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To feel guilty about going on holiday to Jordan/Mount Sinai

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Twodogsonthecouch · 02/03/2026 13:30

I’m due to fly to Jordan on 28th March for 8 days and then on to Mount Sinai and Dahab for 4 days. I’m really looking forward to seeing Petra, Wadi Rum the Dead Sea as well as climbing Mount Sinai and snorkelling in the Red Sea.
Obviously I will be following government advice on whether or not it is safe to go so that’s not really my question. It’s more that I feel funny about going on holiday to somewhere where it must be very emotive and scary for those living there. It feels somehow voyeuristic.
Is this just me being silly and overthinking it?

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Twodogsonthecouch · 04/03/2026 07:32

No definitely not retired self employed and partner in the practice so theoretically no one to fire me 🤯. Would not be able to work remotely though

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RedRiverShore6 · 04/03/2026 07:30

Would it matter if you didn't get home work wise, some jobs it would be particularly bad if you didn't but of course you might be retired or in the kind of work that doesn't matter with this.

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 04/03/2026 07:28

And @Twodogsonthecouch as a side note, we should all be checking our insurance for exclusions. Apparently it isn’t as comprehensive as we assume and the current situation could quite likely leave us exposed.

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 04/03/2026 07:26

@Friendlygingercat did you say your niece and her wife are happy in UAE? I was under the impression that was a bit risky. I’d be pleased to discover otherwise…

Seaswimmers1 · 04/03/2026 07:19

On a side note 'Stars Valley Camp' in Wadi Rum was amazing. Would highly recomment them. Super comfy and reasonably priced accomodation and can directly book jeep tour and camel ride with them. Half day afternoon arrival jeep tour best option and overnight camp. We were actually the only ones in the camp when we stayed. Amazing place!

Seaswimmers1 · 04/03/2026 07:16

Having recently visited my son in Jordan and speaking to him on the phone just yesterday the Jordanians are carrying on as normal atm. Think it would be fine to still visit from a moral point of view if you feel it safe to do so. We went in October 2025 and Jordanians were very happy to see tourists and our driver actually spoke about how the lack of tourists had made it so much harder on the economy so they are very welcoming, and such a friendly nation. But my husband who was due to fly out on Monday 9th March has just made decision to cancel on safety grounds and becuase evening flights are not being allowed to fly atm so not sure he would have made it there anyway. Still not sure if we made right decision on that one but only time will tell. Sadly insurance saying wont get any money back if we cancel as 'natural disaster' not covered? Flights, I think can pick a different date, but no refund. Depends how happy you feel with the 'risk' at the time but morally I don't see a problem as you will be supporting the economy.

PurpleThistle7 · 03/03/2026 11:21

Personally I would feel terribly guilty about going. Not because I don't think it's important to support the local businesses, but because I'm well aware that I'd be another problem for them if something else happened. I was born in Israel but haven't been back in years now as I do not want to be someone's responsibility to solve. I don't know how it all works, I don't speak the language, I don't know how to act or what to do in a bunker and I don't have any way to help anyone if something terrible happens. I'm a liability to them. And then I become another problem to someone else if they need to get me out. So I think it is terribly irresponsible to add to their plate and if your actual goal is to support them financially, there are many other ways to do so.

(And agree it wasn't the point, but you almost certainly would void your travel insurance. As per all the people who were massively out of pocket during covid (including me), most insurers - particularly the year long sort - have a lot of clauses around terrorism and war and global pandemics.)

Owl55 · 03/03/2026 11:12

I think travel insurance is void in a war situation ?

KenAdams · 03/03/2026 00:18

Twodogsonthecouch · 02/03/2026 20:52

I’ll hold on for a few weeks and see what pans out. Most of our accommodation is Bedouin guesthouses so not expensive. Haven’t actually booked wadi rum yet

I've booked Wadi Rum too. I won't bother trying to contact anyone this week or maybe even next week as they'll have their hands full but will see what happens before I cancel.

MrsHamlet · 02/03/2026 20:58

I'm meant to be going at the end of the month. Had the advice not changed, I would have gone.

Hoping to simply move the trip.

Twodogsonthecouch · 02/03/2026 20:52

KenAdams · 02/03/2026 20:31

Same. What are you doing about your hotels etc?

I’ll hold on for a few weeks and see what pans out. Most of our accommodation is Bedouin guesthouses so not expensive. Haven’t actually booked wadi rum yet

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KenAdams · 02/03/2026 20:31

Twodogsonthecouch · 02/03/2026 19:08

Looks like my decision may be made for me. Thanks to everyone for your input 🙏

Same. What are you doing about your hotels etc?

