So it's a husband one.
He works full time but chooses to do so overtime everyday and leaves the house at 4:30am.
I had a workplace injury last year and have been signed off work. (I do multiple therapy sessions)
DH thinks it's totally normal to wake me at 4:00am to make him tea, get his clothes out. Or to have sex before he goes to work.
I am a person who really needs my sleep, and unfortunately I don't sleep too well at night.
If I don't get up with him he will turn all lights on and leave them on. So I'm forced awake.
I have to wake the children at 6:30am for school so it's not like I sleep until 10:00am!
now this brings me to my who's being unreasonable question, DH also wakes early at the weekend. Probably because he sleeps around 3 hours every evening on the sofa.
He has always had an issue that I don't wake as early as he does. Obviously if we have plans or whatever I am first up.
I do absolutely everything, I make all beds, get everyone's clothes out, I do 100% of cooking and cleaning, if it's a house job I do it! I do all the kids after school activities.
DH will try to wake me at 3-4am every weekend and says if we have sex he will just go back to sleep. I don't want to have sex at death o'clock! I want to sleep!!!!
I have dark rings around my eyes. And a husband who is constantly pissy with me because he says I'm lazy.
so who's being unreasonable?