:29

Seriouslynonono · 08/03/2026 10:33

It is.

At your budget, I'd say many hotels are out of reach, dog free or not, sadly. It's dear to stay on a hotel these days.

Seriouslynonono · 08/03/2026 11:28

RobinInTheCrabApple · 08/03/2026 10:43

It's already been established on this thread that you want dog free, reasonably priced accommodation in the Lake District.

Premier Inn has 7 hotels in the Lake District. You said that's too expensive for you.
I travel a lot and it's very hard these days to find anything cheaper than Premier Inns.

Just a quick look and I was inundated with various dog free options.

If you can't find something it's your budget causing problems, not pets.

https://www.lakelovers.co.uk/pet-free-cottages.html
https://www.holidaycottages.co.uk/pet-free-cottages/lake-district

I don't want a cottage. I want a b and b or a small inexpensive hotels - these are all 'dogs welcome' unfortunately.

It's not my budget - it's the lack of availability because most reasonably priced places have gone dog friendly in the last 3 years since everyone got a dog during covid.

RobinInTheCrabApple · 08/03/2026 11:13

Strumpetpumpet · 08/03/2026 10:56

presumably the dogs will be outside though, not inside my space where they would impact my ability to breathe.

Reading some of these comments, it’s a bit disturbing how some posters seem to find other people’s medical issues funny or a cause for criticism…

Not you @Strumpetpumpet because I take your point entirely and apologise, but the hateful way some people talk about dogs and their owners on MN creates an adversarial environment.

So many people banging way about there being no dog free accommodation at all when even the OP tells us there is.

It's pretty mean how people suggest people's beloved pets should be ' left overnight in cars with the window cracked' or 'in cages'. So many 'dogs not treated like dogs', 'dog owners are psychopaths', 'Dog owners not looking after their dogs properly'.

So many people without dogs but with strong opinons about the proper care of dogs that would frankly make responsible dog owners recoil.

Honestly, if people talked like this in real life there would be fist fights on every street corner.

Dogs aren't allowed in most camp site shower blocks or shops so I'm sure you'll find them suitable for your health conditions. Happy holidays.

LoveSandbanks · 08/03/2026 11:11

GreatVenue · 07/03/2026 21:50

Because nothing is worse than dog smell. Esp wet dog. And I have worked in a hospital for 30 years, and smelt nearly every revolting human smell possible!

Wet dog smell is one of my favourite smells!

But I adore dogs, all of them.

Strumpetpumpet · 08/03/2026 10:56

RobinInTheCrabApple · 08/03/2026 10:16

You're going to absolutely love how dog friendly most campsites are.

presumably the dogs will be outside though, not inside my space where they would impact my ability to breathe.

Reading some of these comments, it’s a bit disturbing how some posters seem to find other people’s medical issues funny or a cause for criticism…

Tigercrane · 08/03/2026 10:48

There are plenty of dog free hotels and holiday lets.Probably you can find dog haters hotels if you google it.
I always find it hard to find places that allow dogs to stay!

rwalker · 08/03/2026 10:47

CunningLinguist2 · 08/03/2026 10:39

Christ on a bike - the level of shit people are willing to mistrust. I have NEVER heard - or thought - that an assistance dog would be a fake.
Life’s stressful enough without seeing more nonissues everywhere. You must be exhausted!

Niece bosses son in type one diabetic there family dog had one of these assistance harness’s so they can take it everywhere the son is also 19 so rarely with them anywhere
it’s had no training as an assistance dog

so perhaps that’s what’s made me cynical because I have first hand experience
I wish I had your optimism and faith in society

UnctuousUnicorns · 08/03/2026 10:46

RobinInTheCrabApple · 08/03/2026 10:16

You're going to absolutely love how dog friendly most campsites are.

🤣 🐕‍🦺🐾

RobinInTheCrabApple · 08/03/2026 10:43

Seriouslynonono · 08/03/2026 10:33

It is.

It's already been established on this thread that you want dog free, reasonably priced accommodation in the Lake District.

Premier Inn has 7 hotels in the Lake District. You said that's too expensive for you.
I travel a lot and it's very hard these days to find anything cheaper than Premier Inns.

Just a quick look and I was inundated with various dog free options.

If you can't find something it's your budget causing problems, not pets.

https://www.lakelovers.co.uk/pet-free-cottages.html
https://www.holidaycottages.co.uk/pet-free-cottages/lake-district

Pet Free Cottages - Lakelovers

Pets aren’t for everybody, so we’ve got a wonderful range of pet-free holiday cottages. Enjoy some much-needed me-time with a pet-free holiday.

https://www.lakelovers.co.uk/pet-free-cottages.html

CunningLinguist2 · 08/03/2026 10:39

rwalker · 08/03/2026 09:27

The problem is the assistance scheme has been totally abused
the world and his wife can get an assistance harness from Amazon and put it on the family dog
which makes a lot of people cynical if some of the assistance dogs are genuine

Christ on a bike - the level of shit people are willing to mistrust. I have NEVER heard - or thought - that an assistance dog would be a fake.
Life’s stressful enough without seeing more nonissues everywhere. You must be exhausted!

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