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Mass grave prepared for the school girl massacre, 165 souls

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Dirtydianaoh · 04/03/2026 01:34

For a nation to say they care about women and girl rights and liberation, and then to bomb a school wtf?!
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Endoflight · 09/03/2026 12:39

Alexandra2001 · 09/03/2026 10:09

Good to know what you think i care about or not......

The US attacking other countries has a terrible track record, the murder of 160 school children, the 1000s of civilians killed or serious injured by US/IDF bombs, long term environmental and health damage to the Iranians nr the oil deports bombed.....

Anyone who supports this bombing doesn't give a fuck about the Iranians... the likely outcome is a far more oppressive regime, 1000s more deaths and any change in the countries Government structures put back decades.

But if it all collapses, then they'll be a civil war, fantastic for the ordinary Iranian.

Some support the bombings, many do not.

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@Alexandra2001 sit this one out because you have no idea what you are talking about

How can you get more oppressive than women being shot in the face and vagina for wanting to walk their dogs?

There is no more further oppressed to go, that is why the IRANIAN PEOPLE support the strikes. The only people that don’t are the people in the West who are far left activists who have no idea of the hell in Iran or Islamic terrorists and sympathisers

Twiglets1 · 09/03/2026 12:29

TheignT · 09/03/2026 11:38

How did they launch missiles if it wasn't deliberate?

Obviously missile launching is deliberate.

Hitting schools presumably not.

HappyFace2025 · 09/03/2026 12:13

FloralDeerPattern · 09/03/2026 10:58

Nope. Neither Hamas nor Hezbollah have killed a child an hour, every single hour for 2 years. Neither have come anywhere close to Israels record on child killings.

In just 3 weeks in 2023 Israel managed to kill more children than the total killed in conflicts around the world in every year since 2019. Israel are in a league of their own on that one.

You can say Hamas and Hezbollah would if they could all you like but we have proof that Israel would if they could because they have actually gone out there and done it.

I was responding to a post that stated Israel had begun firing rockets at Lebanon when it was Hezbollah who had done so.

TheignT · 09/03/2026 11:38

Twiglets1 · 09/03/2026 11:07

I think it goes without saying that all Mumsnetters will be against the killing of children (unless there are a few psychopaths lurking). I assume ordinary Iranians are also sorry to hear about children dying, even if they generally support the war because they hope to be liberated from the regime.

I wouldn't use the word murder unless there is evidence the action was done deliberately. The reason I don't "condemn it" is because I said from very early on I assume it was an accident whether committed by the US, Israel or Iran.

How did they launch missiles if it wasn't deliberate?

Twiglets1 · 09/03/2026 11:07

Alexandra2001 · 09/03/2026 10:55

Many have said ordinary Iranians support this action.... and you certainly have never condemned it... nor the murder of 160 children.

Pro Israeli posters simply say "very regrettable"

I think it goes without saying that all Mumsnetters will be against the killing of children (unless there are a few psychopaths lurking). I assume ordinary Iranians are also sorry to hear about children dying, even if they generally support the war because they hope to be liberated from the regime.

I wouldn't use the word murder unless there is evidence the action was done deliberately. The reason I don't "condemn it" is because I said from very early on I assume it was an accident whether committed by the US, Israel or Iran.

FloralDeerPattern · 09/03/2026 10:58

HappyFace2025 · 09/03/2026 10:50

Hamas would have but we've brought Hezbollah into it now too meanwhile Israel have done it.
Nope. Hezbollah began sending rockets over israel on 2 March in retaliation for the death of the Ayatollah.
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c4gq3ykg7pvo

Nope. Neither Hamas nor Hezbollah have killed a child an hour, every single hour for 2 years. Neither have come anywhere close to Israels record on child killings.

In just 3 weeks in 2023 Israel managed to kill more children than the total killed in conflicts around the world in every year since 2019. Israel are in a league of their own on that one.

You can say Hamas and Hezbollah would if they could all you like but we have proof that Israel would if they could because they have actually gone out there and done it.

Alexandra2001 · 09/03/2026 10:55

Twiglets1 · 09/03/2026 10:40

No one "supports this bombing" this is an offensive thing to say on a site aimed at Mums.

I'm sure we all wish it hadn't happened.

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Many have said ordinary Iranians support this action.... and you certainly have never condemned it... nor the murder of 160 children.

