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Bluey is rubbish.

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IAmTheFloorCleaner · 03/03/2026 16:51

There, I said it.

I have a small DC who is obsessed with it so I’ve seen/overheard lots of episodes. I don’t get why other adults are obsessed with it? Bluey is kind of a cow. I get that she is meant to have ADHD but she is often not kind to Bingo or her Dad. Bingo often has to give in to other people’s wants even though she is 4, she is forever having to be reasonable and understanding, especially towards Bluey. And my DC has said one or two things that have not been the best behaviour and when questioned has said they’ve learnt it off Bluey. Yes, there are some sweet moments for adults, but other than that it’s a blah programme. There are morals in lots of other kids programmes today so I don’t buy that, and some of the 80s/90s kids programmes are much funnier, so I don’t think it’s that. Is it simply all the adult asides that people love?

The other day I saw someone recommend watching Bluey and emulating the father to a new dad, saying that is how you learn to be a parent. What the hell? Is Bluey’s dad really the gold standard of parenting now?

To me, Bluey isn’t that much above that devil, Peppa Pig. I don’t get why people are so crazy about it?

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ThePoliteLion · 03/03/2026 20:08

I model myself on Chilli

Tigerbalmshark · 03/03/2026 19:47

I also have heard on several occasions both kids and parents refer the Bluey as a boy and are shocked when told that B and B are both girls. That says a lot about how boy characters are expected to act vs girl characters

I think it is more because she is blue…

atamlin · 03/03/2026 19:35

You take that back!

Spookyspaghetti · 03/03/2026 19:19

IAmTheFloorCleaner · 03/03/2026 17:57

I’ve criticised the Dad and I am criticising Bluey because she is the main character? I haven’t criticised Bingo, I think Bluey treats her badly and gets away with it - very rarely is it dealt with properly by her parents. That’s not good role modelling for kids

You’re taking this way too seriously! My child has lots of strong female characters with all sorts of characteristics in their life and there are other programmes with cool female characters. I just think these two characters are rubbish

and yes, everybody hates Bing. I don’t know what a roly or a happy is.

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You are entitled to think the character and show is rubbish. I’m just pointing out that it’s only ever female protagonists that are criticised for being bossy or outspoken or not behaving in the very narrow way we have deemed acceptable for women and girls.

I’ve sat through a lot of Bluey and can only think of one episode (where Bluey and Judo run away) where Bluey is genuinely horrible to Bingo, and maybe Hammerbarn. But both of those are relatable because it is how children act and girls should know that they can make mistakes, learn, and grow without having to be perfect all the time.

I also have heard on several occasions both kids and parents refer the Bluey as a boy and are shocked when told that B and B are both girls. That says a lot about how boy characters are expected to act vs girl characters.

The dad can kind of be annoying and problematic but he is not the protagonist. It’s like a fantasy version of a dad tbf.

(Peppa is aimed at much smaller children hence why the plots are less developed and less engaging for adults but it is very well written and hilarious)

Pricesandvices · 03/03/2026 19:12

It's not as good as Hey Duggee.

Tigerbalmshark · 03/03/2026 19:09

I think many people find Bing annoying - I have never seen a thread mention him on here without everyone piling in to say how irritating he is (I actually didn’t mind him, he’s a very accurate toddler with very accurate toddler concerns, and DS responded very well to “no you can’t have your book in the bath/chase a goose in the park/refuse to go to the toilet because you are playing, remember that Bing episode?”)

Peppa I always assumed was meant to be annoying - even DS thought she was “smug and bossy” aged 4, the humour came from the entirely predictable mishaps. Laughing at her not with her. I don’t think anyone actually likes her.

Bluey is “what would happen if your parents just went along with your imagination” - so kids do love it, because what would happen if your parents actually played human statues in the middle of the road, or pretended to be a chicken all day? It would be quite funny, if you are aged 4-6.

Mum18282 · 03/03/2026 18:58

Cryingatthegym · 03/03/2026 18:40

I'll concede that perhaps I've not watched it closely enough to pick up on all those nuances!

