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Mass grave prepared for the school girl massacre, 165 souls

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Dirtydianaoh · 04/03/2026 01:34

For a nation to say they care about women and girl rights and liberation, and then to bomb a school wtf?!
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ScrollingLeaves · 06/03/2026 13:33

@Foggybottomblues Foggybottomblues · 04/03/2026 02:41
It is very sad but there is no evidence this was caused by US/. Israeli forces. The evidence points to a failed Iranian rocket launch.

This has been debunked. You must not have caught up with analysis.

TessSaysYes · 06/03/2026 13:08

Foggybottomblues · 04/03/2026 02:41

It is very sad but there is no evidence this was caused by US/. Israeli forces. The evidence points to a failed Iranian rocket launch.

I think the Russians already used this excuse.

ScrollingLeaves · 06/03/2026 12:50

US pilots “have maximum authorities granted personally by the president and yours truly,” he added. Rules of engagement “are designed to unleash American power, not shackle it.”
(Pete Hegseth March 4.)

Maybe this unshackled licence lead to undue attention by intelligence being paid to the inconvenient detail that there was a school here with children arriving that very morning.

Detailed bothering with intelligence here might have been considered to be too ‘shackling’.

oldtiredcyclist · 06/03/2026 12:38

RichardOnslowRoper · 06/03/2026 00:12

I know you won't believe me, but I escaped Iran in 79 as a young child. I am not Iranian though. But my dad worked in the region.

Calm and factual enough for you? I am not particularly sheltered.

My wife was born in Tehran, went to university there at the start of the revolution in 1979, then came to England in 1986. I have visited there a few times, always felt a bit nervous when we got to the airport for the return journey and was very anxious when my wife went back there on her various trips. All the Iranians we me were very friendly, certainly didn't see many fundamentalists there, so this latest war on Iran by the US/Israel has really saddened us. We would be pleased if the regime went, but this isn't the way to do it, because it didn't work in Libya, Syria, Afghanistan or Iraq and it certainly didn't work in 1953 where the US/UK organised coup d'etat removed the democratically elected prime minister Mossadeq, because he wanted to nationalise Iranian oil.

https://archive.globalpolicy.org/us-military-expansion-and-intervention/iran/26389-oil-and-economic-interests-in-iran.html

Oil and Economic Interests in Iran

Global Policy Forum is a policy watchdog that follows the work of the United Nations. We promote accountability and citizen participation in decisions on peace and security, social justice and international law.

https://archive.globalpolicy.org/us-military-expansion-and-intervention/iran/26389-oil-and-economic-interests-in-iran.html

Twiglets1 · 06/03/2026 12:36

kirinm · 06/03/2026 12:33

Investigations conclude it’s America. Posters here / we still won’t know categorically and it was probably a mistake anyway. How surprising.

Wrong assumption as usual. If the official investigation has concluded it was the US, I accept that conclusion. I’ve already said I think it will probably turn out to be the US.

kirinm · 06/03/2026 12:33

Investigations conclude it’s America. Posters here / we still won’t know categorically and it was probably a mistake anyway. How surprising.

ScrollingLeaves · 06/03/2026 12:32

FloralDeerPattern · 06/03/2026 12:17

It is isn't it? If it were over 100 smiling American school girls that Iran 'mistakenly' blew up in one of the many schools on US military bases people would be vying for blood. We all know that that would be the case. I don't know if this lack of compassion is fueled by racism or a feeling of Western superiority or what is behind it but you are right it has been shocking to witness.

If it were over 100 smiling American school girls that Iran 'mistakenly' blew up in one of the many schools on US military bases people would be vying for blood.

Yes.

Twiglets1 · 06/03/2026 12:26

FloralDeerPattern · 06/03/2026 12:17

It is isn't it? If it were over 100 smiling American school girls that Iran 'mistakenly' blew up in one of the many schools on US military bases people would be vying for blood. We all know that that would be the case. I don't know if this lack of compassion is fueled by racism or a feeling of Western superiority or what is behind it but you are right it has been shocking to witness.

It’s nothing to do with that … people in the UK were outraged at the death of thousands of Iranian protesters - including over 150 children, who weren’t American either.

NotTerfNorCis · 06/03/2026 12:19

It seems clear now that the US killed those girls. Earlier reports were deliberate lying, something very familiar from the Gaza situation.

FloralDeerPattern · 06/03/2026 12:17

TheIceBear · 06/03/2026 06:20

We aren’t clear on anything yet but regardless killing 165 little girls by “mistake” clearly isn’t good enough in a “fast moving war situation”. The language and lack of compassion on this thread is actually shocking .

