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To think it is inappropriate for a teach to have big fake boobs?

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OonaStubbs · 05/03/2026 18:16

I picked my niece up from school today and saw her with my own eyes, my sister and her husband have spoken about her in the past. IABU to think this is appropriate in a school with impressionable young children?

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LadyOfLymeHouse · 01/04/2026 12:38

This has reminded me of a piss-take I once read about male authors writing about women -

'She boobed boobily down the stairs'

Seems appropriate for this thread somehow!

BiscoffCheesecakes · 01/04/2026 12:37

aneelli · 01/04/2026 01:19

I think teachers should be dressed appropriately. One of the reception teacher had those leggings where your butt crack is visible, it was during an activity where parents were present, she was constantly in our view moving around in the stage, so everyone would’ve noticed, found it odd to be dressed like that in the presence of young kids and parents

That's a new one on me. It was actually visible?

Bigcat25 · 01/04/2026 12:23

HP200 · 01/04/2026 12:19

Does her breast size impact her teaching? if the answer is no you should mind your own business

Don't forget the shape, that also changed too, even though op has only seen this person once.

HP200 · 01/04/2026 12:19

Does her breast size impact her teaching? if the answer is no you should mind your own business

PinkIcedRing · 01/04/2026 12:18

Love how my previous comment was deleted but this misogynistic pile of crap thread is allowed to stand. Gross. Do better, MNHQ.

Yens · 01/04/2026 11:59

Honestly my previous remarks were stupid. It's her body and nothing to do with anyone else.. dress professionally and that's it

SugarPuffSandwiches · 01/04/2026 11:54

HotRootsAndNaughtyToots · 01/04/2026 05:39

Should their be a minimum moral standard for teachers
Helping to "resurrect" this thread that the op believes has run its course to point out that having large breasts, whether due to impants or not is not a moral failing.

she strode out of the school without so much as a by your leave with her new boobs.

Her body is not for public judgement and no one's business but her own.

Also laughing at the "strode out of the school" bit.
How people always over exaggerate for effect, and to paint a picture they want to convey.
What's the betting she actually walked normally out of school? No "striding", or "parading", or "strutting" 😁

HotRootsAndNaughtyToots · 01/04/2026 05:39

Should their be a minimum moral standard for teachers
Helping to "resurrect" this thread that the op believes has run its course to point out that having large breasts, whether due to impants or not is not a moral failing.

she strode out of the school without so much as a by your leave with her new boobs.

Her body is not for public judgement and no one's business but her own.

NotMeAtAll · 01/04/2026 05:03

Teachers should be teaching young children that looks don't matter, it is what is inside what counts.

Which means the size of her chest is irrelevant.

aneelli · 01/04/2026 01:19

I think teachers should be dressed appropriately. One of the reception teacher had those leggings where your butt crack is visible, it was during an activity where parents were present, she was constantly in our view moving around in the stage, so everyone would’ve noticed, found it odd to be dressed like that in the presence of young kids and parents

HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 01/04/2026 01:13

OonaStubbs · 31/03/2026 19:39

I am not "fixated on her bust" I just think that having big fake boobs is inappropriate in an educational environment. Teachers should be teaching young children that looks don't matter, it is what is inside what counts.

Teaching used to be a vocation. I cannot imagine much of a crossover between a woman who aspires to educate and inspire young minds, and a woman who aspires to have massive boobs.

You obviously missed the lesson on ‘it’s what’s inside that counts’. Your comments are incredibly judgmental.

Teaching is a vocation and breast size doesn’t come into it at all. I work at a university training teachers and we look at personal qualities and knowledge not physical appearance.

If it’s genuinely about appearance (which it obviously isn’t) then why are you only bothered about fake breasts?
What about all the other ways in which a woman can make herself sexually attractive? Why aren’t you imposing your moral judgement on any of those?

Joanderic · 01/04/2026 00:53

May I just mention Proverbs 26 verse 11

JustSawJohnny · 01/04/2026 00:44

Teachers should be teaching young children that looks don't matter, it is what is inside what counts.

Shame you missed out on that lesson, Judgey McJudgerson!

Ladyzfactor · 31/03/2026 23:47

maxslice · 31/03/2026 20:19

If the OP believes that teachers should be teaching students that “looks don’t matter” doesn’t that invalidate her insistence that big boobs DO matter? One could effectively argue that this particular teacher is demonstrating that her looks DONT matter. Except, apparently to the OP who must have been out sick the day that “looks don’t matter” was taught while she was in school.

