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To report neighbour to mortgage company

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TidyWriter · 02/03/2026 22:08

We have an unpleasant busybody neighbour who complains about absolutely everything. The most recent example is her knocking on our door to tell us off for having a laundry dryer/horse visible from the outside. It's against the rules to leave them on the balcony, so we left ours in the doorway with the door open to the balcony, but inside.

She reported us to the building council and asked our other neighbour to have a word. Insane.

Anyway, we have proof that she is using her dining room to rent out for airbnb guests. This is strictly against our lease, and a serious breach of a lease is against almost all mortgage rules.

AIBU to report her to the mortgage company?

OP posts:
CautiousLurker2 · 02/03/2026 22:36

LeiaOrganaBananaHamock · 02/03/2026 22:10

How will you know who her mortgage is with?

It’s on the land registry docs as someone who has a charge against the property.

Dollymylove · 02/03/2026 22:31

I would report the nasty busybody. After posting some dog excrement through her letterbox 😐 (im so juvenile) 😅

InOverMyHead84 · 02/03/2026 22:25

HeisseWeisseSchokolade · 02/03/2026 22:10

Live by the sword, die by the sword.

Extremely well put.

Renenma · 02/03/2026 22:23

I came here ready to tell you to keep it to yourself, but having read your post, screw her lol
id report her

TidyWriter · 02/03/2026 22:12

Leasehold flats, the info is available on land registry

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TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 02/03/2026 22:12

Lmnop22 · 02/03/2026 22:11

How is against her lease if she owns the place and has a mortgage?

Good point.

Lmnop22 · 02/03/2026 22:11

How is against her lease if she owns the place and has a mortgage?

NailsHairNipsHeels · 02/03/2026 22:11

She sounds insane. I’d have no issues reporting her.

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 02/03/2026 22:11

LeiaOrganaBananaHamock · 02/03/2026 22:10

How will you know who her mortgage is with?

Ha!

HeisseWeisseSchokolade · 02/03/2026 22:10

Live by the sword, die by the sword.

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LeiaOrganaBananaHamock · 02/03/2026 22:10

How will you know who her mortgage is with?

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 02/03/2026 22:10

I'm sure you've posted about this before.

Anyway, I'd report the interfering busybody.

randomchap · 02/03/2026 22:09

Do it, but anonymously

sundaysurfing · 02/03/2026 22:09

Nah do it - she reported you guys first lol.