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Would you travel to America this year?

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lilacleopards · 02/03/2026 21:05

Would you go to Disney world Orlando this year? We were considering booking for us and our 2 children, was meant to book it tonight.
I’m really unsure with the current condition of the world right now.
what would you do?

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Kyogo67 · 05/03/2026 15:34

I will not returning to US for holidays until he is gone. I doubt they would let me in anyway given my social media is full of support for Palestine etc and very anti Trump and Israel .

JHound · 05/03/2026 15:20

mathanxiety · 05/03/2026 13:41

SA was a much smaller economy, and the boycott affected people with a stake in it, plus sports people and other prominent /elite groups.

None of that applies to the US.

I am sure the apartheid regime never noticed my mother's individual boycott of their products but she still did it. The Greek restaurant near my old house never noticed my one-woman boycott due to their sexist HR policies but I still refused to go there. Sometimes boycotts are simply about people's own moral values even if they don't think they have the mass to effect real change.

Goditsmemargaret · 05/03/2026 15:19

Fuck no

JHound · 05/03/2026 15:17

KatiePricesKnickers · 05/03/2026 14:21

Some provocative language there. Trump has a ‘regime’, not a government, and supposedly they are now ‘hostile’ to the UK?

How is it provocative? It's used for other regimes all across the planet. And his complete disregard for law within his own country is fitting.

And I think you would have to be deaf and blind not to think the Trump regime is hostile to the UK.

StandFirm · 05/03/2026 14:41

KatiePricesKnickers · 05/03/2026 14:21

Some provocative language there. Trump has a ‘regime’, not a government, and supposedly they are now ‘hostile’ to the UK?

The problem is that 'government' is a tad absent to say the least. The strikes/war on Iran hasn't gone through congress, the Department of Justice keeps flip flopping as soon as DJT complains, he rules by decree (executive orders all the time)... so I am really struggling to see much 'government' apart from the President himself. What defines a democracy is checks and balances, making sure that the executive branch are kept accountable. It's abundantly clear that the concept is of no interest to Trump. For him, the rule of law is only about what he 'feels' and his 'own morality'. As someone who used to travel to the US very regularly for the last decades until very recently, I wish none of that were the case but this is where we are.

DdraigGoch · 05/03/2026 14:25

KitsyWitsy · 05/03/2026 13:28

I think they have a huge number of people entering the country illegally and everyone is treated the same regardless of whether they are British or not. I agree it sounds awful and disproportionate but the rules are the same for everyone and not difficult to follow.

The US Constitution is the same for everyone on US soil, yet the current admin are being extremely selective with it at the moment.

KatiePricesKnickers · 05/03/2026 14:21

JHound · 05/03/2026 12:32

Not with Trump there - or more importantly his regime and the support it has.

Also I cannot be arsed with the fear of all the weird border hassle and stories we are hearing.

Maybe when it’s calmer and less openly hostile to the UK.

And if I was going to visit it would only be to blue states or because I had to go for work.

Some provocative language there. Trump has a ‘regime’, not a government, and supposedly they are now ‘hostile’ to the UK?

mathanxiety · 05/03/2026 13:41

MrsTerryPratchett · 02/03/2026 21:11

Just wondering, were you around for the SA apartheid boycott?

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SA was a much smaller economy, and the boycott affected people with a stake in it, plus sports people and other prominent /elite groups.

None of that applies to the US.

KitsyWitsy · 05/03/2026 13:28

DdraigGoch · 04/03/2026 21:44

Ah, sorry. It's entering the country that is a civil matter. Regardless locking her up is grossly disproportionate and the conditions in these detention facilities are utterly inhumane.

Was she remanded by a court then? You know, was her detention reviewed by a judge in accordance with her habeas corpus constitutional rights?

I think they have a huge number of people entering the country illegally and everyone is treated the same regardless of whether they are British or not. I agree it sounds awful and disproportionate but the rules are the same for everyone and not difficult to follow.

Marlaysydney12 · 05/03/2026 13:09

I wouldn't go. I would rather spend my tourist $ somewhere else. Also guns, ice and bad coffee.

I'd go to Paris, Disneyland Paris and here https://www.puydufou.com/france/en/must-see-france. This place blew my mind as a kid!

2thumbs · 05/03/2026 12:36

If you’re white and your social media is fairly benign wrt political issues, there shouldn’t be an issue for you

JHound · 05/03/2026 12:32

Not with Trump there - or more importantly his regime and the support it has.

Also I cannot be arsed with the fear of all the weird border hassle and stories we are hearing.

Maybe when it’s calmer and less openly hostile to the UK.

And if I was going to visit it would only be to blue states or because I had to go for work.

