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To think it is inappropriate for a teach to have big fake boobs?

668 replies

OonaStubbs · 05/03/2026 18:16

I picked my niece up from school today and saw her with my own eyes, my sister and her husband have spoken about her in the past. IABU to think this is appropriate in a school with impressionable young children?

OP posts:
Oasl · 10/03/2026 09:46

Surely teachers should be teaching their pupils that women should be taken seriously as professional people and not just for their looks and their attractiveness to men?

you as a family member can teach that, as you have a bad example to point towards, you and your family judging someone on their looks. Teach your niece not to do that.

ImFinePMSL · 10/03/2026 09:45

OonaStubbs · 10/03/2026 09:36

Surely teachers should be teaching their pupils that women should be taken seriously as professional people and not just for their looks and their attractiveness to men?

The boobs are definitely not reconstruction surgery. I will be collecting my niece from school every Thursday for the foreseeable future so I will be no doubt seeing this teacher every week.

Please piss off with this misogynistic bullshit.

I’m cringing for you. This poor teacher, you sound utterly obsessed with her and her breasts.

BauhausOfEliott · 10/03/2026 09:40

OonaStubbs · 10/03/2026 09:36

Surely teachers should be teaching their pupils that women should be taken seriously as professional people and not just for their looks and their attractiveness to men?

The boobs are definitely not reconstruction surgery. I will be collecting my niece from school every Thursday for the foreseeable future so I will be no doubt seeing this teacher every week.

I will be collecting my niece from school every Thursday for the foreseeable future so I will be no doubt seeing this teacher every week.

So what?

OonaStubbs · 10/03/2026 09:36

Surely teachers should be teaching their pupils that women should be taken seriously as professional people and not just for their looks and their attractiveness to men?

The boobs are definitely not reconstruction surgery. I will be collecting my niece from school every Thursday for the foreseeable future so I will be no doubt seeing this teacher every week.

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WalkDontWalk · 10/03/2026 09:17

WalkDontWalk · 09/03/2026 08:53

Hang on. You think fake boobs are immoral?

What moral concept do they stray from?

@OonaStubbs

Seriously, how is this a moral issue?

MusicMakesItAllBetter · 09/03/2026 18:18

WalkDontWalk · 09/03/2026 08:53

Hang on. You think fake boobs are immoral?

What moral concept do they stray from?

This.

And how do you not know that it's not reconstruction surgery???
What then @OonaStubbs

MusicMakesItAllBetter · 09/03/2026 18:18

DameOfThrones · 05/03/2026 18:22

You should read her thoughts on WLI

"Shooting up drugs"

🤣🤣

Edited

WLI?

TheIceBear · 09/03/2026 08:55

Teachers are entitled to get a boob job if they want . The same as anyone else . It’s absolutely none of your business.

WalkDontWalk · 09/03/2026 08:53

OonaStubbs · 07/03/2026 11:11

I have only seen her once but apparently her boobs increased in size and shape a few months ago so so they are definitely fake.

The thread is about teachers in general, not this specific teacher. Should their be a minimum moral standard for teachers to follow or is what they do to their body and what they do outside of work their own business and none of everybody elses?

Hang on. You think fake boobs are immoral?

What moral concept do they stray from?

Boomer55 · 09/03/2026 08:20

My friend has an enormous bust - they might look fake, but they’re natural. 🤷‍♀️

HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 09/03/2026 08:17

OonaStubbs · 07/03/2026 11:11

I have only seen her once but apparently her boobs increased in size and shape a few months ago so so they are definitely fake.

The thread is about teachers in general, not this specific teacher. Should their be a minimum moral standard for teachers to follow or is what they do to their body and what they do outside of work their own business and none of everybody elses?

Why are breast enlargements immoral?

Bitsandbobs2 · 09/03/2026 07:41

OonaStubbs · 07/03/2026 11:26

I am not a teacher so it doesn't matter.

