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To think it is inappropriate for a teach to have big fake boobs?

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OonaStubbs · 05/03/2026 18:16

I picked my niece up from school today and saw her with my own eyes, my sister and her husband have spoken about her in the past. IABU to think this is appropriate in a school with impressionable young children?

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Mistyglade · 10/03/2026 15:11

lol 😂

ToadRage · 10/03/2026 15:07

Does her bust size really affect her ability to teach, of not then wind you neck in.

Brightlittlecanary · 10/03/2026 15:06

OonaStubbs · 10/03/2026 09:36

Surely teachers should be teaching their pupils that women should be taken seriously as professional people and not just for their looks and their attractiveness to men?

The boobs are definitely not reconstruction surgery. I will be collecting my niece from school every Thursday for the foreseeable future so I will be no doubt seeing this teacher every week.

This does seem like a jealous snippy little comment op, you and your sister should be teaching your niece not to judge by appearance, maybe irs a lesson you both need to learn,

HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 10/03/2026 15:00

Onmytod24 · 10/03/2026 14:08

Looks like no one on this thread has ever been in a school staffroom

What do you mean? I'm in an out of school staff rooms all of the time.

Loub1987 · 10/03/2026 14:42

I’m clearly lax about my children’s morals, don’t note what the teachers look like at drop off and just speak to them about phonics and my child’s progression. I do not think about them outside of that and I am sure they think the same about me.

Outside of that, I don’t think breasts are offensive regardless of size to anyone (inc children).

Onmytod24 · 10/03/2026 14:08

Looks like no one on this thread has ever been in a school staffroom

BashfulClam · 10/03/2026 14:01

OonaStubbs · 10/03/2026 09:36

Surely teachers should be teaching their pupils that women should be taken seriously as professional people and not just for their looks and their attractiveness to men?

The boobs are definitely not reconstruction surgery. I will be collecting my niece from school every Thursday for the foreseeable future so I will be no doubt seeing this teacher every week.

I know three people who had boob jobs and in no way was it ‘attractiveness to men’ that featured highly. One was a lesbian in fact. One got them done because she hated how clothing looked without boobs and hated wearing a bikini on holiday. One got them done again just because they were quite flat and another after she had breastfed her children she wanted the fullness back. For everyone of them it was about them and how they felt and nothing to do with anyone else.

Missj25 · 10/03/2026 13:43

Submarinara · 10/03/2026 12:16

And what is the maximum allowable tit size that you deem appropriate

🤣 🤣

pollymere · 10/03/2026 13:43

Headline News: Teacher buys decent bras.

What a truly horrible individual you are OP. If you can't respect a professional doing their job perhaps the issue isn't theirs? 🤔

I shall now go and teach children complete with long blonde hair, 32G boobs and a decent butt. All my own. Luckily the students are more interested in my ability to teach.

nomas · 10/03/2026 13:39

OonaStubbs · 07/03/2026 11:11

I have only seen her once but apparently her boobs increased in size and shape a few months ago so so they are definitely fake.

The thread is about teachers in general, not this specific teacher. Should their be a minimum moral standard for teachers to follow or is what they do to their body and what they do outside of work their own business and none of everybody elses?

I have only seen her once but apparently her boobs increased in size and shape a few months ago so so they are definitely fake.

Apparently? So you don't actually know they increased in size, you're just listening to gossip and staring at her breasts?

Brightlittlecanary · 10/03/2026 13:37

Wow what a misogynistic thread, her breasts don’t impact her ability to teach, you and your in-laws need to give your heads a wobble,in terms of your judgement of women.

FlayOtters · 10/03/2026 13:35

OonaStubbs · 10/03/2026 11:38

I have the right to an opinion. We all do.

yeah you have a right to an opinion, you don't have the right for that opinion to not be ridiculed and torn down because it's fucking ridiculous. Hope that helps.
p.s. i have no doubt that my breast size makes me morally repugnant in your eyes, sadly your brain size does the same to me.

TheLovelinessOfDemons · 10/03/2026 13:34

OonaStubbs · 10/03/2026 12:13

Should there be any restrictions on a teachers (chosen) appearance? Tattoos, piercings etc? IMO there has to be least some standards that must be abided by.

If the tattoos don't depict anything inappropriate for children, then no. I work in food service in fast food and I'd expect similar standards to there, with the addition of allowing ear and facial piercings, because it's not going to fall in anyone's food.