It is isn't it? If it were over 100 smiling American school girls that Iran 'mistakenly' blew up in one of the many schools on US military bases people would be vying for blood. We all know that that would be the case. I don't know if this lack of compassion is fueled by racism or a feeling of Western superiority or what is behind it but you are right it has been shocking to witness.

ScrollingLeaves · 06/03/2026 10:56

N.B.
The US appear to be lying.

The US either have sloppy intelligence or faulty ‘precision weapons’

Pete Hegseth talking about how Iran will be ‘Toast’ is not a good look for America. Some of the children actually were ‘toast’ as it happens.

Having power, but losing dignity and control in this way, is a bad look.

ScrollingLeaves · 06/03/2026 10:47

RichardOnslowRoper · 05/03/2026 22:50

Thank you, that is a very detailed report. It really does look as though the US carried out the attack.

At best it was a catastrophic, reprehensible failure of their intelligence, with tragic consequences.

Sherbs12 · 06/03/2026 07:21

https://www.nytimes.com/2026/03/05/world/middleeast/iran-school-us-strikes-naval-base.html

Interesting analysis in the NY Times on this horrific event. It’s a pity that the much of the UK media isn’t reporting more on this.
Both Trump’s and Hegseth’s speeches/comments after these initial strikes indicate that they will hold no accountability for the loss of innocent lives - and of course, we know that Netanyahu won’t.

Twiglets1 · 06/03/2026 07:14

Alexandra2001 · 06/03/2026 06:15

The Israelis wouldn't care, military families children, from their pov, wont be growing up to be soldiers.

Plenty of Iranians fleeing into Turkey are very pissed off with all this bombing.

Getting rid of one terror govt only for it to be replaced with an even worse one (but without a nuclear program) wont be anything the ordinary Iranian... how do you imagine the families feel about the deaths of their children?

Unless you can point to a successful forced regime change the US has taken part in?

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The Israelis wouldn’t care?

Thought the consensus on this thread was that the US did it?

That it was done by mistake would seem logical.

Though we still don’t know factually who was responsible, the US seems the most likely at this stage.

rainingsnoring · 06/03/2026 07:10

TheIceBear · 06/03/2026 06:16

Gosh you really are determined to blame anyone else apart from the US/Israel for this. Obviously it’s still not clear what exactly happened but you are really clutching at straws here .

Agreed. Excellent attempt at victim blaming in that post. Some people just can't help themselves, even when 160 school girls have been murdered.

TheIceBear · 06/03/2026 06:20

Wellthisisdifficult · 05/03/2026 23:44

So are we clear this was a mistake? Are we clear mistakes happen in a fast moving war situation?

We aren’t clear on anything yet but regardless killing 165 little girls by “mistake” clearly isn’t good enough in a “fast moving war situation”. The language and lack of compassion on this thread is actually shocking .

TheIceBear · 06/03/2026 06:16

Wellthisisdifficult · 05/03/2026 23:00

Maybe the Iranians would have been better advised not putting a girls school next to a military installation and not in old military buildings.

This looks like a tragic incident that resulted from a mistake

Gosh you really are determined to blame anyone else apart from the US/Israel for this. Obviously it’s still not clear what exactly happened but you are really clutching at straws here .

Alexandra2001 · 06/03/2026 06:15

Wellthisisdifficult · 05/03/2026 23:40

The thing is, in war mistakes happen - usually with tragic consequences. Why would the US bomb a girls school on purpose?

The Israelis wouldn't care, military families children, from their pov, wont be growing up to be soldiers.

Plenty of Iranians fleeing into Turkey are very pissed off with all this bombing.

Getting rid of one terror govt only for it to be replaced with an even worse one (but without a nuclear program) wont be anything the ordinary Iranian... how do you imagine the families feel about the deaths of their children?

Unless you can point to a successful forced regime change the US has taken part in?

rainingsnoring · 06/03/2026 04:10

Getareallife · 06/03/2026 00:06

Just a reminder, if you are upset about monstrous murderers and enslavers being eradicated by Trump you have a mental health problem and should seek help. Iran, meanwhile, celebrates without worrying about the pearl clutching of the class clowns and super entitled twits of mumsnet who have never in their entire sheltered lives come face to face with what Iranians have endured for decades.

Normal, decent people are delighted for Iran and side with the Iranians who are so grateful for their liberation.

As I have nothing more to add, I won't respond to the screeching and lunacy that my calm, reasonable and factual comment will almost definitely give rise to :)

Even if what you have said were calm and reasonable (it isn't), it's a straw man argument.
Just to remind you, this thread is about the murder of around 160 school girls by a US strike. Stop trying to twist things to make it about whatever suits your agenda.

