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Religion in the workplace

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Whatothink · 04/03/2026 17:27

For the last month we have been sent messages email, background screens and management briefings for a particular religion.

the following messages to

”showing visible support,
encouraging meaningful conversations, and deepening our understanding of the experiences of those of observences”

as well as being told to be considered with meetings etc and thoughtful and supportive!!!

OP posts:
MasterBeth · 04/03/2026 23:49

IdaGlossop · 04/03/2026 22:39

That will be because the UK is majority Christian so people generally understand its customs, even if they are not practising. No email needed. Muslims on the other hand account for only 6% of the population. The racism towards Muslims that is daily on display in this country makes the case for communications that promote understanding and tolerance.

The UK is not a majority Christian country. Less than half of the population identified as Christian is the last census.

MasterBeth · 04/03/2026 23:46

Tartaupommes · 04/03/2026 21:51

Why are Lent, Navratri and Yom Kippur not mentioned at all in our comms? Yom Kippur is a 25 hour total fast. I'd think that would be taxing on the body. Not a mention.

Because "Jean in Accounts is giving up KitKats on her tea break before Easter" is not as significant to the running of an organisation as "Jamal won't be eating or drinking anything at all during the hours of daylight for a month".

2boyzNosleep · 04/03/2026 23:40

Whatothink · 04/03/2026 20:38

So we should be lectured to and supportive for colleagues whose religion is not tolerant of others

No. You should be a decent person, respect other people and actually learn a few FACTUAL basics about other religions, and accept that your own preconceived biases are making you intolerant of others.

Due to the time of year, I assume that you are referring to Ramadan. Surely its common curtesy to understand that if someone is fasting they may have some difficult days, they do need to work effectively, but equally you dont need to be pigheaded about it.

As an atheist, I have no issue with respecting whatever religion someone chooses to follow, and find it interesting to learn about different celebrations/customs.

Christianity, Islam and Judaism are all linked to each other and technically all believe in the same 'God', yet they all teach that other religions are 'false' and not the true 'god'. I was aggressively told "don't pray to Jesus when you get cancer" when i told someone i dont go to church, so Christians can be intolerant too.

whatsit84 · 04/03/2026 23:38

CurlewKate · 04/03/2026 18:22

It’s not being forced on you. You’re being asked to be considerate to colleagues who are fasting.

Can you elaborate on what this means in practice? People who are not fasting should pick up work from those who aren’t for example?

whatsit84 · 04/03/2026 23:30

Just ignore it. Religion is not something that belongs in the workplace. I don’t care what other people believe, but I’m certainly not accommodating eg fasting by changing from my usual pattern of eating and drinking.

IdaGlossop · 04/03/2026 23:26

ThatPearlkitty · 04/03/2026 22:54

thats true but then id need a shield and it would soon be took down, yes first and foremost each to their own and respect and all that what im puzzled with was if you take jesus and his merry band of people and put them in todays society how long would it be before people would assume they need medical treatment etc so why then do we have so much faith in their stories etc ?

The beliefs of Christians that Jesus turned water into wine, and fed 5,000 people with five loaves and two fish is no more or less absurd than the belief that a man can have a vagina and a cervix. Personally, I'd be putting the latter in an asylum, if we still had them.

IdaGlossop · 04/03/2026 23:17

JaneV1984Madness · 04/03/2026 23:03

@IdaGlossop id really love to but it's far to outing

What a shame. Whatever has happened, I imagine the same thing could have happened in the case of any sleep-deprived parent with a small child.

icreatedascene · 04/03/2026 23:14

JaneV1984Madness · 04/03/2026 22:31

Lots of christians abstain through lent no email get sent out about that

Have you taken this up with your HR department?

JaneV1984Madness · 04/03/2026 23:03

@IdaGlossop id really love to but it's far to outing

ShakeNCake · 04/03/2026 22:57

I LOVE hearing about people's faith and culture at work. Wished lots of people happy holi the other day. Love hearing about all the different Jewish holidays. I know Ramadan isn't a holiday, but I think its a beautiful observance. Admire everyone who gave up a luxury for lent. I have no faith myself, but learn so much from people who do. Like my old boss who used to say "I spoke to someone earlier who said they loved you! Do you know who it was? Jesus!" I thought that was a lovely thing to say!