WorstPaceScenario · 10/03/2026 13:29

You do, however exercising that right isn't always reasonable, which is what you asked. You can believe that all teachers should have breasts that meet your approval, but that belief can be judged as unreasonable

Forestgreenblue · 10/03/2026 13:13

Hahahahahahahahaha OMG really!! Behave!!

So teacher has breast augmentation for whatever her own personal and private reasons are and this is impacting on her ability to do her job how??!

I have a boob job - literally the BEST thing I ever did for myself. I’d lost a LOT of weight in my teens which left me with a lot of loose empty skin as breasts. I could fold them! Then I had 2 kids and they just got worse. I got them for me, my mental health and I can actually wear a low cut top now without saggy wrinkly empty breast skin falling out of the top. I have no regrets

I’m an F cup - is this too big by your standards?? I also go into care homes daily for work - is this also unsuitable for a larger breasted woman to do?

You say sister and her husband noticed her breasts shape and size changing - please please tell me that it was the husband who noticed this first???! 😂

HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 10/03/2026 13:09

OonaStubbs · 10/03/2026 12:13

Should there be any restrictions on a teachers (chosen) appearance? Tattoos, piercings etc? IMO there has to be least some standards that must be abided by.

A question you seem very keen to avoid is how do large breasts, tattoos or piercings etc impact on an individual’s ability to do their job?

I have pink hair at the moment. Does that mean I’m less able to do my job (which is training teachers!) than I was last week when it was just blonde?

oustedbymymate · 10/03/2026 13:07

imagine. In a career that is notorious for poor recruitment and retention being the best teacher in the day of interview and not being offered the role as your breasts are too big.

come off it!!

EmmaOvary · 10/03/2026 13:07

OP, it’s OK to be gay, you know. No judgement here.

ParmaVioletTea · 10/03/2026 13:04

OonaStubbs · 10/03/2026 12:13

Should there be any restrictions on a teachers (chosen) appearance? Tattoos, piercings etc? IMO there has to be least some standards that must be abided by.

Standards in grammar would be nice, too @OonaStubbs. That one passed you by, clearly.

JudgeJ · 10/03/2026 13:00

OonaStubbs · 10/03/2026 12:13

Should there be any restrictions on a teachers (chosen) appearance? Tattoos, piercings etc? IMO there has to be least some standards that must be abided by.

Only if the parents are also subject to your stupid ideas too! From collecting my grandchildren from school years ago I was suggest that the majority of teachers care more about their appearance than many parents.

JudgeJ · 10/03/2026 12:57

MumAsYouAre · 10/03/2026 10:55

How could we expect that teacher to actually teach with those big boobs in the way? Clutches pearls

Depends what she's teaching and if she has more enhancement, in which case they could create an excellent visual aid. For Maths topics such as rate of change, scale factor, if I increase my boobs by 5 cm, by how much do I increase my skin area covering them and how much does their volume increase. How has my centre of gravity changed would be useful in Physics as well.

BauhausOfEliott · 10/03/2026 12:49

OonaStubbs · 10/03/2026 11:38

I have the right to an opinion. We all do.

And we have the right to tell you it’s insane.

BauhausOfEliott · 10/03/2026 12:48

OonaStubbs · 10/03/2026 12:13

Should there be any restrictions on a teachers (chosen) appearance? Tattoos, piercings etc? IMO there has to be least some standards that must be abided by.

Why shouldn’t teachers have tattoos and piercings? Tattoos and piercings aren’t obscene or immoral or harmful.

JudgeJ · 10/03/2026 12:48

OonaStubbs · 05/03/2026 18:16

I picked my niece up from school today and saw her with my own eyes, my sister and her husband have spoken about her in the past. IABU to think this is appropriate in a school with impressionable young children?

If your batshit idea is that no teacher should ever have a boob job then surely it should also apply to the parents who, if they're good parents, have a greater influence on a child than its teacher! Why do arrogant people think they can dictate how teachers comport themselves, maybe direct your excess energy towards supporting the school rather than seeking out petty criticisms.

ImFinePMSL · 10/03/2026 12:43

OonaStubbs · 10/03/2026 11:38

I have the right to an opinion. We all do.

Yeah but to keep going on and on and on about the size of another woman’s breasts is just plain fucking weird.

Maybe you should try and get some hobbies so you can form some more opinions on more productive things that might actually be a nicer topic of conversation.