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To think it is inappropriate for a teach to have big fake boobs?

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OonaStubbs · 05/03/2026 18:16

I picked my niece up from school today and saw her with my own eyes, my sister and her husband have spoken about her in the past. IABU to think this is appropriate in a school with impressionable young children?

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Bigcat25 · 13/03/2026 16:15

OonaStubbs · 13/03/2026 16:02

Clearly it is a concern of mine otherwise I wouldn't have started this thread. However it is not a major concern, I just thought it was unusual, that's all.

You have no right to have it be a concern of yours. It isn't your business.

Yens · 13/03/2026 16:09

If they are fake then yes. If they are real, then surely the top should be modest and cover them up.

OonaStubbs · 13/03/2026 16:02

Clearly it is a concern of mine otherwise I wouldn't have started this thread. However it is not a major concern, I just thought it was unusual, that's all.

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TheLovelinessOfDemons · 13/03/2026 15:59

OonaStubbs · 13/03/2026 15:54

Not a joke. And I think at least some of you would change your mind if you could see the teacher in question.

No, we wouldn't, because we don't suffer from internalised misogyny. The size of someone else's boobs is no concern of yours.

OonaStubbs · 13/03/2026 15:54

Not a joke. And I think at least some of you would change your mind if you could see the teacher in question.

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Loub1987 · 13/03/2026 15:01

The longer this goes on, I assume theOP s joking. It’s too ridiculous.

Missj25 · 13/03/2026 07:21

Purpleturtle45 · 12/03/2026 20:56

This post just cannot be real. There is no way that anyone could be so weird, talking about a teacher's body like this. It's too bizarre!

I think the exact same thing , it’s bullshit , someone looking for a rise

SleeplessInWherever · 12/03/2026 21:00

I have large mammaries (real 💁🏻‍♀️) and taught primary, secondary and specialist.

I can confirm being asked my bra size was not part of the selection process.

Like in most professions, you’re just simply meant to keep your boobs concealed whilst in the classroom. “Up it, down it, or through it”!

Purpleturtle45 · 12/03/2026 20:56

This post just cannot be real. There is no way that anyone could be so weird, talking about a teacher's body like this. It's too bizarre!

ActoBelle · 12/03/2026 12:19

It all sounds like a load of jealousy from women who want bigger boobs themselves or are worried their partners might be impressed by her rack.

what other plastic surgery do teachers have to run past parents? Face lift, tummy tuck, lipo, lip fillers?

RecyclingQueen57 · 12/03/2026 12:15

OonaStubbs · 12/03/2026 08:57

I have never worked in a school.

It shows.

Bigcat25 · 12/03/2026 12:01

I can't believe parents are talking about her breasts to each other . That is very inappropriate, but I'm not in the UK. Frankly most of the parents don't talk at all at the exit, and are waiting for different grades and classes.

JustSawJohnny · 12/03/2026 12:01

....when she strode out of the school without so much as a by your leave with her new boobs.

Maybe this summer she'll have a BBL and announce her spectacular new arse with a fanfare and an invitations to all to the grand unveiling!

Submarinara · 12/03/2026 11:54

ActoBelle · 12/03/2026 11:50

Obviously. 😂. All parents should have had an email with her begging for permission. With photos of the pre surgery small boobs, a reason for wanting to go bigger, voting options for how big she was allowed to go and a grovelling apology for any harm caused. 😂😂😂.

Only if the majority agreed to it should she have been allowed the surgery Or news flash, parents have no right to an opinion about something which doesn’t affect their kid. Certainly not about someone else’s body.

please sir may I have some more (tits)?

ActoBelle · 12/03/2026 11:50

Submarinara · 12/03/2026 11:26

Without so much as a by your leave?

what was she supposed to do? Ask their permission to have boobs?

Obviously. 😂. All parents should have had an email with her begging for permission. With photos of the pre surgery small boobs, a reason for wanting to go bigger, voting options for how big she was allowed to go and a grovelling apology for any harm caused. 😂😂😂.

Only if the majority agreed to it should she have been allowed the surgery Or news flash, parents have no right to an opinion about something which doesn’t affect their kid. Certainly not about someone else’s body.

HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 12/03/2026 11:32

OonaStubbs · 12/03/2026 10:54

The furore amongst the parents has died down by now as it was last summer when she had them done. Last week was just the first time I had seen her myself.

But I remember my sister going on about it last year, all the mums were shocked into silence and didn't know where to look when she strode out of the school without so much as a by your leave with her new boobs.

It's not a massive deal, I was just surprised, that's all. No of course she does not deserve to lose her job over it.

Your sister and the rest of the mums need to stop behaving like teenagers.

I suspect it wasn’t quite the big deal you’re making it out to be.

Submarinara · 12/03/2026 11:26

OonaStubbs · 12/03/2026 10:54

The furore amongst the parents has died down by now as it was last summer when she had them done. Last week was just the first time I had seen her myself.

But I remember my sister going on about it last year, all the mums were shocked into silence and didn't know where to look when she strode out of the school without so much as a by your leave with her new boobs.

It's not a massive deal, I was just surprised, that's all. No of course she does not deserve to lose her job over it.

Without so much as a by your leave?

what was she supposed to do? Ask their permission to have boobs?

throwawayimplantchat · 12/03/2026 11:24

OonaStubbs · 12/03/2026 10:54

The furore amongst the parents has died down by now as it was last summer when she had them done. Last week was just the first time I had seen her myself.

But I remember my sister going on about it last year, all the mums were shocked into silence and didn't know where to look when she strode out of the school without so much as a by your leave with her new boobs.

It's not a massive deal, I was just surprised, that's all. No of course she does not deserve to lose her job over it.

Adults didn’t know where to look? Not at the poor woman’s tits would be a start. If they can’t control themselves enough to not look at a woman’s boobs in front of their kids then they’re the ones who are setting a bad example, aren’t they?

ActoBelle · 12/03/2026 11:21

OonaStubbs · 12/03/2026 10:54

The furore amongst the parents has died down by now as it was last summer when she had them done. Last week was just the first time I had seen her myself.

But I remember my sister going on about it last year, all the mums were shocked into silence and didn't know where to look when she strode out of the school without so much as a by your leave with her new boobs.

It's not a massive deal, I was just surprised, that's all. No of course she does not deserve to lose her job over it.

Give you a clue where to look…and it’s not gawping at another woman’s tits. Looking at her face would be more normal behaviour

NormasArse · 12/03/2026 11:02

BruceAndNosh · 05/03/2026 21:00

Is the teacher male?

😂

TheLovelinessOfDemons · 12/03/2026 11:01

OonaStubbs · 12/03/2026 10:54

The furore amongst the parents has died down by now as it was last summer when she had them done. Last week was just the first time I had seen her myself.

But I remember my sister going on about it last year, all the mums were shocked into silence and didn't know where to look when she strode out of the school without so much as a by your leave with her new boobs.

It's not a massive deal, I was just surprised, that's all. No of course she does not deserve to lose her job over it.

Why was anyone looking at her boobs anyway? And, as many have said, boobs change size and shape with pregnancy, breastfeeding, gaining or losing weight. You don't know that she's had a boob job, and, even if she has, it doesn't affect her teaching. Coming to work in a bikini, maybe.

OonaStubbs · 12/03/2026 10:54

The furore amongst the parents has died down by now as it was last summer when she had them done. Last week was just the first time I had seen her myself.

But I remember my sister going on about it last year, all the mums were shocked into silence and didn't know where to look when she strode out of the school without so much as a by your leave with her new boobs.

It's not a massive deal, I was just surprised, that's all. No of course she does not deserve to lose her job over it.

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JustSawJohnny · 12/03/2026 10:42

OonaStubbs · 12/03/2026 00:40

But surely what the parents think is more important than what other teachers think?

To who?

Man, I would LOVE for you to take this to governors. I'm sure pretty much all have seen a lot of feckery from parents but this takes the biscuit.

Oh to be a fly on the wall when the penny drops that you're literally complaining that another woman has tits 😆

WalkDontWalk · 12/03/2026 09:38

OonaStubbs · 10/03/2026 11:38

I have the right to an opinion. We all do.

But you don't have the right to be respected for it.

ScarlettSarah · 12/03/2026 09:15

Honestly, you all sound pathetic. Do you have nothing else to do than perv on the teacher and gossip about her?? Please explain exactly how having a boob job is setting a bad example to children.

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