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To be annoyed at the Aldi staff

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Outandabout43 · 02/03/2026 19:26

I've noticed in the last few months that whenever I go to Aldi the checkout staff are always chatting to colleagues over their headset. Ive noticed it in a lot of different Aldis that I have been to. I wouldn't mind so much if the conversation was in regards to the store / work, but more often then not its about plans for the weekend etc. I'm not saying its all staff as some really are friendly and lovely, but am i wrong to think the ones that do are rather rude? It really gets my back up, the same as when the customer is having a phone conversation when being served.

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brightnails · 04/03/2026 17:48

at my local Aldi one of the staff was chatting to us in a completely normal way as he scanned fast/we packed fast then a colleague close by said “John is talking to his customer” into her headset as if it was a problem! Very off putting of her. I tried to email to defend him but it bounced back- of course- not impressed. they’re all nice when you actually speak to them

mjhx · 04/03/2026 08:56

HappyMuma · 02/03/2026 20:27

It doesn’t actually bother me. I’m not customer facing in my job, I get to chat with my colleagues at my desk. I don’t begrudge anyone else doing it.

Same. As long as my shopping is being scanned and the job is being done why can't they chat to make there day go quicker.
Unless it's highly inappropriate things to be talking about then I see an issue but come on, we spend more time at work than at home mostly, let them find some fun and happiness in a long days work lol

2chocolateoranges · 03/03/2026 18:54

I’ve worked in retail but when I was serving a customer my focus was on them , not on a phone or my colleagues.

Hiddenhouse · 03/03/2026 17:45

I think they’re expected to do this by management. The staff in our stores are lovely and dealing with pressure to work at pace as the stores are so busy

BringBackCatsEyes · 03/03/2026 17:44

Hesperatum · 02/03/2026 19:40

In our local Lidl, the staff are lovely, friendly and helpful. The staff in Sainsbury’s, the less said, the better.

There’s only about 3 staff members in our Sainsbury’s.

LittleGreenDragons · 03/03/2026 17:40

ForPearlViper · 02/03/2026 22:31

Aldi are the highest paying supermarket and Lidl the second.

I know. I was joking. Most of us aren't unwashed either.

CeciliaMars · 03/03/2026 17:25

When I went to Aldi the other day, the young lady was on her phone, explaining to me that she was trying to get concert tickets, as she served me! Yeah it's not great.

Andylion · 03/03/2026 16:29

I have worked in a supermarket and in two department stores. I know it can be a difficult job.

Andylion · 03/03/2026 16:15

WiseMoose · 02/03/2026 22:24

They are supposed to be giving their attention to the customer.

I agree. I have no issue with people talking at work, but not to the extent that they ignore me.

At my regular supermarket, there used to be one staff member who ignored me, not to talk to other staff, she just remained silent. I always had to ask for the total. She would point to the screen over the till, and I had to explain that I couldn’t see it, (shitty vision).

I think there is a broader issue at play in that some staff don’t realize that paying for your groceries at a staffed till is a transaction; it requires two people.

At my friend’s cottage (in a small town in cottage country in Ontario) there are no self charge machines in the two grocery stores. I am always taken aback at how friendly the staff are. I wonder if there is a correlation?

Carlie97 · 03/03/2026 15:52

I agree. It's the same in my local Heron. I didn't even get a hello or goodbye last time as they were so busy conversating over their headsets.

purplecorkheart · 03/03/2026 15:19

I am in Ireland and have not come across this very often if at all. Most retail staff in my experience here chat to the customer. I do notice it in shops when I visit the UK a lot more. I am bemused by it.

Stressedoutmummyof3 · 03/03/2026 15:16

Retail staff can't win
If they are nice and offer a season's greeting they get customers moaning about that (although I think most normal customers wouldn't actually moan about that). If they don't chat they're rude.
Both DH and I have worked in retail and we've both said it should be compulsory for every adult to work in retail or hospitality because then I bet customers wouldn't moan so much.

Mermaidsarereal · 03/03/2026 15:09

The staff at my local Aldi are extremely rude. I had a guy serve me with my food shop and he had a headset on talking away and said “ooh very unhealthy food shop here!” to his mate!

SolarSystemmm · 03/03/2026 13:24

WhatAMarvelousTune · 03/03/2026 13:07

It’s a bit rude though. To be standing with a customer, facing them etc, and chatting away to someone else.

