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Where to go 6.5 weeks school holidays trip

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CATH007 · 07/03/2026 16:16

Where do we go? 2 adults and 2 teens(15 and 13). We have a rare chance for a 6.5 week trip. Wanting to make the very most of it. Do we explore Europe on a driving trip and buy a caravan or do we go long haul somewhere with a lower cost of living ideally south east Asia for a real adventure.
trying to look at options. Any suggestions? It’s been 19 years since my gap year so need to make the very most of this rare opportunity

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Squirrelchops1 · 08/03/2026 16:35

Borobadur and Prambanan temples on Java are amazing if you want a bit of a history fix.
Bali...as other person mentioned the north is amazing. North West at Pemuteran there's a marine reserve and the snorkeling is out of this world.
You can get good accommodation for not a lot of money and well above hostel standard!

Midlifecrisisaverted · 08/03/2026 15:59

Soooo exciting, this!! My dream! Personally I'd do long haul as you can do most of Europe if you get an odd weekend in the future any time. You won't get a chance like this again, so I'd go off the tourist trail and really experience a place. For me it would definitely be south east Asia. Cheap to travel around, and cheap to live. I'd be wanting to live like a local. Do tell us what you decide

Midlifecrisisaverted · 08/03/2026 15:57

Ohfudgeoff · 08/03/2026 15:38

Ubud in Bali
Seminyak
Sanur was ok, nothing to rave about

I'd have loved to explore Northern Bali but couldn't because of volcano advice when we were there.

I went to Northern Bali last year, Tembok. Very different to the south, much less developed. Wish I'd been able to spend more time there, it was amazing. Definitely recommend Bali, only problem is the traffic as their infrastructure isn't great for the amount of tourists, especially in the south.

Nowpause · 08/03/2026 15:39

I really can’t see see £3k per person for 6.5 weeks going very far unless you’re happy with shared youth hostel room from start to finish and graveyard flights @CATH007

Ohfudgeoff · 08/03/2026 15:38

CATH007 · 08/03/2026 15:24

Indonesia Sounds like it could be more than enough in itself for the trip then? We never made it here on our gap year so would be new to us all. Sumatra, Java, Bali and Lombok. I think this might be most sensible option as it is less internal flights so less cost, good weather at that time of year and lower cost of living than places like Japan. Any Indonesia highlights / tips/ recommendations people can recommend? @Squirrelchops1

Ubud in Bali
Seminyak
Sanur was ok, nothing to rave about

I'd have loved to explore Northern Bali but couldn't because of volcano advice when we were there.

Ohfudgeoff · 08/03/2026 15:32

Bali would suit your teens and likes for snorkeling, swimming and culture. We got stuck there 3 days longer than planned when flights were cancelled due to ash and volcano eruption. Something to be mindful of when planning trip insurance with Indonesia.

Japan is expensive and accomodation small! But staying in a Ryokan is a great experience. Okinawa is beautiful. Kyoto has so much to see, we hired bikes and cycled but could easily have spent longer there. Tokyo was busy. Try and check out when sumo is on and book well beforehand if you decide to do Japan. The fish market in Tokyo had the best, freshest sushi 😍

Seoul I wouldn't spend longer than 3 days really.

Guatemala is awesome. I'd love to do a Spanish course there! We did east coast Mexico, Belize and Guatemala and then back up into Mexico along the other side, which ticked a lot of boxes for culture historic/UNESCO sites, swimming, snorkelling and SUP and free diving through mangroves. Teens might like Caye Caulker in Belize, very laid back and chilled.

So many wonderful places.

CATH007 · 08/03/2026 15:24

Indonesia Sounds like it could be more than enough in itself for the trip then? We never made it here on our gap year so would be new to us all. Sumatra, Java, Bali and Lombok. I think this might be most sensible option as it is less internal flights so less cost, good weather at that time of year and lower cost of living than places like Japan. Any Indonesia highlights / tips/ recommendations people can recommend? @Squirrelchops1

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Unexpectedlysinglemum · 08/03/2026 00:15

Bali Indonesia etc

Squirrelchops1 · 07/03/2026 23:42

I did 6 weeks in Indonesia in 2017. As you know it's so cheap and easy to travel inbetween the islands. However once you're east of Lombok you're starting to need to think about malaria etc. We did Sumatra, Java and Bali. We were meant to spend more time on Lombok but only ended up flying back out of there to KL.

Floradon · 07/03/2026 23:12

That budget would be a real stretch in Japan IMO. Does it include flights? It’s only £280 ish a day which even if it doesn’t include flights isn’t going to go far in Japan - you’re presumably talking about two hotel rooms, plus meals, plus trains (not cheap).

Japan is also very hot and humid in summer unless you go north.

The budget would be doable for China and much of SE Asia though. Or Central/S America. But if you need to cover flights in that budget you’re going to need to plan carefully. Long haul flights could be £2-4k of that budget easily.

blankcanvas3 · 07/03/2026 18:44

Interrailing around Europe where you each choose a destination for a week, then the other 2 weeks can be a joint decision between you

PurpleThistle7 · 07/03/2026 18:33

I think your budget is ambitious for Japan etc. does it include flights? You’d benefit from moving around less as each flight will add up quickly for 4 fares.

