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Family friends around for dinner Saturday night- can i do a roast?

164 replies

hmmmwhattoeat · 04/03/2026 21:55

I will start with the fact i love a good roast, and i know logically you can have one any time,BUT it seems odd to eat one on a Saturday night for some reason.

Apart from the fact i like a roast, another benefit it brings is that i can prepare most of it in advance so it still enables me to drop kids to and from their clubs and I know they will also eat it!! Win win

Would you think its a strange choice if you went around for an evening dinner and were served a roast dinner???

Unreasonable- you can not serve a roast for saturday night dinner
Reasonable- stop being silly thats perfectly fine

OP posts:
pilates · 06/03/2026 07:00

I love a roast and wouldn’t care if it was a Saturday night.

Empress13 · 06/03/2026 06:13

OP what have you decided to cook tomorrow night ?

CassandraCan · 06/03/2026 01:59

mumofoneAloneandwell · 04/03/2026 22:07

Ooh I'm in camp No - sorry girl, as much as I love a roast, its not Saturday night dinner appropriate! 🥰

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Monty27 · 05/03/2026 22:54

It's just too dull @hmmmwhattoeat
I wouldn't invite friends for a roast unless it was Sunday and I often do. But you do something like a curry or paella or chilli. A little less everyday food. It's Saturday after all. Have fun 🙂

AlexisP90 · 05/03/2026 22:38

Depends for me. If its a dinner party eith a lot of wine then no. I wouldnt want to eat a roast and booze. Would prefer something lighter

If its a dinner party with 1 glass at dinner and not a boozy one then for sure. Before we had a kid mine and DPs treat was a carvery on a Saturday night. Its quiet, no mad queue to get what scraps were left! Then home for a glass or two and a cosy night in with a film.

HelloPossible · 05/03/2026 22:21

How about roast chicken or 70s classic chicken supreme with spicy / cajun potatoes and some roasted veg. Although I will eat a proper roast dinner on any day of the week and do when there are leftovers.

fivepastmidnight · 05/03/2026 21:21

I love a roast dinner and would never turn one down. To be honest if somebody else was cooking it ,I'd probably eat it for breakfast

ChangeAgainAgainAgain · 05/03/2026 21:14

How about roast duck, dauphinois potatoes and french beans? Kind of like a roast, but with more of a dinner party vibe. Maybe followed by a nice sharp tarte au citron.

Bananainpyjamas1980 · 05/03/2026 20:47

Yes please.. what time shall I be there!!

Theyreeatingthedogs · 05/03/2026 15:06

hmmmwhattoeat · 04/03/2026 22:04

Ahh not so positive anymore 🤣.
I see others feel the link to Sunday is too strong too. :(

Whatever you do, do not make a Sunday roast on a Saturday. Strictly verboten. However, you could make a lovely Saturday roast.

Darkladyofthesonnets · 05/03/2026 13:50

I am not sure how many people have a roast on Sunday these days. I think originally prople had roasts on Sunday so they could have an easy cold meat meal on Monday. Monday was traditionally wash day for laundry and seemingly an exhausting all day affair before people had washing machines and hot water at the turn of a tap. I think you can have a roast any day you want unless you are boiling water in a kettle for washing and operating a mangle.

ManyATrueWord · 05/03/2026 12:57

Just because you roast meat doesn't mean you have to have roast vegetables as well.

TheBewleySisters · 05/03/2026 12:54

MrsClattenburg · 04/03/2026 22:14

YABU because to me, a roast is an awful meal, I'd be gutted to be served one any day/night of the week 😫

Me too. I hate everything about it, except for the roast potatoes.

noidea69 · 05/03/2026 12:28

For me i'd not be too keen on a saturday night.

If you are after something you can prep in advance do a lasagne.

Also why are you doing all preparing food & doing clubs, where's husband in this?

EleanorMc67 · 05/03/2026 12:16

Lilactimes · 05/03/2026 09:45

I think it's more about suggesting different flavours in case they're having a more traditional one Sunday. That's all.

Exactly. How to miss the point ...

CinnamonBuns67 · 05/03/2026 12:14

I'd eat a roast any day of the week. I'd go for it.

Comtesse · 05/03/2026 11:24

I do think say yorkshire puddings are more a Sunday thing. But roast potatoes or a roast chicken - any time, no problem! And LOL that roast is any heavier than a lasagne - yeah right…

fouleetmites · 05/03/2026 10:55

Ask them. I’d love it - but I guess if they have plans for a big roast the following day as well they may prefer something else 🤔

renovationqueen · 05/03/2026 10:53

I don't care what day I eat a roast but it would be a bit heavy for me for a dinner party.
Some of the meals I cook for friends that can definitely be done earlier in the day : lasanga, fish pie, chicken pie, carbonara, chicken and bacon creamy tagliatelle, jambalaya. You could also just do roast meat, potatoes and veg as a halfway point to a full roast.

Everlore · 05/03/2026 10:43

I don't think we know anyone who has a full roast dinner on Sundays. Even when I was a kid I didn't know many people who did a roast every Sunday, my family never did it and most people I knew only did so occasionally. Didn't this tradition mostly die out in the 1970s? I'm surprised so many posters are horrified by the idea of a roast on a Saturday.
A roast has never been associated with Sundays for me so I see no issue with having it any day of the week that suits you.

ErlingHaalandsManBun · 05/03/2026 10:30

Forestgreenblue · 05/03/2026 10:11

LOL! We actually eat like this quite often as DP and I don’t eat carbs but the kids do. And we rarely eat processed foods now as a result. Usually do a meat with salad and veg plus a carb

But for the potatoes we par boil baby new potatoes, squash them, add olive oil, garlic cloves, rosemary, salt and pepper and then roast them till a bit crispy. Super easy. The kids love them! Perfect to dip into tzatziki. I consider them a healthier option than normal roast potatoes because of the extra fibre from the skins and the healthy fat from the olive oil - and they just get more of a reaction from guests who have had them too

I am actually going to do these next week. They sound well lush!!! 😍

FlippityFloppityFlump · 05/03/2026 10:21

I would hate a roast on a Saturday night dinner party. Like a pp for me a roast is lazy afternoon meal. I do enjoy one occasional but would be disappointed to have one on a Saturday night. It's a bit boring and bland for a Saturday (even though my DH makes a fantastic one)

For some reason, to me Saturday night food should be more fun and a bit more interesting. Or something like a takeaway with a film when feeling lazy (not with guests obviously).

Might not make sense to others but it's just the way I feel about Saturday (and Friday) night food

Forestgreenblue · 05/03/2026 10:11

ErlingHaalandsManBun · 05/03/2026 09:25

Yum! Can I come to yours for dinner? 😛😂

LOL! We actually eat like this quite often as DP and I don’t eat carbs but the kids do. And we rarely eat processed foods now as a result. Usually do a meat with salad and veg plus a carb

But for the potatoes we par boil baby new potatoes, squash them, add olive oil, garlic cloves, rosemary, salt and pepper and then roast them till a bit crispy. Super easy. The kids love them! Perfect to dip into tzatziki. I consider them a healthier option than normal roast potatoes because of the extra fibre from the skins and the healthy fat from the olive oil - and they just get more of a reaction from guests who have had them too

MysticHalfWitch · 05/03/2026 10:07

I’d be delighted.

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