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To think it is inappropriate for a teach to have big fake boobs?

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OonaStubbs · 05/03/2026 18:16

I picked my niece up from school today and saw her with my own eyes, my sister and her husband have spoken about her in the past. IABU to think this is appropriate in a school with impressionable young children?

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PinkIcedRing · 30/03/2026 10:52

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eggsandsourdough · 30/03/2026 10:09

OP.

I had a 32K bust, they looked fake, people ouright asked me several times if they were fake and why did i get them that big.
I had this tiny waist and these massive full boobs that were perky!!

It was the bain of my life, people would stare, comment out loud. Men and woman.
I had young boys shout out at me, men ( specifially on holiday) would try and grab them.

Honestly it was awful!

5 years ago i got a breast reduction and it was the best thing ive ever done.

Your thread is abhorrent.

SleeplessInWherever · 30/03/2026 09:49

Farawaytreemagic · 30/03/2026 08:24

I can sympathise. No one wants to see a page 3 girl teaching their children do they @OonaStubbs
I’m assuming the teacher is wearing very revealing clothes?

I just like my son’s teachers to be capable, I’m not really bothered what their bra size is.

LadyOfLymeHouse · 30/03/2026 08:44

OonaStubbs · 30/03/2026 00:27

Because teachers are supposed to be above all that.

Wtf?

So should teachers not wear makeup? Or have nice clothes? Have their hair done?

Maybe they shouldn't be allowed to go to bars and nightclubs either.

Farawaytreemagic · 30/03/2026 08:24

I can sympathise. No one wants to see a page 3 girl teaching their children do they @OonaStubbs
I’m assuming the teacher is wearing very revealing clothes?

Amiacoolorwarmcolour · 30/03/2026 08:11

I think your brother needs to stop looking at other women.
Look at the shit parents which surround you op. That should be of more concern than how big a teachers breasts are and what the teacher looks like.
I hope your brother and SIL are perfect in every single way. I hope they always turn up to school in a suit and never, ever do anything unnatural to enhance their appearance.
Christ. All I cared about was how the teachers treated my DCs and that they were educating them, and making my DCs learn whilst at school.
I could not give one shit how big their breasts were or whether they dyed their hair etc.

AgnesMcDoo · 30/03/2026 08:07

OonaStubbs · 30/03/2026 00:27

Because teachers are supposed to be above all that.

Above all what?

Agix · 30/03/2026 08:05

So women with naturally big breasts can't be teachers then either, I suppose?

Or is it just if they get surgery and actually nothing to do with breast size at all?

Is it any surgery or just cosmetic?

Nose job? Is that an issue?

Auroraloves · 30/03/2026 08:02

FarmGirl78 · 30/03/2026 07:52

How on earth do you know she's done it to make herself more attractive to men?

Go on. We're waiting.

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Mrs jealous won’t answer. Disappears for a few weeks then comes back repeating the same old shit. Has been proven to be very unreasonable by the poll and comments and moans when the thread gets restarted again because people don’t agree with her.

oh well

FarmGirl78 · 30/03/2026 07:52

OonaStubbs · 30/03/2026 00:13

That having plastic surgery to make yourself more attractive to men is acceptable?

How on earth do you know she's done it to make herself more attractive to men?

Go on. We're waiting.

Auroraloves · 30/03/2026 07:49

Catladywithacat · 30/03/2026 06:07

This stems from jealously because she’s attractive

Absolutely

Catladywithacat · 30/03/2026 06:07

This stems from jealously because she’s attractive

Auroraloves · 30/03/2026 00:48

OonaStubbs · 30/03/2026 00:27

Because teachers are supposed to be above all that.

Above all what?

Even if she was doing it to be more attractive to either sex, what the fuck is wrong with that?

Are teachers not allowed to be attractive? Or to make changes to make themselves feel better?

If not, why not?

ImImmortalNowBabyDoll · 30/03/2026 00:39

OonaStubbs · 30/03/2026 00:13

That having plastic surgery to make yourself more attractive to men is acceptable?

Well, do you object to all the other things people do to make themselves more attractive - to men or anyone else?

HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 30/03/2026 00:33

OonaStubbs · 30/03/2026 00:27

Because teachers are supposed to be above all that.

Are they?
Why?

Sex isn’t bad you know. Being and wanting to be sexually attractive isn’t bad either.

How you feel about male teachers looking sexually attractive?

Original poster
OonaStubbs · 30/03/2026 00:27

Because teachers are supposed to be above all that.

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HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 30/03/2026 00:20

OonaStubbs · 30/03/2026 00:13

That having plastic surgery to make yourself more attractive to men is acceptable?

How do you know she’s doing it for men?

And even if she was doing it to make herself more sexually attractive ( to either sex) why does that make her a bad role model or a poor teacher?

Original poster
OonaStubbs · 30/03/2026 00:13

That having plastic surgery to make yourself more attractive to men is acceptable?

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HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 30/03/2026 00:11

OonaStubbs · 30/03/2026 00:03

I have stated several times that I think it sets a bad example when someone who is supposed to be a role model for young children feels the need to have big fake boobs.

But you haven’t explained why. Why does it set a bad example?

ImImmortalNowBabyDoll · 30/03/2026 00:09

OonaStubbs · 30/03/2026 00:03

I have stated several times that I think it sets a bad example when someone who is supposed to be a role model for young children feels the need to have big fake boobs.

What example? Do you object to teachers wearing make-up or nice clothes, or having their hair cut and coloured or their nails painted? These are all things that people do because they like how it makes them look and feel. There is nothing wrong with wanting to look and feel confident about yourself and for her that obviously means big boobs.

Original poster
OonaStubbs · 30/03/2026 00:03

I have stated several times that I think it sets a bad example when someone who is supposed to be a role model for young children feels the need to have big fake boobs.

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HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 29/03/2026 23:39

OonaStubbs · 29/03/2026 23:14

I am entitled to my opinion, the same as everyone else is.

It’s a shame you’re unable to support your opinion with anything other than ‘I’m entitled to my opinion’.

Not once have you been able to state why this is a problem.

Yens · 29/03/2026 23:17

mrsCtheRed · 29/03/2026 22:16

Unless the teacher is walking around topless, you're being absolutely ridiculous and quite frankly you need to get a life.

My previous comments were wrong. I think you are correct and I retract my previous objections.

Original poster
OonaStubbs · 29/03/2026 23:14

I am entitled to my opinion, the same as everyone else is.

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TheLovelinessOfDemons · 29/03/2026 22:50

OonaStubbs · 29/03/2026 22:44

Why do people keep resurrecting this thread?

You have all made your feelings on the matter quite clear.

I haven't see the teacher in question in several weeks anyway.

Because you don't get to say when it's closed. And because, even though the majority are quite clearly saying YABU, you keep coming back to say that you're not.

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