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Can't stand this attitude re prison attacks

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BySnappyUmberFish · 06/03/2026 16:14

After the murder of Ian Watkins and the assault and (very possible) death of Ian Huntley, social media and news articles have been flooded with comments such as 'Give that man a medal!!' 'Not all heroes wear capes!!'.
These people seem to forget that the killers are in prison for as equally heinous and despicable crimes as the aforementioned two. They have also most probably not attacked them over what they did, but over debts, drugs or just to gain some notoriety.

I am fed up of hearing comments like this.

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loislovesstewie · 09/03/2026 13:58

ghostofchristmaspasta · 09/03/2026 13:41

I didn’t say that at all, not sure where you got that from.

I said I don’t lose sleep over falsely accused inmates, not that I’d be happy if they died.

Because falsely accused people who are in prison are just as likely to be assaulted or murdered. If we start going down the road of accepting vigilantes murdering inmates and thinking it's OK then that is likely to happen. Which is why prisoners' safety is essential.

ghostofchristmaspasta · 09/03/2026 13:41

loislovesstewie · 09/03/2026 08:37

So you would be happy if an innocent person was murdered in prison because another offender decided to take the law into their own hands?

I didn’t say that at all, not sure where you got that from.

I said I don’t lose sleep over falsely accused inmates, not that I’d be happy if they died.

Worralorra · 09/03/2026 11:16

I agree, OP.

Regardless of the crimes for which they were imprisoned, they are still somebody’s Son, Brother, Partner or former friend, and for those, we should show some respect and empathy.

We aren’t, as far as I know, abandoning thousands of years of due Legal Process in favour of the court of Social Media, and the justice that they were already in receipt of should be enough - as WE decided, as a Nation, following the execution of Derek Bentley in the 1950’s and the subsequent campaigns to end Capital punishment.

Bushwoolie · 09/03/2026 10:28

I'm torn.

I despite the fact that someone like Huntley lives at the expense of the tax payer. He is not deserving in the slightest.
At the same time I completely understand prisons need to be safe and that not everyone on prison is guilty.

That being said I do not feel an ounce of pity when the likes of him and Watkins are attacked or killed. I don't for one minute think they're sat regretting their choices everyday. That they'll suffer in that knowledge til the day they die.

Maybe my past experiences have a lot to do with the way I think.

PrincessASDaisy · 09/03/2026 10:06

BySnappyUmberFish · 06/03/2026 16:34

Despite their crimes prisoners also deserve to be safe. It's concerning to think how easily this can happen in prisons, imagine it was your relative who was inside.

I really don’t care tbh. Sure I’m not online whooping and cheering, but I could not care less that they’re dead. Sara Sharif’s father was a monster and recently survived an attack; he does not ‘deserve’ to feel safe ever. His daughter deserved that.

WalkDontWalk · 09/03/2026 10:01

CreepyCoupe · 06/03/2026 17:57

You’re conflating justice with revenge.

A murderer being locked up for life is punishment decided by a court. Random psycho prisoners attacking someone isn’t justice, it’s just more violence. And as others have said, it puts the staff at risk.

Do you really think it’s ok for justice to be meted out by a fellow inmate? If you only believe in the rule of law when it’s convenient, then you don’t really believe in it at all. A civilised society doesn’t prove it’s civilised by copying the behaviour of the worst people in it.

Celebrating murderers attacking murderers is just supporting violence.

I could have just thumbsed-up this. But I've quoted it so that it appears again.

LizzieW1969 · 09/03/2026 09:49

Alpacajigsaw · 09/03/2026 09:41

He spent his whole life in prison. The 40 year minimum term, if he’d lived long enough, was just that - a minimum. No guarantee whatsoever he’d have got out. I believe there are strict guidelines for whole life tariffs which the judge would have had to consider

Even so, I was surprised to discover this, as I thought Huntley was on a whole life tariff. He was sentenced over 20 years ago, though, so obviously he was sentenced according to the guidelines at the time. When were whole life tariffs introduced? Maybe they hadn’t been introduced then?

Alpacajigsaw · 09/03/2026 09:41

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 08/03/2026 21:31

I don’t understand why Huntley didn’t have a whole life tariff. He shouldn’t have had the slightest chance of some do gooding parole board letting him out

He spent his whole life in prison. The 40 year minimum term, if he’d lived long enough, was just that - a minimum. No guarantee whatsoever he’d have got out. I believe there are strict guidelines for whole life tariffs which the judge would have had to consider

FlyingApple · 09/03/2026 09:30

Alpacajigsaw · 08/03/2026 10:27

So? Tough shit. Thankfully people like you don’t make policy in this country.

And what does this say about you? You have bizarre priorities.

And also I'd like to add, yes, for now we don't but we'll see.

LizzieW1969 · 09/03/2026 09:27

ghostofchristmaspasta · 09/03/2026 01:15

I did say offending pedophiles, not accused.

However when this comes up I would much rather more offenders were incarcerated, even if that means some people falsely accused are in there too. Not quite the same situation but similar.

There are so many vile people in the world, far more than are falsely accused. I don’t give it too much mind.

Do you really think violent prisoners like Russell will distinguish between convicted child killers/paedophiles who really are guilty and those who are not? They won’t care either way, they’ll just attack or kill them regardless.

This is no longer about Huntley, he’s dead and gone now.

loislovesstewie · 09/03/2026 08:37

ghostofchristmaspasta · 09/03/2026 01:15

I did say offending pedophiles, not accused.

However when this comes up I would much rather more offenders were incarcerated, even if that means some people falsely accused are in there too. Not quite the same situation but similar.