Pro Israeli posters simply say "very regrettable"

HappyFace2025 · 09/03/2026 10:50

Hamas would have but we've brought Hezbollah into it now too meanwhile Israel have done it.
Nope. Hezbollah began sending rockets over israel on 2 March in retaliation for the death of the Ayatollah.
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c4gq3ykg7pvo

Displaced people sit beneath a statue at Martyrs' Square in Beirut, Lebanon (3 March 2026)

Battered and isolated, Hezbollah drags Lebanon into another war

Its attack on Israel in support of Iran has led to fresh mass displacements and Israeli bombing, to the fury of many Lebanese.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c4gq3ykg7pvo

Twiglets1 · 09/03/2026 10:40

Alexandra2001 · 09/03/2026 10:09

Good to know what you think i care about or not......

The US attacking other countries has a terrible track record, the murder of 160 school children, the 1000s of civilians killed or serious injured by US/IDF bombs, long term environmental and health damage to the Iranians nr the oil deports bombed.....

Anyone who supports this bombing doesn't give a fuck about the Iranians... the likely outcome is a far more oppressive regime, 1000s more deaths and any change in the countries Government structures put back decades.

But if it all collapses, then they'll be a civil war, fantastic for the ordinary Iranian.

Some support the bombings, many do not.

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No one "supports this bombing" this is an offensive thing to say on a site aimed at Mums.

I'm sure we all wish it hadn't happened.

rainingsnoring · 09/03/2026 10:27

HappyFace2025 · 09/03/2026 09:46

That is a ridiculous supposition. Trump needed no persuasion - he blindly supposes that this will help him win the Nobel Prize for Peace.

Not ridiculous at all. Very likely to be at least part of the reason that Trump has switched from apparently wanting to stop wars to suddenly making a robust attempt to start WW3. We had all better pray that he does not suceed!

rainingsnoring · 09/03/2026 10:24

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FloralDeerPattern · 09/03/2026 10:20

HappyFace2025 · 09/03/2026 10:02

As I have pointed out above: The Iron Dome protects Israeli citizens. Israel has also built safe places for people to shelter from attacks; unlike Hamas in Gaza or Hezbollah in Lebanon or even in Iran, when there has beeen ample funding for these terrorists to do so but all their citizens are collateral damage in there stated aim to destroy Israel.

As for the numbers of children killed - where are the facts that Israel has 'killed a child an hour for 2 years'? However many is the true number it's a great shame Hamas etc don't care that their children are dying,

Yup more Hamas would have but we've brought Hezbollah into it now too meanwhile Israel have done it.

The fact that Hamas don't care that Israel have killed 20000 children doesn't make it any less heinous that Israel have killed 1 child an hour every single hour for 2 years. They have ended those young lives, they have destroyed the lives of many, many more.

This whole war is being fought for Netanyahu, his revenge, he has tried for decades to find a US president dumb enough to go in with him and now he has. Thís is his lifelong dream along with the destruction of Palestine and he will happily watch the whole world burn so long as Iran is the biggest fire.

This is all to feed Netanyahus 'historic and spiritual mission,' that he himself has said he is on.

www.savethechildren.net/news/gaza-20000-children-killed-23-months-war-more-one-child-killed-every-hour

oldtiredcyclist · 09/03/2026 10:13

HappyFace2025 · 09/03/2026 09:53

Someone else could start a thread about the genocide that Israel has been and continues to carry out in Gaza.

There have been dozens of threads about Israel and Gaza since 7 October 2023. There has been no genocide.

Israel has carried out a genocide in Gaza against the Palestinian people.

https://www.ohchr.org/en/press-releases/2025/09/israel-has-committed-genocide-gaza-strip-un-commission-finds

Alexandra2001 · 09/03/2026 10:09

Endoflight · 09/03/2026 09:24

@Alexandra2001
But we do have a thread that is allowed to continue for pages on the ‘massacre’ by the US of 180 when there is barely a whisper for 30000 people being killed by their OWN government?

It sounds like you don’t give a damn about the Iranian people, this is just Anti-America

The Iranian people are welcoming the support. So who is this post defending? Because it is NOT the Iranian people.

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Good to know what you think i care about or not......

The US attacking other countries has a terrible track record, the murder of 160 school children, the 1000s of civilians killed or serious injured by US/IDF bombs, long term environmental and health damage to the Iranians nr the oil deports bombed.....

Anyone who supports this bombing doesn't give a fuck about the Iranians... the likely outcome is a far more oppressive regime, 1000s more deaths and any change in the countries Government structures put back decades.