StandingSideBySide · 06/03/2026 00:23

Getareallife · 06/03/2026 00:06

Just a reminder, if you are upset about monstrous murderers and enslavers being eradicated by Trump you have a mental health problem and should seek help. Iran, meanwhile, celebrates without worrying about the pearl clutching of the class clowns and super entitled twits of mumsnet who have never in their entire sheltered lives come face to face with what Iranians have endured for decades.

Normal, decent people are delighted for Iran and side with the Iranians who are so grateful for their liberation.

As I have nothing more to add, I won't respond to the screeching and lunacy that my calm, reasonable and factual comment will almost definitely give rise to :)

This is a thread about a school being bombed and 165 7-12 yrs and their teachers killed

No normal decent person would be happy about that
No normal decent person would accept that as collateral damage

You want to talk about the Iranian regime there are plenty of threads on here for you to engage with

RichardOnslowRoper · 06/03/2026 00:12

Getareallife · 06/03/2026 00:06

Just a reminder, if you are upset about monstrous murderers and enslavers being eradicated by Trump you have a mental health problem and should seek help. Iran, meanwhile, celebrates without worrying about the pearl clutching of the class clowns and super entitled twits of mumsnet who have never in their entire sheltered lives come face to face with what Iranians have endured for decades.

Normal, decent people are delighted for Iran and side with the Iranians who are so grateful for their liberation.

As I have nothing more to add, I won't respond to the screeching and lunacy that my calm, reasonable and factual comment will almost definitely give rise to :)

I know you won't believe me, but I escaped Iran in 79 as a young child. I am not Iranian though. But my dad worked in the region.

Calm and factual enough for you? I am not particularly sheltered.

Getareallife · 06/03/2026 00:06

Getareallife · 04/03/2026 10:28

What comes next is absolutely guaranteed to be far far better than the decades of slavery they have just endured under the vile beasts who have thankfully been eradicated.

Iranians are over the moon and the OP and others who are desperate for any chance to screech about Trump are behaving monstrously and pathetically.

And that is all I will be saying on the subject, because I'm right, and there's no more to add. Bye :)

Just a reminder, if you are upset about monstrous murderers and enslavers being eradicated by Trump you have a mental health problem and should seek help. Iran, meanwhile, celebrates without worrying about the pearl clutching of the class clowns and super entitled twits of mumsnet who have never in their entire sheltered lives come face to face with what Iranians have endured for decades.

Normal, decent people are delighted for Iran and side with the Iranians who are so grateful for their liberation.

As I have nothing more to add, I won't respond to the screeching and lunacy that my calm, reasonable and factual comment will almost definitely give rise to :)

IrishSelkie · 05/03/2026 23:58

Wellthisisdifficult · 05/03/2026 23:44

So are we clear this was a mistake? Are we clear mistakes happen in a fast moving war situation?

Except the school was hit during the first wave of precision bombed targets drawn up weeks beforehand in the US surprise attack on Iran.

It wasn’t a fast moving retaliation to an initial surprise attack situation.
So the fast moving war situation would not apply to this particular incident.

IrishSelkie · 05/03/2026 23:53

Wellthisisdifficult · 05/03/2026 23:40

The thing is, in war mistakes happen - usually with tragic consequences. Why would the US bomb a girls school on purpose?

They have hit 13 medical centres in Iran as well
https://www.theguardian.com/global-development/2026/mar/05/at-least-dozen-hospital-and-health-facilities-in-iran-hit-since-us-israel-attacks-began-who-says

Intent cannot be determined at this stage.

Pointing out that a country has a pattern of attacking civilian targets is simply a piece of evidence that there may be a criminal unwritten policy or sheer incompetence in the ranks.

All military actions that result bombing civilian infrastructure and causing the deaths of civilians should always be condemned, responsibility acknowledged, the incidents investigated to determine if it was intentional or negligence and corrective actions put into place.

The outrage here should match the outrage from when Putin bombed hospitals in Ukraine not the meh we saw when Israel bombed hospitals in Gaza.

If the nationality or religion of the child or medic dying in an airstrike is what determines the tone of response, then some humans are lesser beings with fewer rights than other humans.

At least 13 hospitals and health facilities hit during attacks on Iran, WHO says

Global health body investigating reports that four medics are among the 1,230 people killed in Iran since start of war

https://www.theguardian.com/global-development/2026/mar/05/at-least-dozen-hospital-and-health-facilities-in-iran-hit-since-us-israel-attacks-began-who-says

RichardOnslowRoper · 05/03/2026 23:48

Really fast moving. It's ok, the Orange One has announced he's starting on Cuba next, so by next summer Cuban women can be liberated by being blown up by a mistake.

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