Tbh I tune a lot of it out - unless DC want to watch and talk about it together I don’t want to spend my time watching cartoons. But the episodes I have watched are mostly great. There are many little jokes - Bandit is an archaeologist (there’s a little clip of him giving a conference talk about a bone - he’s got a doctorate!) and Chilli works in airport security. 🤣

Bloodycrossstitch · 03/03/2026 18:56

I don’t have strong feeling either way about Bluey as a show but how obsessive and cultish grown adults get about it puts me off it massively.

Puffin rock is my favourite modern show that my kids are watching right now. Also Kiri and lou mainly because of how catchy the little tunes in it are 😂

TheGreenTeddy · 03/03/2026 18:56

I honestly think ‘Mum and Dad’ are quite often neglecting their parenting duties. I know I’ve thought during episodes that someone (usually Bluey) needs to be told off!
Shaun for example - has been a total pain in the ass in this house and DC quite rightly told that’s enough of that!

QuaintMauveCrow · 03/03/2026 18:46

OneCoralGoose · 03/03/2026 17:12

Bing is a dick much worse then bluey. Baby race and early baby are great episodes. They are meant to be at the weekend most of the time

Bing is indeed a dick 😂
absolutely love Bluey!

wldpwr · 03/03/2026 18:43

Doranottheexplorer · 03/03/2026 17:41

Sleepytime is one of the greatest episodes of TV ever. Never has it been on and I've not bawled my eyes out.

I do agree she's a bit annoying and they could do with telling her off occasionally.

Yes! We love this one so much in our house.

ChalkOrCheese · 03/03/2026 18:42

It's shit. It's like the difficult parts of parenting in real time. The annoying bits are annoying enough without reliving them vicariously and becoming irritated.

wldpwr · 03/03/2026 18:41

I adore Bluey. I really love its values and the parenting shown in it, although I appreciate nobody could parent like that all the time. It makes me laugh so much and there are several episodes that have really moved me.

I'm sorry to tell those with younger DCs, but Bluey is a very typical 7 yo and not ND at all!

Mumtumtastic · 03/03/2026 18:41

Saw the Bluey stage show last year and Bandit trying to relax and scroll his phone was a main theme

Cryingatthegym · 03/03/2026 18:40

Mum18282 · 03/03/2026 18:37

Don't they have jobs? Housework?! Want to have adult conversations sometimes? Or just to sit on the sofa and scroll in peace every now and again???

But they do allude to that. There are lots of times when Bandit doesn’t feel like parenting - there are scenes he just wants to lie down and scroll on his phone, or watch sports on TV or whatever. They both have jobs. They talk to each other in micro-conversations that get interrupted that is familiar to parents. The communicate with looks, with handholds. (There’s a moment when they look at each other that alludes to the fact that Bluey is a rainbow baby.) I love that there are some weighty topics on the fringes of the episodes (like Chill’s sister’s infertility.) But the episodes are mostly focused on playtime, or when the kids have to fit in around adult stuff.

But I mostly like how slow the episodes are, that there’s so much music in them, that they can be beautiful to watch. I can’t stand the quick fire computer generated animation in other cartoons.

I'll concede that perhaps I've not watched it closely enough to pick up on all those nuances!

Mum18282 · 03/03/2026 18:40

I find the soft swearing “Biscuits!” really helpful! Kids pick up so much worse at school, it handy to redirect them to “Biscuits!” 😂

Mum18282 · 03/03/2026 18:37

Cryingatthegym · 03/03/2026 17:04

And those two dogs are the parents we all want to be.

Absolutely not! Bluey pisses me right off and I'm often mind blown at how much time the parents seem to invest in pretend play and doing everything the way the children want things to be done. Don't they have jobs? Housework?! Want to have adult conversations sometimes? Or just to sit on the sofa and scroll in peace every now and again???

The only good thing about Bluey is that all 3 of my kids will sit and watch it quietly together without any squabbling over the TV. Even the 11 year old loves it.

Don't they have jobs? Housework?! Want to have adult conversations sometimes? Or just to sit on the sofa and scroll in peace every now and again???

But they do allude to that. There are lots of times when Bandit doesn’t feel like parenting - there are scenes he just wants to lie down and scroll on his phone, or watch sports on TV or whatever. They both have jobs. They talk to each other in micro-conversations that get interrupted that is familiar to parents. The communicate with looks, with handholds. (There’s a moment when they look at each other that alludes to the fact that Bluey is a rainbow baby.) I love that there are some weighty topics on the fringes of the episodes (like Chill’s sister’s infertility.) But the episodes are mostly focused on playtime, or when the kids have to fit in around adult stuff.