It does matter. If cashier at Asda has big boops, it can distract your child too....
You're being ridiculous, jealous and bi*chy. I would pay £100 to see schools response, ahahaaaaaaaaa. I'm pretty sure your husband has completely different opinion and will volunteer for school pick ups.

lizzyBennet08 · 08/03/2026 21:05

Why stop at teachers op? Medical staff deal with kids so absolutely their body choices should be policed as well, Dentists, after school workers , dinner ladies.. let's make a list,

MaIeficent · 08/03/2026 18:59

😆😆😆

sashadjas · 08/03/2026 18:29

I think you are unreasonable for being so transparently ridiculous. You have zero proof. Whether fake or not, your obsession with boob size is the problem. Not the boobs. Grow the feck up.

Joanderic · 08/03/2026 03:15

Minimum moral standards? Since when was breast size, natural or enhanced, a moral issue? The only moral issue I see here is the judgement by OonaStubbs.

Submarinara · 07/03/2026 18:55

How does having fake boobs equate to “loose morals”?

Laurmolonlabe · 07/03/2026 18:05

OonaStubbs · 07/03/2026 11:11

I have only seen her once but apparently her boobs increased in size and shape a few months ago so so they are definitely fake.

The thread is about teachers in general, not this specific teacher. Should their be a minimum moral standard for teachers to follow or is what they do to their body and what they do outside of work their own business and none of everybody elses?

It's a slippery slope calling the morals of teachers into question.
Having a breast enhancement does not equal loose morals, personally I would be more offended if the teacher had lots of tattoos- but this also doesn't signal loose morals.
As long as a teacher shows good morals to the kids they can spend all weekend at the Torture Garden as far as I am concerned. What are you afraid of?

TheHillIsMine · 07/03/2026 17:33

OonaStubbs · 07/03/2026 11:11

I have only seen her once but apparently her boobs increased in size and shape a few months ago so so they are definitely fake.

The thread is about teachers in general, not this specific teacher. Should their be a minimum moral standard for teachers to follow or is what they do to their body and what they do outside of work their own business and none of everybody elses?

Maybe do some spelling practice and stop thinking about another woman's breasts. As for your BIL talking about them...🙄

AgnesMcDoo · 07/03/2026 15:12

OonaStubbs · 07/03/2026 11:11

I have only seen her once but apparently her boobs increased in size and shape a few months ago so so they are definitely fake.

The thread is about teachers in general, not this specific teacher. Should their be a minimum moral standard for teachers to follow or is what they do to their body and what they do outside of work their own business and none of everybody elses?

What is the moral issue with breast size?

please do explain and explain how this affects her job.

SpainToday · 07/03/2026 14:36

OonaStubbs · 06/03/2026 22:23

I don't know why this thread is still going.

The teachers boobs are definitely fake, of that there is no doubt.

I do not think it is appropriate but clearly I am in the minority.

So even if they ARE fake, why should any sort of enhancement/modification be inappropriate for a teacher? Can they colour their hair, have Botox, teeth whitening etc?

GreenCaterpillarOnALeaf · 07/03/2026 12:49

My older brother had a teacher with huge boobs and I was going into her class a few years after, he told me how great she was and how much he loved her. She wasn’t actually a good teacher, but I think I know why he liked her so much…

Now I think about it, DDs teacher has huge boobs… but I’ve never really paid it much thought because I’m not weird.

user1497787065 · 07/03/2026 12:45

I have big boobs but didn’t realise they would limit my career choices

LaughingCat · 07/03/2026 12:39

OonaStubbs · 07/03/2026 11:26

I am not a teacher so it doesn't matter.

I’m interested in who you think should set a ‘minimum moral standard’? Whose job should it be to police our societal mores? If over 80% of people think you’re unreasonable, does that mean that your idea of moral turpitude is far stricter than that of the majority of the population? So…who then decides what is appropriate and morally upstanding?

1000StrawberryLollies · 07/03/2026 12:34

OonaStubbs · 07/03/2026 11:11

I have only seen her once but apparently her boobs increased in size and shape a few months ago so so they are definitely fake.

The thread is about teachers in general, not this specific teacher. Should their be a minimum moral standard for teachers to follow or is what they do to their body and what they do outside of work their own business and none of everybody elses?

There are codes. Teachers can be disciplined for bringing the profession or their school into disrepute. However, having big/fake boobs does not do that. Few kids will have noticed the change, and in future everyone will just know her the way she looks now. What discernible negative effect do you actually think this is going to have on anyone?

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