DH is an alcoholic. A reasonably functioning alcoholic, but an alcoholic none the less.
He knows it, yet refuses to do anything about it. Your typical narcissistic, selfish alcoholic.
I've been reading a lot about how to live/deal with an alcoholic and I keep coming up against the same thing: "It's because they are traumatised so be thoughtful, supportive etc"
I've literally just read a blog on a well known private detox place and all I could think was you self indulgent, narcissistic prick.
DH has been through trauma, yet he consistently refuses to do anything about it despite years of support. He cried the other day because apparently 2 years ago I character assassinated him and he's never got over it. Did I? Yes. Because I was sick to the fucking back teeth of everyone fucking pandering to him.
Fuck off. Sort your fucking shit out and stop blaming everyone. Take responsibility for your recovery.
Am I being really harsh? Or is it just years of gaslighting that's making me feel guilty?!
Apologies for the rant!