ThatPearlkitty · 04/03/2026 22:54

IdaGlossop · 04/03/2026 22:49

A question that needs its own thread 🙂

thats true but then id need a shield and it would soon be took down, yes first and foremost each to their own and respect and all that what im puzzled with was if you take jesus and his merry band of people and put them in todays society how long would it be before people would assume they need medical treatment etc so why then do we have so much faith in their stories etc ?

IdaGlossop · 04/03/2026 22:49

ThatPearlkitty · 04/03/2026 22:45

why do people trust in religion so much ?

A question that needs its own thread 🙂

ThatPearlkitty · 04/03/2026 22:45

why do people trust in religion so much ?

Rhaidimiddim · 04/03/2026 22:44

Clonakilla · 04/03/2026 22:34

It’s pretty normal in a workplace in a culture that is nominally Christian-based to get reminders and explanations of other religious observances. Ramadan, Diwali etc. the vast majority of people will already have an idea of what Easter and Christmas are about, and so the information tends to focus on less widely-known (in this country) religious observances.

I’m very surprised this is the first time it’s happened.

I have never received any such reminder, in a long career.

While I would have welcomed reminders of upcoming significant festivals, so I could provide timely salutations for my colleagues, the patronising guff the OP has received would have been less useful.

Jamclag · 04/03/2026 22:42

JaneV1984Madness · 04/03/2026 22:35

@tutugogo that goes two ways to people who don't believe in sky fairies.

'Sky fairy' - I've always found this oh so original put down quite sweet and endearing - it's so at odds with the God Christians actually believe in 😄

IdaGlossop · 04/03/2026 22:41

JaneV1984Madness · 04/03/2026 22:34

I also agree religion kept out of it.its quite hard when the lack of sleep affects colleges for a month.

I feel asking people to respect a sky fairy should also mention ..please respect the people who don't believe the sky fairy

Do give us some examples of lack of sleep affecting colleagues.

IdaGlossop · 04/03/2026 22:39

JaneV1984Madness · 04/03/2026 22:31

Lots of christians abstain through lent no email get sent out about that

That will be because the UK is majority Christian so people generally understand its customs, even if they are not practising. No email needed. Muslims on the other hand account for only 6% of the population. The racism towards Muslims that is daily on display in this country makes the case for communications that promote understanding and tolerance.

ParmaVioletTea · 04/03/2026 22:38

Religion has no place in the workplace, other than reasonable accommodation under the Equality Act.

JaneV1984Madness · 04/03/2026 22:35

@tutugogo that goes two ways to people who don't believe in sky fairies.

Clonakilla · 04/03/2026 22:34

It’s pretty normal in a workplace in a culture that is nominally Christian-based to get reminders and explanations of other religious observances. Ramadan, Diwali etc. the vast majority of people will already have an idea of what Easter and Christmas are about, and so the information tends to focus on less widely-known (in this country) religious observances.

I’m very surprised this is the first time it’s happened.

JaneV1984Madness · 04/03/2026 22:34

I also agree religion kept out of it.its quite hard when the lack of sleep affects colleges for a month.

I feel asking people to respect a sky fairy should also mention ..please respect the people who don't believe the sky fairy

Rhaidimiddim · 04/03/2026 22:31

Whatothink · 04/03/2026 17:45

I think religion should be separate from work and not pushed onto others.

I agree.

tutugogo · 04/03/2026 22:31

You would hate my work op, we have no chocolate biscuits because it’s Lent. Being considerate and understanding of others is a good thing, you don’t need to have long meaningful conversations about their religion but acknowledging that they fasting and considering that it might not be the appropriate month for a bring and share lunch or office bake sale is what we should do to be friendly and understanding.

JaneV1984Madness · 04/03/2026 22:31

Lots of christians abstain through lent no email get sent out about that

JustSawJohnny · 04/03/2026 22:29

The irony is that every Muslim I've ever met - and I've lived near and taught a lot, plus friends - love Christmas.

They're up for the carols and the decs and the markets - all of it.

But a bit of a prayer and a request to be mindful about a Muslim religious period and Christians are supposed to be offended?

Ridiculous.

And don't bother with the 'Christian country' rubbish. We are not a Christian country, we are a majority agnostic country.