We were raised in a home with an unstable, alcoholic mother, lots of domestic violence, suicide attempts. I was subject to some physical abuse from my father and an enormous barrage of verbal and emotional abuse from my drunk mother. I was SA as a 6 year old on one of their benders by the teenage daughter of one of their friends. I told them about this year's later and they ignored me, later welcoming that person into their home.
I bore the brunt. So I am not in contact with my parents. My brother just pretends nothing is wrong. He goes about his business as if it was all normal. AIBU to feel hurt that he has never had the balls to call this out? I dont expect him to go NC or even say anything to my parents at all, but he could at least acknowledge it to me. I know he knows. He told me once in a single sentence, that he remembers.
I haven't said anything to him, but this is starting to burn a hole in my brain. I feel hurt and irrational. It feels like he is taking sides just by his lack of anything. I tried talking him about it and ever since he has been distant.
EDIT to fix autocorrect.