So...ive got new neighbour's and they have a dog. So do I. The fences are high and secure so they can't see each other, only smell each other through fence. My dog is not a barker. Their dog is and has barked and growled at fence which took my dog by surprise and he followed suit and growled and barked back. I told him off and brought him back indoors as they were scratching at the fence trying to get to one another. Next time I could hear their dog I distracted my dog with balls and games and kept chasing him away from fence. This works most of the time but if I go indoors to get a drink or let him have a little run out there on his own the other dog kicks off and he responds. Its nearly always me bringing my dog in and telling him off. I dont hear them telling their dog off. Now they have put a note through door asking if I can only let my dog in the garden if im out there with him. I have frequently brought my dog in when their dog is kicking off at mine but they rarely tell their dog off or take him in. Ive already stopped leaving patio door open for him to wander in and out. I always bring him in if they start at each other thru fence. Im not now only letting him out when I can be out there too. Its not practical. What would you do? Its making me anxious and angry.