Not to toot my own horn loudly but I'm physically attractive with a large natural bust. I've been horribly bullied by women as an adult at work to the point of having to get HR involved. Apparently I'm supposed to shine less bright for others. There's nothing wrong with wanting to look good and feel confident. A lot of the body positivity people are just adult mean girls who didn't get to bully when they were kids.

IHopeYouStepOnALegPiece · 31/03/2026 20:52

OonaStubbs · 31/03/2026 19:39

I am not "fixated on her bust" I just think that having big fake boobs is inappropriate in an educational environment. Teachers should be teaching young children that looks don't matter, it is what is inside what counts.

Teaching used to be a vocation. I cannot imagine much of a crossover between a woman who aspires to educate and inspire young minds, and a woman who aspires to have massive boobs.

You're a disgrace frankly.

I would much rather my kids had teachers who aspired to educate and inspire young minds who also anted to embrace boob jobs and anything else they would like to do to feel good about themselves then someone who talks about women in the way you do.

Teachers should be teaching young children that looks don't matter, it is what is inside what counts.

No, teachers should be teaching children school subjects but they can also teach children that you can do absolutely nothing with your appearance, you don't need to shave, cut your hair, colour your hair, you can wear what you want and you can get fake boobs, botox, shave, colour your hair because what matters is you are authentically you and feel comfortable in your own body and if that's bigger boobs then great, if that's never shaving your legs, also great. What's on the inside is what matters but in order to feel confident, feel good about yourself, feel authentic then you do what makes YOU feel good. Not what some random narrow minded pillock thinks

LadyOfLymeHouse · 31/03/2026 20:43

@OonaStubbs could you provide us with a list of professions who you deem to be allowed to have large breasts?

I'm intrigued.

Conkersinautumn · 31/03/2026 20:35

It DOESNT matter what the outside is. You're so close to getting that, then you fall down a canyon of attempting to dictate what the outside needs to look like for your 'aesthetic'. Enjoy the jollies this is getting you.

Yens · 31/03/2026 20:31

The posts here have made me change my mind for agreeing with OP at the start. I admit I was wrong!

LydiaFunnyGums · 31/03/2026 20:29

mrsCtheRed · 31/03/2026 20:01

You absolutely are fixated on her bust, and quite frankly you're a pathetic, sad excuse for a woman.
How fucking dare you judge this woman, who has done nothing to draw your scorn, other than choose to look a certain way.

How do you know she hasn't had reconstructive surgery after breast cancer?
Or had her breasts removed and implants put in due to a BRCA gene?

You are a disgrace and mysogynist and your attitude absolutely sickens me.

This 💯!

LydiaFunnyGums · 31/03/2026 20:28

Oh OP have a word with yourself! Lots of ladies (from various backgrounds and profession’s) have fake boobs and it really has fuck all to do with you. It’s their choice, their bodies.

maxslice · 31/03/2026 20:22

OP, do you have children of your own? No judgement, just curious.

maxslice · 31/03/2026 20:19

If the OP believes that teachers should be teaching students that “looks don’t matter” doesn’t that invalidate her insistence that big boobs DO matter? One could effectively argue that this particular teacher is demonstrating that her looks DONT matter. Except, apparently to the OP who must have been out sick the day that “looks don’t matter” was taught while she was in school.

mrsCtheRed · 31/03/2026 20:01

OonaStubbs · 31/03/2026 19:39

I am not "fixated on her bust" I just think that having big fake boobs is inappropriate in an educational environment. Teachers should be teaching young children that looks don't matter, it is what is inside what counts.

Teaching used to be a vocation. I cannot imagine much of a crossover between a woman who aspires to educate and inspire young minds, and a woman who aspires to have massive boobs.

You absolutely are fixated on her bust, and quite frankly you're a pathetic, sad excuse for a woman.
How fucking dare you judge this woman, who has done nothing to draw your scorn, other than choose to look a certain way.

How do you know she hasn't had reconstructive surgery after breast cancer?
Or had her breasts removed and implants put in due to a BRCA gene?

You are a disgrace and mysogynist and your attitude absolutely sickens me.

SleeplessInWherever · 31/03/2026 19:53

OonaStubbs · 31/03/2026 19:52

She does not teach my niece she teaches another class.

Primary then, if she’s fully class based with the same children.

I can’t imagine your average 11 year old knows what breast implants are.

OonaStubbs · 31/03/2026 19:52

Auroraloves · 31/03/2026 19:48

Is your niece unhappy with the teacher?

She does not teach my niece she teaches another class.

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