No experience myself but South America has lots of Spanish speaking options and is typically budget friendly. Japan is wonderful but neither Spanish nor budget friendly.

I think as it’s summertime you’ll want to consider what sort of weather you’re targeting. Personally that would rule out anywhere southern Europe and unfortunately much of Japan. My kids are miserable in the heat. So I’d be looking into Northern Europe or South America.

ShanghaiDiva · 07/03/2026 18:27

Areas in Asia which are dry - Bali, Borneo, Java, central Vietnam
Have been to Japan and South Korea in July and the heat can be quite debilitating.
one year we did - Hoi An, Hue, Hanoi, Luang Prabang, Bangkok and then Hong Kong. Not everywhere was dry, but plenty to do during the odd downpour!

Buscobel · 07/03/2026 18:21

You’ll need to add in the cost of fines if you take two or three weeks of school time.

LoveHearts69 · 07/03/2026 18:20

Ooo you sound like us in terms of what you like! I’m excited for you, what a fantastic opportunity and the ages of your children will be amazing!

I’d be inclined to spend the majority of the time in Japan, as there is so much to see, although it is meant to be more expensive than a lot of south east Asia. Seoul is high on our list, I’ve heard you don’t need too long there though.

We once combined Sri Lanka and the Maldives, with the Maldives we stayed on a local island instead of a resort though (no alcohol and be mindful of covering up outside of the tourist area but it is a FRACTION of the price!) it takes some planning but that could be another option for some amazing snorkelling trips.

Hope you have the most incredible trip whatever you choose!

CATH007 · 07/03/2026 18:20

Teen turns 15 in September so not yet 15.
Yes I realise I might need to up the budget.
I love the Japan, South Korea and SE Asia suggestions. I will look up those links as this sounds like a really interesting trip and some great ideas. Thank you.

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RegalDiamondMonster · 07/03/2026 18:06

Would something like this be of interest?
https://www.goeco.org/area/volunteer-in-asia/japan/family-friendly-wildlife-cultural-immersion/

Based on what you've said, I'd do Japan, south korea and then SE Asia, whichever parts seem interesting to you. China is also visa free entry until end of Dec 26, you could go to Yunnan province from Laos, see Tiger Leaping Gorge etc which is relatively inexpensive.

Maybe a real cultural immersion like this? https://farmerleaf.com/pages/tea-tour

Family Volunteering in Japan - Wildlife & Cultural Immersion

Volunteer as a family alongside Japanese participants in conservation, community projects, and hands-on workshops while exploring the culture

https://www.goeco.org/area/volunteer-in-asia/japan/family-friendly-wildlife-cultural-immersion/

Eufyon · 07/03/2026 18:01

CATH007 · 07/03/2026 17:56

Budget ideally up to £12500

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For 6.5 weeks for 3 adults and one child…. Is that including spending money?

has your 15 year old not already started his GCSEs?

CATH007 · 07/03/2026 17:56

Budget ideally up to £12500

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SleepingisanArt · 07/03/2026 17:53

Boring practical point - check your house insurance. Most policies have a clause where you can't leave the property unoccupied for more than 30 days and if something happens they will reject your claim. You may need to arrange for someone to spend the odd night in your home or seperate your 6 weeks into two 3 week blocks. Sorry to be a downer (I know people who did similar came home to a burst pipe and insurance said no).

CATH007 · 07/03/2026 17:52

Yes for South East Asia this sounds like a very good plan to fly into one country and out of another.
yes I have a South Korea mad teen and also one keen to visit Japan. Never been to either. So that would be good. I’m just concerned the costs could be a lot higher to these countries but would love to include them somehow.
Snorkelling, swimming,hiking, nature, countryside, seeing the culture and buildings. Avoiding large cities for more than a few nights.

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LoveHearts69 · 07/03/2026 17:51

Alternatively you could have an amazing time travelling around Japan with short city breaks either side on the way there/back in Seoul/Hong Kong/Singapore!

LoveHearts69 · 07/03/2026 17:49

I’d probably fly into one country and have a flight out of somewhere else and spend the time travelling between the two. E.g fly into Bangkok and out from Singapore. What kind of things do you all enjoy?

CATH007 · 07/03/2026 17:42

I love the idea of south east Asia.
We did this region for 3 months as part of our gap year so it would be a wonderful way to reminisce too. Never made it to Indonesia though. Would need to check which areas are rainy season to avoid them.

I’m also thinking we could make it longer if we took the teens out of school for end 2 or 3 weeks of term. GCSE courses only start in September. I’d need to see if that’s a feasible option though as wouldn’t want to disrupt their education but as a one-off it might add some time to make the most of this trip.
They both learn Spanish so yes that’s a good suggestion we had wanted to learn Spanish as adults and once did a one week at a 1 to 1 Spanish language course in guatamala and I’d always wanted to go back and do a 6 week Spanish course there so that’s a very good suggestion too.
Thank you for the inspiration!

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Ohfudgeoff · 07/03/2026 17:27

Or what about 3 weeks in Europe and then 3.5 weeks in SE Asia?

You could do something like drive France, Northern Italy, Slovenia, Croatia and fly from there to Thailand, Laos, Vietnam and Cambodia....would be a whistle stop tour but lots of experiences!

😍