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To ask for facts. Having a miscarriage - give me fun facts and a handhold please

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Chez2306 · 06/03/2026 12:09

I'm about an hour and a half in to an induced miscarriage of baby, who had no heartbeat on scan, wasn't allowed surgical. I'm already in AGONY and very emotional so please no negative comments.

Please give me some interesting facts to help take my mind off of things. I love learning new things and it'll keep me sane.

I'll go first - did you know that originally Lara Croft was going to be called Laura and be American?

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FrenchBunionSoup · 06/03/2026 18:38

Hope you're OK OP.

Richard Gere's middle name is Tiffany.

Jopo12 · 06/03/2026 18:22

Chez2306 · 06/03/2026 17:43

I am loving these facts! Please keep them coming💓.

I'm bleeding so heavily. Soaked through 9 pads and wondering if that's normal? They said heavy period but I've soaked through 3 nightgowns and onto my sofa and floor. This is so awful.

that sounds too heavy - if they are heavy flow pads, get yourself to a GP or phone 111 for an emergency appt.

You don't want to sit on a hard chair in A&E for 14 hours on a friday night while going through this

Enko · 06/03/2026 18:20

I learned this morning that until 1840 Bristol had its own timezone

OverlyFragrant · 06/03/2026 18:20

Chez2306 · 06/03/2026 17:43

I am loving these facts! Please keep them coming💓.

I'm bleeding so heavily. Soaked through 9 pads and wondering if that's normal? They said heavy period but I've soaked through 3 nightgowns and onto my sofa and floor. This is so awful.

No its not normal.

Please go and get yourself seen.

BengalBangle · 06/03/2026 18:15

Curiositykillsth · 06/03/2026 13:14

Here for a handhold and to say I fell pregnant with twins 6 months after my miscarriage. Positive spin, I wouldn't have these amazing humans if I hadn't miscarried.
Try and look into the future x

Not at ALL helpful when someone is current miscarrying...

muddyboots · 06/03/2026 18:11

I've been there too. In fact, my username originates from leaving marks on the paper covering the scanning couch 19 years ago.

I found out yesterday that bindweed grows/climbs anti-clockwise.

7catsisnotenough · 06/03/2026 17:54

I'm sorry for your loss @Chez2306, I lost my first pregnancy many years ago and still think of the baby that might have been sometimes.
Fun fact (weird fact actually!) babies are born with full sized eyeballs which gives them the appealing "wide eyes" look that makes us go gaga 😉

AnneLovesGilbert · 06/03/2026 17:48

I’d get to the EPU or at least call them based on your update. I’m so sorry, I’ve also been there and it’s fucking nightmareish and bleeding so scary.

My fact is that everyone gets asparagus wee but only some people can smell it.

But I’m now worrying about you and you really need proper advice. Can I ask how far along you are? The longer the more that has to pass and it can get stuck and cause mad bleeding and pain. Please call someone.

Chez2306 · 06/03/2026 17:43

I am loving these facts! Please keep them coming💓.

I'm bleeding so heavily. Soaked through 9 pads and wondering if that's normal? They said heavy period but I've soaked through 3 nightgowns and onto my sofa and floor. This is so awful.

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JengaCupboard · 06/03/2026 16:38

The Michelin Guide was invented as a marketing tool to sell tyres.

1930's (I think) France - Michelin Tyres see low sales as most people only use cars for very short trips (to the theatre etc, and ownership is low/by the very wealthy).

They created the Michelin Guide to encourage people to do more mileage, and subsequently need new tyres.

1 star = a restaurant worth a stop on your planned route.
2 stars = a restaurant worth a detour
3 stars = a restaurant worthy of a dedicated trip

Or something like that..

This too shall pass.

Tigeresslearns · 06/03/2026 16:32

Much love to you OP.

A group of flamingos is called a Flamboyance

TheWalkingEyebag · 06/03/2026 16:06

Movie fact! The real life age difference between Regina George (Rachel McAdams) and her mum (Amy Poehler) is only 7 years. Actors ages always blow my mind.

💐💐💐

DysmalRadius · 06/03/2026 16:06

'Come On Eileen' speeds up at the end because they were running out of tape and wanted to fit the whole song in!

stickydough · 06/03/2026 15:59

The barnacle has the largest penis to body size ratio.

ThreeTescoBags · 06/03/2026 15:51

The view from window of Monica and Chandler's new house when they move at the end of Friends, is the same view as from the window of the McCallister's house in Home Alone. They just grabbed some stock footage they had lying about when they cut the final episodes of Friends, which happened to have been filmed originally for Home Alone.

Wedontdothatroundhere · 06/03/2026 15:49

What is Microchimerism?
During pregnancy, foetal cells cross the placenta and enter the mother’s/pregnant person’s body, where they can remain for decades – sometimes forever. Similarly, maternal cells can enter the foetus, creating a permanent biological connection between a mother and her lost baby.These cells can settle in various places – including the brain, and aptly – the heart.

As Myleene points out, microchimerism offers a quietly powerful reminder that the connection between mother/birthing parent and child can live on at the cellular level. Through microchimerism, science affirms what many of us already feel: that our lost babies, however briefly with us, remain part of us. They leave a biological imprint – not simply a memory – but a presence, which can be lifelong.

While this knowledge doesn’t erase the grief, it offers a new way to understand the depth of the connection between parent and child. It provides scientific validation that your baby’s existence was real. That they made their mark, and part of them is still with you.

A comforting fact from the Miscarriage Association that helped me. 💐

Kiramman · 06/03/2026 15:45

Cities that end in -chester or -cester are built on Roman fortified camps or towns 🙂

Lavalampbubble · 06/03/2026 15:44

The ink used in seppia pictures comes from the cuttlefish. Seppia is the Italian word for cuttlefish

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 06/03/2026 15:42

Erm ahem um…
Darn it. Can’t think of a single solitary interesting fact. Less unfamiliar fact- menopausal women with fibromyalgia have issues accessing their own brain contents.

penguin23 · 06/03/2026 15:37

Our bodies aren't aware of our eyes, and if they were the body's immune system would attack them! 😲

OverlyFragrant · 06/03/2026 15:12

ButItFeelsLikeYoureFlirtingWithMe · 06/03/2026 13:06

When Alexander Graham Bell invented the telephone, he had hoped people would answer it by saying ‘ahoy hoy’, instead of ‘hello’

The joke in The Simpson's about Mr Burns being so old that he answers the phone with "ahoy hoy"

randomchap · 06/03/2026 15:11

Bloatstoat · 06/03/2026 14:58

Flowers from someone else who's been there.

There are large feral groups of wild peacocks in New Zealand, descended from ones brought over as status symbol pets.

On a similar note, there were wild wallabies in the peak district that had escaped from a zoo

OneBlueFinch · 06/03/2026 15:09

Dogs use up more energy sniffing than running. Apparently ! 🤔😀

SagittariusUprising · 06/03/2026 15:07

Apparently the paste inside Kit Kats is made of squished-up broken Kit Kats that can’t be sold

ThreeTescoBags · 06/03/2026 15:01

In some years, boxing day occurs before Christmas day (well, sort of).

If a bank holiday would otherwise occur on a non-working day it gets moved to the next available working day. Therefore, when 25th December falls on a Sunday, the Christmas day bank holiday gets moved to Tuesday 27th because Monday 26th is already a non-working day due to being the boxing day bank holiday. Therefore in years when 25th December falls on a Sunday, boxing day (techincally) occurs before Christmas day.

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