Cluckingchicken · 02/03/2026 19:53

For anyone planning after this. Jerash is also interesting and not far off Ajloun castle worth a visit. There is a reseve with small centre with handmade stuff and the soap and biscuits are AM azing (ajloun zip line is best to find iton google) . Jewelry as well.
Essentially soooo many interesting places from north to south.
Jordan museum is really good too. Really interactive, fun for all ages

Quine0nline · 02/03/2026 19:53

Presuming that it's safe to go as per FO advice and common sense, the countries which are being attacked by Iran will be happy for foreign tourism income.

TightlyLacedCorset · 02/03/2026 19:31

I so want to go and see Petra. I would hate to change my plans.

Why feel guilty? Those people will need your tourism cash more than anything. I regret not going earlier, I've been a fool seeing the Palestinian genocide whilst knowing there was a strong eventuality that the bombardment would grow to encompass the other countries in the region.

I doubt I shall get there now

donfoxtrot · 02/03/2026 19:23

Enyastar · 02/03/2026 14:47

Even if you end up in hospital?
Let me get this straight. You are prepared to risk travelling to a country which borders an active war zone, even if your travel insurance is deemed null and void??

And you main concern is that the locals wont be very hospitable!!

FML

She’s not said that at all. She said she has insurance but if she’s needs to cancel and her insurance won’t pay out then she’ll take the financial hit.
if you’re going to get all sneery with the OP at least get your facts right!

Cluckingchicken · 02/03/2026 19:15

It may still change. We went in October 24 between israel and iran shooting at each other over them and it was absolutely fine.
Admittedly that time, therest wasn't involved.
In that 3 week situation can change 3x.

But if you can cancel or postpone now without penalty, I would do it. May be that you wouldn't be able to do so later

whiteroseredrose · 02/03/2026 19:13

Twodogsonthecouch · 02/03/2026 16:02

Thanks for the information. That’s actually unchanged from what it has been for years as it is for parts of Jordan and those parts are the border with Syria. The rest of Jordan is fine at the moment though

Unfortunately it is about all of Jordan now. Like you I was planning on going in April if Jordan was ‘FCO green’. Now it is amber so only essential travel.

If it goes green again in April we will probably still go.

Twodogsonthecouch · 02/03/2026 19:08

Looks like my decision may be made for me. Thanks to everyone for your input 🙏

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InWithPeaceOutWithStress · 02/03/2026 19:07

The locals depend on tourism and would be happy to see you

Cluckingchicken · 02/03/2026 19:06

I just want to note it was updated on the site after I pointed out the "parts" 🙈
It was green before.
Just so i don't look like illiterate bastard

HisNibs · 02/03/2026 19:04

Antsinmypantsneedtodance · 02/03/2026 18:25

Sadly not. Was updated today. All but essential travel to Jordan as a whole. The fcdo website states this..

"Latest update:
FCDO now advises against all but essential travel to Jordan. FCDO continues to advise against all travel to within 3km of the border with Syria."

Updated about 1 hour ago.

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Just about to say the same. It has been updated today. The whole of Jordan is now essential travel only

Antsinmypantsneedtodance · 02/03/2026 18:25

Twodogsonthecouch · 02/03/2026 16:02

Thanks for the information. That’s actually unchanged from what it has been for years as it is for parts of Jordan and those parts are the border with Syria. The rest of Jordan is fine at the moment though

Sadly not. Was updated today. All but essential travel to Jordan as a whole. The fcdo website states this..

"Latest update:
FCDO now advises against all but essential travel to Jordan. FCDO continues to advise against all travel to within 3km of the border with Syria."

Updated about 1 hour ago.

auserna · 02/03/2026 17:56

Twodogsonthecouch · 02/03/2026 14:08

I completely understand I won’t be there if flights aren’t going or if the government advice changes. What I’m trying to figure out is how I feel about going as things are this minute. As people say, the Jordanian people need and welcome tourists in general. But is it hedonistic to go on holiday to somewhere where people are unsafe in neighbouring areas. Or is it self indulgent to cancel if it’s not necessary and rob people of their livelihood

I don't think you're unreasonable to consider these things, but in a way it's a bit arbitrary. Whatever happens will happen whether you're in Jordan or in the UK, or at any point in between, so unless it's a choice between going and spending that time doing some sort of charity work for the people of Jordan, you may as well go (assuming, as you said, the FO says it's safe to do so).