There are so many vile people in the world, far more than are falsely accused. I don’t give it too much mind.

So you would be happy if an innocent person was murdered in prison because another offender decided to take the law into their own hands?

ghostofchristmaspasta · 09/03/2026 01:15

GladHedgehog · 08/03/2026 21:37

And what of those falsely accused - the Stefan Kiszkos of this world? Are they just collateral damage? Is it not bad enough that they're imprisoned for crimes they didn't commit without having them murdered as well?

I did say offending pedophiles, not accused.

However when this comes up I would much rather more offenders were incarcerated, even if that means some people falsely accused are in there too. Not quite the same situation but similar.

There are so many vile people in the world, far more than are falsely accused. I don’t give it too much mind.

SemperIdem · 08/03/2026 21:40

Generally speaking the people I have seen crowing about the attack on Huntley, and Watkins before him, are not the most intellectually robust people I know. I assume the same is true of the strangers I see doing the same here.

I can’t bring myself to feel sympathy for either man, but as you and others have said @BySnappyUmberFish, this speaks to a far larger issue within our prisons and it is not to be celebrated.

GladHedgehog · 08/03/2026 21:37

ghostofchristmaspasta · 06/03/2026 16:37

If my relative was a sexual predator or child murderer I would be congratulating their killer.

I don’t think offending pedophiles deserve to be safe anywhere.

And what of those falsely accused - the Stefan Kiszkos of this world? Are they just collateral damage? Is it not bad enough that they're imprisoned for crimes they didn't commit without having them murdered as well?

NonComm · 08/03/2026 21:34

BySnappyUmberFish · 06/03/2026 16:21

I also feel for his and Watkins mothers, they have to live with this every day.

Yes - it must be soul destroying.

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 08/03/2026 21:31

Alpacajigsaw · 08/03/2026 10:27

So? Tough shit. Thankfully people like you don’t make policy in this country.

I don’t understand why Huntley didn’t have a whole life tariff. He shouldn’t have had the slightest chance of some do gooding parole board letting him out

Crikeyalmighty · 08/03/2026 12:20

Alpacajigsaw · 08/03/2026 10:25

We really don’t need a referendum on the death penalty. The British public are too stupid for that. See also - Brexit.

Totally agree - people would vote for it , then pretend they didn’t if you got another Christie’s/Rillington place miscarriage of justice or a relative was at risk of it -

Bellaunion · 08/03/2026 11:16

Alpacajigsaw · 08/03/2026 10:29

I was reading an article earlier about the murder and disembowelling of a prisoner in Frankland. The prison officers who walked in on the scene were diagnosed with PTSD. But being concerned about this is “performative”.

Or "handwringing whataboutery" as I was accused of in another thread.

Alpacajigsaw · 08/03/2026 10:29

I was reading an article earlier about the murder and disembowelling of a prisoner in Frankland. The prison officers who walked in on the scene were diagnosed with PTSD. But being concerned about this is “performative”.

Alpacajigsaw · 08/03/2026 10:27

FlyingApple · 07/03/2026 20:31

Well people like me think that it's not a good enough punishment for the crime.

So? Tough shit. Thankfully people like you don’t make policy in this country.

Alpacajigsaw · 08/03/2026 10:25

OonaStubbs · 07/03/2026 20:37

We really need to have a referendum on the death penalty. Either that or bring back life sentences that actually mean life behind bars.

We really don’t need a referendum on the death penalty. The British public are too stupid for that. See also - Brexit.

OonaStubbs · 07/03/2026 20:37

We really need to have a referendum on the death penalty. Either that or bring back life sentences that actually mean life behind bars.

FlyingApple · 07/03/2026 20:31

Alpacajigsaw · 07/03/2026 08:17

He was sentenced to life imprisonment with a minimum term of 40 years. No guarantee he’d have got out even then. We don’t have the death penalty. What else do people expect?

people don’t really think that at all. I don’t care about Ian Huntley. He’s where he needed to be for his repugnant crimes and besides that I’ve barely given him a moments thought since he’s been convicted. He’s unimportant.

It’s all just some weird performative nonsense people are engaging in as if wishing worse and worse stuff on him somehow makes them more outraged by what he did than anyone else. It’s very strange behaviour.

Well people like me think that it's not a good enough punishment for the crime.

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 07/03/2026 16:54

igelkott2026 · 07/03/2026 11:45

I can't get upset about one toerag despatching another toerag.

But as I said on the other thread, I do really feel for the prison staff. And they aren't all big hefty prison warders. Every prison has a library (which I completely support) and most library staff are women. I think they are very brave.

Also wasn't it that prison where that toerag who murdered the girls in Southport attacked a prison warder?

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Toerag?

Murderer
Villain
Convict
Psychopath

You can use words that appropriately describes these men. I'm not going down the "monster" "animal" or "scum" route because that is not helpful.

But toerag ?

Naunet · 07/03/2026 15:53

LizzieW1969 · 07/03/2026 11:29

Obviously not, that isn’t what I’m saying! But with a culture of prisoners taking out other prisoners, people wrongly killed of child killers will potentially be targets too. And there would be similar gloating online about it.

However evil Huntley is (and he is the lowest of the low, I have no empathy for him!!), this sort of thing shouldn’t happen in prisons.

It also puts staff members at risk. That teacher could have been attacked with that iron bar.

Its not a 'culture' of prisoners taking out prisoners, its just murderers being murderers.

Frankly it shouldn't happen in society at all, but these are the exact people that make it happen, that take innocent people's lives and make the world unsafe. They're not going to suddenly change just because they're in prison.