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Insane parking behaviour - intentionally blocked in

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sadkittymum · 04/03/2026 22:18

I was coming back to my car last night after a shift at work (I’m a vet). The branch I was at does not have a car park, so I was parked on the road next to the practice. I’ve been parking on this road for over a year with no issues, but it is busy as it is also next to a school. I parked my car in front of someone’s house, however no part of my car was over the dropped kerb, and I was in no way restricting access onto their drive. I was behind another car.

Upon my return, the owner of the house that I was in front of had moved their car so it was directly behind mine (the bumper was, and I am not at all exaggerating, 5cm from the back of my car). She had specifically moved her car (leaving her own drive clear of a car, and now parking her car to block her own drive), to do this. This left me completely blocked in as there was also a car in front of me.

Not knowing what to do, I went to knock on the door and I could see that the woman had gone upstairs and was not responding to me at the door. I even knocked on neighbours doors to try to get some help! After about 15 minutes of this, another member of the house arrived home in his car, so I approached him and said the car blocking me needed to be moved. It was also preventing him from getting on his own drive! The woman came out, and said nothing at all other than ‘I’m only moving this to allow him on the drive’.

I really really regret not saying anything but I just was so glad to get in my car and drive away from there. I’m only 25 and very non confrontational and this was a middle aged couple! Surely it cannot be legal to do this - what if I had had an emergency and I was stuck? I was parked on a public road not obstructing them!

Pretty sure I am not being unreasonable, but is this something that people do???

OP posts:
Summerbay23 · 04/03/2026 22:22

YANBU, it’s a shame you couldn’t have got someone to pick you up and leave your car there for a week.

tutugogo · 04/03/2026 22:22

The police would have towed the car if she refused to open the door, unfortunately that may have taken an hour or more to arrange . As hard as it is I would try to rotate where you park as parking for work is particularly annoying for residents

Trusttheawesomeness · 04/03/2026 22:21

Did the husband say anything? Next time, call the police and explain what has happened and that they’re ignoring you at the door etc.

CoyGoldenKoi · 04/03/2026 22:21

I would also call the police on them in this circumstance. It encourages them not to play silly buggers in future

StepAwayFromGoogling · 04/03/2026 22:20

YANBU. Some people are just dicks and think they own the (public) road outside their house.

PinkCatCushion · 04/03/2026 22:19

This would have upset me too OP.
Call the police next time.

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