Ive worked in two supermarkets and one high street shop over the years, and none of my checkout managers would have thought this was ok. And I’d agree with them

To be fair, I’d rather they chatted away to someone else rather than me, I hate small talk with strangers. So if they’re chatting and that helps thej
enjoy their day, go ahead. As long as they pay attention to you when you need the attention ie you want to ask a question, the rest wouldn’t bother me, just let me get my shopping and go. I worked in retail for a long time, it’s a bloody awful job and sometimes your colleagues are what can save you from going insane. I never chatted on headsets as we never had them, but wouldn’t begrudge others doing so

HangryBrickShark · 03/03/2026 13:18

I've noticed it at pur Aldi but quite often it's the girls when they're stacking the shelves so I know what you mean.

Triskellion75 · 03/03/2026 13:16

Many moons ago, when I worked on the checkout of a now extinct supermarket chain, this would have been a huge no no. You weren't just scanning shopping and taking money, you were trained to remember that you gave good customer service to ensure customers came back.

Shit, rude staff are the main reason I rarely go in to Asda even though there is one practically on my doorstep. It's also why I love self service.

WhatAMarvelousTune · 03/03/2026 13:07

dadtoateen · 02/03/2026 20:15

Do they carry out the job to the required standard? I can only assume so….
does it hamper your time at the till? Doubt it.

It’s a bit rude though. To be standing with a customer, facing them etc, and chatting away to someone else.

Ive worked in two supermarkets and one high street shop over the years, and none of my checkout managers would have thought this was ok. And I’d agree with them

notnorman · 03/03/2026 13:03

OvernightBloats · 03/03/2026 08:42

Don't mind shop staff chatting away on the headsets at all. Bad mouthing other customers within earshot is where it crosses the line. That is unprofessional.

It wasn’t great tbh. Made me very wary of using that shop in case I was next!

Cherrysoup · 03/03/2026 12:56

ParmaVioletTea · 03/03/2026 11:59

How to turn a friendly inconsequential bit of chat into a grievance, FFS.

More extrapolation. Turn it into a grievance? Hardly. I again just reiterate that perhaps you shouldn't say anything.

Cherrysoup · 03/03/2026 12:55

Stressedoutmummyof3 · 03/03/2026 11:55

You were annoyed because he wished you happy new year. It's not like he was offensive. Most people would just say thanks you too regardless of if they celebrate it or not.
Still at least it would have given him and his colleagues something to laugh about at break time.
You sound like hard work.

mumsnet trope.

Womaninhouse17 · 03/03/2026 12:21

Cherrysoup · 03/03/2026 11:31

You're extrapolating. At no point did I say I snapped or was in any way rude/short.

I think the reply you said you gave was rude. Someone was saying something well meant to you. There's no need to correct them. Just smile, thank them (if you can bring yourself to do so) and get on with your day.

ParmaVioletTea · 03/03/2026 11:59

Cherrysoup · 03/03/2026 08:23

But what if it isn't your new year? What if I'm Jewish or another religion/ethnicity that celebrates at a different time? I just think that you shouldn't bang on about it unless you know the person celebrates.

How to turn a friendly inconsequential bit of chat into a grievance, FFS.

Stressedoutmummyof3 · 03/03/2026 11:55

Cherrysoup · 03/03/2026 07:15

Most till staff are fine, bar a bloke in Asda who I avoid assiduously because he literally gives you quiz questions, absolutely no idea why, I was taken aback then he started again when I was in there again with my DH. One time, he wished me a happy new year and I asked him if he thought everyone celebrated January 1st.

In Tesco one day, the till lady was banging on at length about doing a customer survey and pointing out various things on the receipt to a customer in front, very patronising manner, maybe because the customer was older? I may have rolled my eyes because she didn’t do it to me. For several weeks running, I noticed this in Tesco, the staff must have been instructed to request this of customers.

You were annoyed because he wished you happy new year. It's not like he was offensive. Most people would just say thanks you too regardless of if they celebrate it or not.
Still at least it would have given him and his colleagues something to laugh about at break time.
You sound like hard work.

CurlewKate · 03/03/2026 11:53

Cherrysoup · 03/03/2026 11:31

You're extrapolating. At no point did I say I snapped or was in any way rude/short.

Any response except “Thank you-happy new year to you too” would have been rude. The same way you respond to any seasonal greeting.

Cherrysoup · 03/03/2026 11:31

Womaninhouse17 · 03/03/2026 09:08

Whatever religion or ethnicity you are, January 1st is January 1st. It goes from one calendar year to another, like 2025 to 2026. Of course, you might not want somebody to have a happy year, in which case just don't say anything. There's no need to snap back at someone who's wishing you a happy year.

You're extrapolating. At no point did I say I snapped or was in any way rude/short.

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