To think that real life sex isn’t like TV?

After 3 hours in the bath pleasuring "him", then overnight into day when sore down there, nipples cracked, sleep deprived, mouth dry, limbs aching - no it's not mind blowing after enduring 20 years of it at least weekly. The odd time maybe initially but after that you must be joking, it's torture.

Only in the first month or so

Of course they do, given the chance. But probably not with men.

People actually have this kind of sex very often. It is a performance that women enact in order to make men feel good about their prowess. It's just pretend.

Nope, that's just you I'm afraid. Pick better men. Or if you're gay, pick women. But don't spread utter bullshit about women's sexuality that simply isn't true.

It's a really misogynistic standpoint to suggest that straight women can't enjoy sex with men.

Of course they do, given the chance. But probably not with men.

Of course they do, given the chance. But probably not with men.

I mean I’ve never continually rearranged the bedding so nothing but my shoulders are visible.

Why do none of the men in Bridgerton have syphillis? Surely Benedict is responsible for super gonorrheoa however you spell it.

I mean I’ve also never picked a table/worktop etc that has loads of things on it that I’ve had to sweep off with my arm before sitting on it.

No one seems to get cramp during sex, calf cramps are a bastard and then you’re screaming for a different reason.

The most realistic sex scenes I have ever seen are in heated rivarly, particularly one in the last episode to the point that you feel you’re intruding by watching.

I mean it doesn’t have to be earth shattering, but you should be having a great time.

Nope, women enjoy sex as much as men do.

HTH.

People actually have this kind of sex very often. It is a performance that women enact in order to make men feel good about their prowess. It's just pretend.

People actually have this kind of sex very often. It is a performance that women enact in order to make men feel good about their prowess. It's just pretend.

People actually have this kind of sex very often. It is a performance that women enact in order to make men feel good about their prowess. It's just pretend.

People actually have this kind of sex very often. It is a performance that women enact in order to make men feel good about their prowess. It's just pretend.

People actually have this kind of sex very often. It is a performance that women enact in order to make men feel good about their prowess. It's just pretend.

People actually have this kind of sex very often. It is a performance that women enact in order to make men feel good about their prowess. It's just pretend.

Well yes, but are people actually having this kind of sex in real life?!

I haven’t watched this series yet OP. But I have to say until the age of 40, I’d had only normal, good often sex, which did not look like in the movies, it wasn’t a caricature of terrible, but it was a pleasant 20 mins, with reasonable satiation and some high points.

at the age of 40 I met a man with whom I discovered a ‘ten floors higher’ level of sexual excitement, and rumbustious table-breaking, Vase-smashing ecstasy., and it was a revelation. It is good this man treated me well in other ways, because I would have been incapable of breaking up with him and going back to what I think of now as ‘normal human’ sex. Honestly, he could have charged £5000 a night and I would have paid it (until going bankrupt!) I remember thinking at the time if most people knew sex like that existed, there would be riots in the streets for it . he’s my husband now. Eight years later, we’ve calmed down a bit but God, I still have eyes-roll-back-in-head , tap-out-from-ecstasy experiences at least a few times a month, with a lot of damn good sex in between.

Our bathroom is downstairs so I definitely need something to catch it as I waddle down the stairs with my legs clenched together. It is not a good look! 😂