But if it all collapses, then they'll be a civil war, fantastic for the ordinary Iranian.

Some support the bombings, many do not.

oldtiredcyclist · 09/03/2026 10:07

Ihatetomatoes · 09/03/2026 09:19

"Israel....they are truly evil". All of them?

Meanwhile, Iran gets a pass. Interesting.

The Iranian regime are evil, not the general population who deserve a far better life in the future.

HappyFace2025 · 09/03/2026 10:02

FloralDeerPattern · 09/03/2026 09:52

Meanwhile over 100 were killed by the US and Israel. This is on top of the 20000 children Israel have killed in the past 2 years, probably 10000 of them little girls.

It's all Iran would, Hamas would meanwhile Israel and the US are actually doing it. Israel with the help of the US has killed 1 child every single hour, every single day for 2 whole years. They've actually done the thing we are told Iran and Hamas are so evil for thinking about. Hamas and Iran are awful that's true, but what does that make Israel the country that has actually gone out there and killed a child an hour for 2 years?

As I have pointed out above: The Iron Dome protects Israeli citizens. Israel has also built safe places for people to shelter from attacks; unlike Hamas in Gaza or Hezbollah in Lebanon or even in Iran, when there has beeen ample funding for these terrorists to do so but all their citizens are collateral damage in there stated aim to destroy Israel.

As for the numbers of children killed - where are the facts that Israel has 'killed a child an hour for 2 years'? However many is the true number it's a great shame Hamas etc don't care that their children are dying,

HappyFace2025 · 09/03/2026 09:55

FloralDeerPattern · 09/03/2026 09:44

There is only one Israel.

Exactly. Just one Jewish majority state while there are currently 50 Muslim majority states in the world.

HappyFace2025 · 09/03/2026 09:53

rainingsnoring · 09/03/2026 09:24

This thead is about the murder of 160 school girls by the US and Israel and about the war they have chosen to start, which has already caused many thousands of Iranian deaths.
If you want to start a thread about the Iranian regime, you can do that. Someone else could start a thread about the genocide that Israel has been and continues to carry out in Gaza.

Someone else could start a thread about the genocide that Israel has been and continues to carry out in Gaza.

There have been dozens of threads about Israel and Gaza since 7 October 2023. There has been no genocide.

FloralDeerPattern · 09/03/2026 09:52

HappyFace2025 · 09/03/2026 09:41

If Israel didn't have the Iron Dome Defense system I have no doubt that more than '100 little girls' would have been killed by Hamas (aka Iran).

Meanwhile over 100 were killed by the US and Israel. This is on top of the 20000 children Israel have killed in the past 2 years, probably 10000 of them little girls.

It's all Iran would, Hamas would meanwhile Israel and the US are actually doing it. Israel with the help of the US has killed 1 child every single hour, every single day for 2 whole years. They've actually done the thing we are told Iran and Hamas are so evil for thinking about. Hamas and Iran are awful that's true, but what does that make Israel the country that has actually gone out there and killed a child an hour for 2 years?

HappyFace2025 · 09/03/2026 09:46

rainingsnoring · 09/03/2026 08:25

It is indeed. I strongly suspect that the Israelis have something on DJT (see Epstein files) and that he has been persuaded to do this to preserve his power and reputation. I think he thought it the Iranians would be toppled within a couple of days.

That is a ridiculous supposition. Trump needed no persuasion - he blindly supposes that this will help him win the Nobel Prize for Peace.

FloralDeerPattern · 09/03/2026 09:44

Ihatetomatoes · 09/03/2026 09:19

"Israel....they are truly evil". All of them?

Meanwhile, Iran gets a pass. Interesting.

There is only one Israel.

HappyFace2025 · 09/03/2026 09:41

FloralDeerPattern · 09/03/2026 07:56

And for all of their 'Death to America' 'Death to Israel' they've never double tapped an American or Israeli school killing over 100 little girls.

The main players in this are all disgusting with no regard for innocent lives, none of them are peaceful or benign. It's sickening that people support any of them.

If Israel didn't have the Iron Dome Defense system I have no doubt that more than '100 little girls' would have been killed by Hamas (aka Iran).

rainingsnoring · 09/03/2026 09:31

Ihatetomatoes · 09/03/2026 09:27

Indeed.

The silence when all those poor Iranians were just slaughtered by their own regime. The voices are loud when killed in a war. Its predictable.

Have you commented about all the Iranians who have been killed by the actions of the US and Israel, including the murdered children? If not, why not? Ask yourself that.