But I mostly like how slow the episodes are, that there’s so much music in them, that they can be beautiful to watch. I can’t stand the quick fire computer generated animation in other cartoons.

LillyLeaf · 03/03/2026 18:35

CurbsideProphet · 03/03/2026 17:01

The episode Onesies gets me every time (IVF mum).

There are many other children's TV programmes far more unbearable than Bluey.

Same

Mumtumtastic · 03/03/2026 18:29

Yes danger mouse, Trap Door, Duck tales, also Super Ted! (I was in love with him ) and can anything be more exciting than the intro to Thundercats? Pigeon Street was cool and does anyone remember ‘Bertha’? Loved that, it was clay mation same as Trap Door and I think made by the same people.

I both love and dislike Bluey. Love it for all the excellence and there’s a lot that’s funny and relatable, also moments where it catches you in the feels 😁 dislike it for all the reasons listed here basically. Teaching kids soft swearing with the (mostly Bandit) exclaiming ‘biscuits’ all the time isn’t great either.

Tears have spiked many times though and sometimes at odd bits. I loved the Bingo party where the granny just wanted to help but wasn’t ‘needed’ but actually Bingo needed her to watch her do her handstand, was so sweet 🥹 Also Camping, gets me every time and makes me think of friends gone by.
Love Sleepytime and also the episode where it rains and there’s no dialogue, just orchestral, lovely.

Dragonflytamer · 03/03/2026 18:29

IAmTheFloorCleaner · 03/03/2026 18:25

😂

Also, why are all the ‘adults’ so tiny? They wouldn’t be able to handle a bust up between Bing and his best mate.

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And why aren't the cats anthropomorphised? They are much smaller than the rabbits and still get pet status.

Toddlerteaplease · 03/03/2026 18:27

Nooo! I love Bluey. But I have too many questions about ‘The Sign’. What happened to dad’s new job and the house they were moving into. You can’t pull out on moving day!

IAmTheFloorCleaner · 03/03/2026 18:25

Dragonflytamer · 03/03/2026 18:22

To be fair when you adult role models, Flop and Amma, are permanently naked it must be a bit confusing.

In real life Flop would not be in the park. He would be on a register.

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😂

Also, why are all the ‘adults’ so tiny? They wouldn’t be able to handle a bust up between Bing and his best mate.

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Dragonflytamer · 03/03/2026 18:25

DysmalRadius · 03/03/2026 18:21

I think Wendy is a good example of how parents do things differently but can still be 'right'. She does prioritise appearances, but cuts off all her own hair when she realises it's impinging on Juno's fun, and she puts her strong core to excellent use when Bandit's being a rag doll and won't take the kids for ice cream. And she's a good friend to Chilli when she needs a break.

The episode where Judo and Bluey are mean to Bingo is a bit of a parenting fail IMO - my kids dote on the youngest, but they still want a bit of time to hang out on their own without a sibling in tow sometimes, so I make sure they get it (using bribery usually - I'm way more Bandit than Chilli).

I didn't see that as a only child Vs siblings thing so much as showcasing peer pressure and not handling situations very well when you're still learning.

(Not that we've been on a years-long Bluey kick or anything - is it too late to make this sound a lot less overthunk?!😬🤣)

I think you need to turn Bluey off for a bit.

DysmalRadius · 03/03/2026 18:23

IAmTheFloorCleaner · 03/03/2026 18:16

And the panda from Bing who is suddenly in his pants for no reason and no one ever seems to say ‘Err, Panda, we’re in a supermarket and you need to put your trousers back on’

Yes!! Although I do know a kid like that and it's hard to be that firm because it is really funny and often results in a Benny Hill style chase with other parents trying to help, but also not really wanting to catch a semi-naked toddler! 🤣🤣

Dragonflytamer · 03/03/2026 18:22

IAmTheFloorCleaner · 03/03/2026 18:19

I didn’t realise it was there too! I get kids take their trousers off but there are limits!!

To be fair when you adult role models, Flop and Amma, are permanently naked it must be a bit confusing.

In real life Flop would not be in the park. He would be on a register.