19lottie82 · 05/03/2026 12:29

Yes, we are going to Orlando in June.

TheEllisGreyMethod · 05/03/2026 12:28

We're a mixed race family, it's not a position I will be putting my kids in.

DdraigGoch · 04/03/2026 21:44

KatiePricesKnickers · 04/03/2026 17:53

@DdraigGoch ’Overstaying a visa (or whatever is not a criminal matter.’

Really?
”If an individual overstays a visa (or otherwise fails to comply with the conditions of a visa) for 10 days or more, on first offense the individual shall be subject to fines or imprisonment for up to six months, or both. For subsequent violations, the individual shall be subject to fines or imprisonment of up to two years, or both.”

@DdraigGoch ’Besides, don't alleged criminals have to go before a court so that the accusations can be proven before they are imprisoned?’

She wasn’t imprisoned, she was remanded in custody until they could deal with her.

Ah, sorry. It's entering the country that is a civil matter. Regardless locking her up is grossly disproportionate and the conditions in these detention facilities are utterly inhumane.

Was she remanded by a court then? You know, was her detention reviewed by a judge in accordance with her habeas corpus constitutional rights?

KatiePricesKnickers · 04/03/2026 17:53

@DdraigGoch ’Overstaying a visa (or whatever is not a criminal matter.’

Really?
”If an individual overstays a visa (or otherwise fails to comply with the conditions of a visa) for 10 days or more, on first offense the individual shall be subject to fines or imprisonment for up to six months, or both. For subsequent violations, the individual shall be subject to fines or imprisonment of up to two years, or both.”

@DdraigGoch ’Besides, don't alleged criminals have to go before a court so that the accusations can be proven before they are imprisoned?’

She wasn’t imprisoned, she was remanded in custody until they could deal with her.

HRTQueen · 04/03/2026 10:25

Yes and I shall be

Its a country where there are areas I would not go to but that’s not new

life for the vast majority of Americans is carrying on as normal

DdraigGoch · 04/03/2026 10:20

KatiePricesKnickers · 03/03/2026 18:52

She is a criminal, and was treated as such.
Don’t violate foreign countries rules.
It’s not difficult.

Overstaying a visa (or whatever is not a criminal matter.

Besides, don't alleged criminals have to go before a court so that the accusations can be proven before they are imprisoned? That's what happens in civilised countries anyway...

Lincslady53 · 03/03/2026 22:42

We were considering Memphis, Nashville and New Orleans, but one DT started f ing about with tariffs, I thought, no, they are not having my money. Hopefully. We will still be fit enough when they see sense and vote in a decent Pres, till then f em.

MrsTerryPratchett · 03/03/2026 22:28

Ophir · 03/03/2026 22:01

Agreed. The hysteria is bonkers

No panic or hysterics. Are you on a different thread?

Summerbay23 · 03/03/2026 22:06

Icecreamisthebest · 02/03/2026 21:09

No. Holidays are supposed to be looked forward to with excitement and anticipation. I would not be able to do that with the US.

This. For so many reasons I couldn’t go at the moment but mainly because of Trump and his politics.

Ophir · 03/03/2026 22:01

LadyVioletBridgerton · 03/03/2026 21:18

Yes. Been once already and off again later in the year. People need to stop panicking.

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Agreed. The hysteria is bonkers

LadyVioletBridgerton · 03/03/2026 21:18

Yes. Been once already and off again later in the year. People need to stop panicking.

Offherrockingchair · 03/03/2026 21:15

No and we lived there for years, DC dual citizens. Had a great time when Obama was
in the WH, wouldn’t go now.

Lonelycrab · 03/03/2026 21:12

DeepBlueDeer · 03/03/2026 20:48

I do think its deeply unpatriotic for a British person to visit the US.

They were willing to go to war over Greenland (before buckling due to the EU's threats), are leveraging their economic clout against the UK, have made very clear their unwillingness to defend the UK/Europe - despite the UK having duly supported the US several times, and have repeatedly denigrated the sacrifices of British troops who have given their lives or suffered horrendous injuries while doing so.

Needlessly giving money to a country that's becoming increasingly adversarial to our interests, and whose power comes from its economy, just seems really scummy.

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I do think its deeply unpatriotic for a British person to visit the US

Thoroughly agree. Trump has desecrated any notion of law or the constitution and is dragging the US essentially into the gutter with his deranged actions. It/he has become a cult now and very uncomfortable to watch. These events will not play out well with hindsight and history once he’s (hopefully soon) gone, but I think it’s in everyone’s interests (well any rational person’s interest) to distance themselves from this car crash administration.

Us tourism figures are plummeting. US stocks and currency is down. Go figure.

Who would want to go anywhere near something like he’s created…
Certainly not me until they see sense.

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